My favorite answers are:
- the guys have mommy/woman/authority issues (in general who gives them the most love as a kid? An older woman. Who gives them the most support and guidance? Older women. Who takes charge of them and teaches them things? Older women. Who tends to compliment the most? Older women. Who feeds them most of their life? An older woman. Who will fight but not run away dramatic or make it all about her? Older women. Who don't see them as threatening and plays with them? Older women.)

- commitment issues, afraid to commit, so look for relationships that are guaranteed to fail (due to age difference)

- older women have a life time of developing communication skills.
Younger women have to develop them together with the guy. Older women can take up his slack. Older women = "beta" male bait, followers.

- older women tend to be more scared of growing older. They try harder to look younger, ends up looking more glamorous, more effort put into the visual, years of experimenting what works for them rather than just adopting trends and hoping it doesn't look stupid.

- older women tend to have jobs and more money, better lifestyles.
Less chance he's being used for money, greater chance she'll pay for herself, greater chance she'll share her lifestyle with him.

- older women have higher sex drives the closer they are to perimenopause. more raging hormones. this can come off as desperate, not necessarily in an obvious way but still conveyed. desperate = less work and effort. not to mention it can come across as only seeking sexual gratification without commitment.

- older women are seen as more strong. greater strength means less potential harm if relationship fails, less potential harm less potential victimization.

- social position, status, is easier determined in older women than younger. routine life, established, life, job, family. older women have a developed social status. it's almost always higher than younger women albeit not obvious like for other circumstances e.g. president vs. gardener, rock star vs. janitor.

This site & many others, advertises as a Cougar site. So, getting hit on by younger men, especially newcomers is inevitable.

hi

hi

It's funny I know I'm 46 get I get alot of 25 year olds in love lol to funny on here

I don't think there is anything bad in loving woman older.

It's self interest.

If you don't quit lying

I'd smash though

How silly.

Obviously, there are a variety of reasons, just as there are a variety of reasons why some men DON'T chase women way older or younger than they are.

The absolute MOST common reason why anyone goes after anyone:

Can you guess?

Sexual attraction. Duh. It's programmed into everyone.

Now. If you ASK people why they are doing something, and they realize that you either disapprove of what they are doing, or find it "odd," then they WILL come up with a cover story to try to make themselves appear to be either rational, or "hip." Most of the time, it will be a lie, often a lie they are telling themselves at the same time.

Most younger PEOPLE in general, only use their rational minds AFTER the fact, to figure out a way for it to be okay that they are about to, or just did, have sex with someone who is much older than they are. Male and female alike.

"Because older women are more rational?" BS. Sorry, no insult intended, but rationality isn't a function of age.

Number one reason I would bet that more young males are FORTHRIGHT about going after older women (and pretending to be interested in a long term deal) is because of the last decade or so of media promotion of the "cougar" concept.

But they've been chasing the older women for as long as I've been around.


Heck, for lots of guys, the first woman they got the hot trots for, wasn't the little girl in the seat next to them in elementary school. It was the teacher. And that sure as heck wasn't because they thought "gee, I'll bet she's more patient, knowledgeable, and loving, than all the chippies to my left and right."

I personally like mature women because they fed up with drama, attention, they just want to be f*cked and reach multiple orgasms and they looking after me instead of me looking after them. lol

I personally like mature women because they fed up with drama, attention, they just want to be f*cked and reach multiple orgasms and they looking after me instead of me looking after them. lol

I am interested message me gorgeous

i am only interested in my age..BUT I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY YOUNG GUYS ARE

ATTRACTED TO MATURE WOMEN....THE YOUNG ONES LOOK GOOD BUT THEY LACK LIFE

EXPERIENCE FOR MOST PART LIKE THE YOUNG GUYS DO....

us younger men go for older women cause older women are not indecisive. they know what they want out of a man and they don't play games

hi sunbeach45, are YOU interested in younger/ fitter men?

how do you feel about this?

warmly

bobbie

I am interested

For centuries it has been perfectly acceptable for an older man to marry a much younger woman. Why should it be such an issue or taboo now for older women to date or marry younger men?? It's all a matter of choice and is up to each individual person to decide. Would I date a twentysomething? No, because I prefer a higher maturity level mentally and emotionally. But that is my choice.

Hi you look so beautiful