Hey good day my M2 Family, its no mystery I'm in a brand new healthy relationship right? Oh, I'm Happy how the way things going. we taking the time to know, study, explore, & learn from one to another. My diamond girl been hinting around when will she meet mom? Ladies tell me if this right? I usually let a woman to wait until 4 to 6 months before mom gets to meet her but I don't want to rush the issue or seem like I'm controlling the question but when is the time to allow your mate to meet mom. see I have one of the best mom in the world where she allow me to choose who I be with and she so down the earth. so spill the tea my good friends of mingle, what should I say " you will me her now" or " lets wait a little more I promise you meet her okay" help me out looking forward in your feedback!
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Oh I hate that pushy crap.
Don't give into it.
Usually they are just trying to inject themselves into your family.
And solidify the relationship.
Or make it 'appear' to be at a level that it is not.

IMO :

Unless, you are planning, to keep this woman. Don't do it.
Keep it at ' a holiday function' level & only when necessary.

When you feel it's the right time

I personally think 6 months is fair in the sense that it will give her greater insight into who you are and your family's culture.

Or maybe you can settle on a compromise between the date your gf wants and the date that you want. Good luck to the both of you!

With some men...there's never a right time unless he plans on marrying the gal

To be honest...I will never marry a man like that...just saying

I'm right behind you on that one girl

I agree with Sassy ..
What's the rush anyway?
I would not make any special time for it.
Next time you plan to see your mom - (be it , Thanksgiving, Christmas, next year, 2018...whenever you would normally get together with her.

Yes 39,
Too soon. Build you and her first. Tell your girl to pump those breaks. How do you make a great dish? Time, patients and love.

When the time is right you will know.

I don't know about the best time..
But when you're in the bedroom with her daughter ..probably not a good time..lol

Read title before context.

Was thinking.....when she's a bit buzzed after girl's night out at Chippendales

Doesn't really matter.

What matters is if you are actively avoiding introducing the two, believe your partner "should" feel about it as you do ("it's not a big deal to me, it shouldn't be a big deal to them, so I don't actively try to get them together"), or don't pay attention/listen to what it means to your partner.

"When" doesn't matter.

Are you honest with your partner if it makes you uncomfortable?
Do you feel comfortable enough telling them "introducing you two makes me feel uncomfortable. I can't honestly tell you why, but I will think about it."

Are you trying to figure out why they care to meet your mom, really figure out, not just ask them and say "m'kay, I have no brain, so I am just going to go by what comes out of your mouth."

Do they want to meet your mom not because they give all that big of a crap about meeting your mom but mostly because of what it represents to her?
IOW "communication sucks in the relationship. I don't know how he feels or am not confident in believing what he says he feels. But if I meet his mom, then that means he MUST like me, and that tells me how he feels and what relationship we have." Making it not about meeting the mom at all.

Sassyeuro


thank you maybe waiting a couple months more would be natural...

Peggy122,


thank you for the positive feedback well I thought that my 4 to 6 months time period was just as fair.....thank you again. you now going be one of my local "Vocal Avengers".

SassyEuro

I love a woman who cuts to the chase......and you yes im keeping my baby...lol. so its safe to say I will consider your timeline advice.

CandiApples,


aww......thank you whats usually would you give in time period?

Peggy122

hello my new friend of M2 well you right guys like me would take the time to bring mom around but my diamond girl is wife material.....let me ask you this? how long would you wait to bring a guy to meet mom?

Rustykitty

I respect and heed your knowledge on time factor. this is my 2nd shot at love and I'm allowing natural time to dictate happiness.
thank you wise woman of valour

for me, the answer is the same.
Unless there is an already planned family event, dinner invite, or anywhere else that you are invited to bring a guest...
Your mom knows you are dating this woman right? Its not like she's an unknown... your mom knows about her.. the meeting is just a technicality.

Hi EyeAm!

If I felt it had the potential for a longterm relationship, 6 mths is good for me. :)

RobXbox73


hey buddy well you nicely put it and I want to thank you for the adivece...all advice is considered and apprieciated