whuts the point of a relationship? they always end up the same. goodbye. . now ive been in three serious relationships, all o fthem end up bad, if its not one thing i fix its somethin else. i know its not me. ive talked to other people and have people seen in person that its not me. whuts the point in workin so hard for nothin? some explain

Well we all want someone by our sides and if you don't take your time choosing wisely then yes you will be saying good bye everytime. Also think about the women you dated and why you dated them and think about at what point things went wrong. Sometimes we jump into relationships to avoid being alone and then it backfires.

The Point? Well, to finally find someone to be with. Yeah. It is basic and all, but in all honesty, we all want someone to be with cause we want to share our lives with that certain someone special. I hate that you had three serious relationships fail on. I had two, one of which was a divorce, so I know how you feel bro. But, to me, that is the point. To find to someone special.


This cheesy post brought to you by Goofball73... DON'T TOUCH THE BALLS!

Not all relationships end up bad. Don't let the ones that have gone bad take you to a point where you think the way you are right now.

I'm sure you know why people want relationships so there is no need to go through all of that. The point is that if you start thinking the way you are, you will never find that one woman with whom you will have a good and long lasting relationship.

Keep trying or be single.

right on goof. see but for me at first for like 4 or 5 months they were special( i thought) then they just kind of flipped and go off the deep end. well at least the last two did

oh come on goof can i touch lmao

Its all about attitude!!!

u cant base a relationshipon just on attitude

Well if u gotta bad attirude..it sure can ruin the relationship!!!

attirude=attirude..sorry

It funny how we seek advice from people all in the same boat, lol, i dunno i thought i was ironic...sry im prolly not helping much

no ur right but i a a very positive helpful caring typeof person epecially when ilove someone.

Thats good ..i guess its their attitude then....good luck to you though.... I was and actually still legally married to an asshole with a bad attitude so thats why i said that...

Well thats good then, good luck to you because there arent alot of guys like the still out there, Personally i hear "how bout it" more than "hey id like to take you out on a nice date", the WAITING is the hardest part of all this! im so impatient too, but one day my prince will come....eventually

hawaii, not too be rude im sure is husband is a asshole, lot of us are, but... thats why some guys have problems, u may assume allguys are assholes, but havin actually listened to them(somone u dont know obviously)

Never in this thread did ii say that all men are assholes...i said my sson to be ex is an ASSHOLE...i nver said you were or anyone else...my point was that HE (ex) has a bad attitude that ruined the relationship!! that was all!

It takes two to spoil a relationship. Unless you're perfect, then I wish I were 30 years younger.....Crap, I'm old...

I agree with LLH...takes two...

You are soooo young to be soooo serious. Really! What ever happened to having fun while your young. Young people want to be grown so bad and their impression of grown is a little skewed. Relationships take alot of work on both parts to work, it does not fall into place. All the time you spend dating and testing waters the more capable you will be to handle the responsibility of a relationship when the time comes. I could see one thing you are doing wrong from your post, "I changed and it still didn't work", if you have to change to make it work, it is doomed before you began. Good luck

well said dragon ...how are ya gurl?