Well heres my story, not for sure if this is where i post it, but ill get it right sooner or later...Late June i met a gal across the internet, we talked for months upon months. I traveled Clear from VA (where i was living at the time), Clear to WI...The Relatinoship well for 3 days, we had a blast. We Walked around town, went swimming, went out on dates...i was the sweetest person i could be around her, i loved her so much and didnt wanna lose her, well anywayz 4th day rolled around and she seemed weird.. she wanted me to leave...she told me if i came back home that she would still associate with me and everything. So Yes i decided to come back to Va, then later found out that she hated me, for reasons unknown...Still cant figure out what i did...she wont talk to me...Has me banned from every site that i used to talk to her on....And yet as i said for reason unknown she hates me and probably will never talk to me yet again...i spent 800$ on that trip. i cant say i regret it, because i got 2 see alot of places that i have always wanted to venture..But in the end Shes stuck in my head and i have never been able to get her out since...songs remind me of her..i try getting rid of my sites that i used to talk to her...Just seems like nothing works.....Anyone have any ideas?

yes, find someone new and move on....

pounce on sum1 new ^_^

It was just not meant to be....

There are alot of nice girls here that can get your mind off of her...and onto someone new!!!

I'd say the easiest way to forget about her is to first remember that she treated you like used toilet paper. Once you realize that, maybe you can move on and find someone who will be more "mature" than she was.

Why think about someone who treated you like that? It's a useless emotion so let go.

First off, stop listening to those songs. If you mist, stay away from the radio and only listen to CD's and MP3's so you know exactly whats coming on.

Next thing is keep busy. Stay away from routine. Pick up a new hobby or two and spend as much time possible with your friends. Good friends and nights out on the town are the best things for you right now.

Finally, try and stay away from the computer for a while. You met her on the computer and that is really going to make you think about her.

Change is what you need my friend.

Why am I singing 'Can't get you out of my head" by Kylie Minogue?

a lot of beers

that really sucks!!people should just be up front and honest,save the heartbreak...nothing like falling for someone only to have them slap you in the face

I agree with Ray.I wouldn't start with a new girl till your over the old one,at least seriously.Try making some new friends and doing some new things.If that doesnt work, drink.(jk)

As long as its good beer. That cheap stuff like Budweiser makes you quite depressed after a while and very hung over in the morning.

you definately need change and to let her go. you remind me of an ex. it was over the internet and he was coming to see me. something came up and he didnt come i was upset and i didnt want to talk to him. then i tried again and i gave him another chance to come up in september but i change it to october. he didnt have the money to come up. i guess we werent ment to be. i had to let him go and i was the hardest thing i had to do. he was crying on the phone and i felt so bad, but i had to. trust me you will find someone else.

ya got that right.Sam Adams is my brew when i get to drink.

the right girl will find YOU one day!

thats true Reba.love always finds you when you arent looking.

yes it does!!!!!yo estoy de enamorada!

just dont look back more forward see what out there

Sam Adams is very nice. Sierra Nevada is great as well.

Beer is one thing that helped me get over a bad break up. Not really as an alcoholic outlet but more so as a new hobby. Going to Microbreweries trying out the different craft beers.

My next step is to learn home brewing

Whiskey is a good brain-eraser!

Let's see, what do I remember from Sunday School.....oh yeah! If your head offends you, cut it off!