Topic: what do you hate most about being alone
SUNTZU3's photo
Wed 07/13/16 12:20 AM


Besides not having anyone to laugh with, the part of no sex partner is already a tragedy! But drinking alone, in the sunset...traumatic! I just not like to be alone, period, so when I am not in a relationship then I invite my neighbors or a friend from work for dinner and drink and perhaps sex if possible.
.so. basically you invite them over for dinner and a show .lol..jk


flowerforyou kinda yes...nothing wrong with having fun ...better than been alone lol ;)

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Wed 07/13/16 12:34 AM
hi dear I want to make friendship with you.
waiting your reply

Godesserellla's photo
Wed 07/13/16 03:58 AM
with a guy 20 yrs,when theres something funny on the tv n u look to the side n say did u see tha,now im talkin to air,deffo heartbreakin so had to stop,sex u miss bigtime,so ur forced to ****about basicly to find right guy,whole issue is painful!

Jimmy_roy's photo
Wed 07/13/16 10:57 AM
Hate about been alone.......hmmmhmmmhmmmmmm




Still thinking ...asleep asleep

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Wed 07/13/16 01:13 PM
Having an alternative view of self and the world........That I can agree with to some degree.
The oppurtunity to express my view.

A partner for reflection

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Wed 07/13/16 01:52 PM
My relationship with my wife was quite the opposite of what you describe.We did everything together. We cooked and cleaned,did yard work,went for rides,just sat and talked...She was my favorite person to be with. We hardly ever disagreed,and never argued about anything. We traveled with our dogs all over the country,and we both had fun together every day. When I was clearing ground for my little orchard,she drove the tractor,and helped me pull stumps,and burn the piles. I know I'll never find another like her,and just writing this little note brings me to tears. I lost her to cancer about two years ago,and I'm just doing my best to move onward..

 Maria195's photo
Wed 07/13/16 02:03 PM

My relationship with my wife was quite the opposite of what you describe.We did everything together. We cooked and cleaned,did yard work,went for rides,just sat and talked...She was my favorite person to be with. We hardly ever disagreed,and never argued about anything. We traveled with our dogs all over the country,and we both had fun together every day. When I was clearing ground for my little orchard,she drove the tractor,and helped me pull stumps,and burn the piles. I know I'll never find another like her,and just writing this little note brings me to tears. I lost her to cancer about two years ago,and I'm just doing my best to move onward..


I'm so sorry for your loss.

BreakingGood's photo
Wed 07/13/16 03:34 PM
It keeps me from trying to find somebody to be with.

This is a great picture to look at.

Either you will find it awesome or lonely.

I say awesome!


RustyKitty's photo
Wed 07/13/16 06:34 PM
I am comfortable to be alone or by myself.. one can stay as busy as one wants to be.
Sometimes I hate the noise of the tv being on; the babbling news or the fake laughtrack; the shrill high voices...I much prefer to listen to music and putter around my eden..
Then there is the (sometimes forced) conversation (about nothing)... ugh.. talk, talk, talk..


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Thu 07/14/16 11:06 PM
ordering two different meals and enjoying the variety from both plates

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Fri 07/15/16 01:28 AM
I'm used to it, being alone . . . Quiet moments and more peace
what I only hate is when you have to move some stuff especially the heavy ones

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Fri 07/15/16 01:32 AM
I miss the intimacy, someone to give my love & care to & my passion & to share & cherish every special moment with her

ryan100100's photo
Fri 07/15/16 01:52 AM
laying in bed all by myself. no-one to share my hopes and dreams with

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 07/15/16 04:34 AM

My relationship with my wife was quite the opposite of what you describe.We did everything together. We cooked and cleaned,did yard work,went for rides,just sat and talked...She was my favorite person to be with. We hardly ever disagreed,and never argued about anything. We traveled with our dogs all over the country,and we both had fun together every day. When I was clearing ground for my little orchard,she drove the tractor,and helped me pull stumps,and burn the piles. I know I'll never find another like her,and just writing this little note brings me to tears. I lost her to cancer about two years ago,and I'm just doing my best to move onward..


morethnthis, I understand how you feel. I'm a widower, too. My wife had lymphoma.

Joe9986's photo
Fri 07/15/16 06:49 AM
the thing i noticed other then cleaning i do that anyway i work as a housekeeper. is all the left overs and the never ending bordom. and the sex lol you can only have it by yourself so much

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Fri 07/15/16 08:04 AM
I think I feel aloneness more acutely when I'm not focusing on goals/projects which excite/inspire me.

For that matter, I feel more disconnected from life in general when Im not going after things that excite me, so ever so often I set new and interesting goals for myself in different aspects of my life.

Im very fortunate to have amazing family and friends and I've learned that whether I am blessed enough to find love or not, that I am determined to maintain a passionate love affair with my life in general :heart:

That being said, even when I am feeling accomplished and at peace with myself and my friendships, there are a few occasions when I do feel lonely.I think the most testing period is New Years Eve night. I've come to dread it actually, but its just a day. I always survive it :smile:

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Fri 07/15/16 08:08 AM
I actually am very comfortable doing most things alone, including chores, dining, movies, shopping and sleeping by myself.

I think I feel aloneness more acutely when I'm not focusing on goals/projects which excite/inspire me.

For that matter, I feel more disconnected from life in general when Im not going after things that excite me, so ever so often I set new and interesting goals for myself in different aspects of my life.

Im very fortunate to have amazing family and friends and I've learned that whether I am blessed enough to find love or not, that I am determined to maintain a passionate love affair with my life in general :heart:

That being said, even when I am feeling accomplished and at peace with myself and my friendships, there are a few occasions when I do feel lonely.I think the most testing period is New Years Eve night. I've come to dread it actually, but its just a day. I always survive it :smile:

sonuyadava's photo
Fri 07/15/16 08:59 AM
hi

sonuyadava's photo
Fri 07/15/16 10:10 AM
how are you

Marco2492's photo
Fri 07/15/16 10:18 AM
me too