Ok. Apart from the whole being alone thing..lol... what do you hate most about being on your own or all alone..

For me it's doing the dishes by myself....well.. and the ,having to have sex by myself thing as well..lol..
Ohhh... and watching sunsets by myself.. sometimes that's just too much to bear. And no!.
. Not bear.. like the big fuzzy animal that sneaks into your tent and eat's your cookies well you're sleeping.. kind of bear... the other bear....lol..

I'm 54 yrs old. I was married for 6 yrs. 15 yrs ago. I've been alone the biggest part of my life. I've been alone so long that it's become a part of me. I don't believe that anyone truly wants to be alone. But I do believe that some of us are meant to be alone. As far as myself, the only reason that I can see as far as I go, it's my inability to put up with most people. I'm not antisocial. I'm a friendly person. I'm just not good with putting up with others bullshot. Maybe I need to be on Xanax. But people in general, get on my nerves.
So for me, I hate everything about being alone. I just think I'm better off. At least that's what I think most times.

Doing a 40hr week and comeing home to an empty place . Then there's the cleaning , landry, the mail to go through.

This could realy go on and on .

I work a lot of hours so I would have to say all the chores and the lawn and after I finally get them all done and relax, I don't feel like going out because its late so I guess not having someone to hangout with, you know wearing the house clothes that feel good on you, and a bottle of wine, and net flicks.

I really hate sleeping alone.

Well, even though I don't like having to do the dishes, being Bobette the Builder, doing heavy gardening stuff on my own, basically having to do everything myself ...
Nr1 would be ... yes ... sex. Oh and dining together, and cuddling.
Not necessarily in that order.
Could also be dining, cuddling, sex.
Or better yet: cuddling, sex, dining, sex, cuddling. And sex.

And I don't mean sex sex, I can get that on everywhere if I wanted to...
I mean sex with someone you love and who loves you.

In a word; housework. If I could afford to hire one of those little French maids, I'd be perfectly happy living alone.

Well ain't gonna lie. I miss the fun quiet time when married. I take care of my Dad, so it's a little easier. But every now and then, ya know. Rolling off a queen mattress gets a little old. Floor is stillhard.

I don't like traveling alone
I don't like camping alone
I don't like dining out alone
I don't like going out alone
The rest I kinda like being by myself...I really value my alone time.

i miss the fun of being with someone, The hugging, kissing and cuddling.

being alone

Not having somebody to share moments with or cheer me on when I need it

But there are times when you are never alone when you have good friends that care about you

Get a house dog. Problem solved.

Get a house dog. Problem solved.


Yeahhh,,,

Haha

I hate sleeping alone....

I noticed something very interesting during my 46 years of being alive: There never was anyone available to help when I really needed someone. I always managed to sort everything out by myself, even when I was married, which showed me I never really needed anyone.

There isn't a single thing I hate about being alone, probably because I don't feel lonely. Never have. I'd rather be alone than with someone who tries to order me around day in and day out and then manipulates me when 'she' doesn't get her way. No way no how.
I love coming home to a quiet apartment, blast my music and get my work clothes off naked in the middle of a room before jumping into the shower without worrying about decency since there's no one to see me.
I get to chose when and what I'll eat, whether I feel like cooking or just going out to eat. I also chose where I'll eat and I can give the hard-working waitress a compliment with her tip without worrying about a jealous someone sitting across from me and shooting me with 'her' eyes.
I get to chose when I get home without worrying about texting someone to say how long I'll be and 'Sorry I forgot to pick up the tomatoes, please don't yell at me honey'
I get to decide how my place is going to look, which curtains I want and where I want the sofa, whether I want a landline or not, tv service or not
No one to tell me what I'll watch or if I'll even watch anything on tv or spend the evening on the pc.
I don't have to justify myself at every turn.
I don't even have to say what goes, it just does.
I don't have to watch stupid shows on tv because the "special someone" has the hots for this or that 'star'.
I don't have to walk on eggshells if I want "intimacy" once the evening is over.
I don't have to like 'her' friends for fear she'll be upset about me not liking 'her' stupid friends. In fact I don't have to associate with anyone I don't want to.
I can have friends over and they can behave however they want to without hearing about it from an overbearing she-tyrant.
I take the trash out when I want to, which means when it's needed, and not because someone orders me to do so.
I can talk to my kids whenever I want to without that "special someone" trying to dictate the relationship I have with them.
I can visit my kids or have them visit me without having to ask some "better half" if it's okay, when, where and how. Hell no.

I'm a 'big boy', I can take good care of myself and I know my mommy smiles down upon me from heaven, proud that her son needs no one to make his life worth it.
I see no down sides about being alone.

..^^^I've noticed that myself throughout my whole life I've always had to take care of things myself..

Which always made me wonder if the other person is not helping then what are they here for..
. That is if I have to do everything myself what is it that they're doing.

Besides aggravating the heck out of me..lol...
But then a friend pointed out to me..
When you meet the right person..
They will be there to help you..
Good point..lol.

Ohh.yes..and cooking on those rare occasions the boys aren't here..
I find cooking for myself to be a bit of a challenge.... I always end up cooking way more than I need...grrrr... and then there is the lack of desire to cook for myself... which equals to A lot of takeout..lol