Lol...we are women...we can change our minds.

I was going to say something snarky about a woman's mind, but my sense of self-preservation kicked in.

Lol smart move

We all deserve what we decide

I thought for sure I'd come back and see some boobs in here but nope

every time I read this title it gets the I need a hero song stuck in my head.

Where are all the real men. That's really a difficult question to answer. Your definition of what a real can differs from person to person. Some women are old fashioned and want to take care of home and kids. Some would rather be more independent and have a partner to share the load equally. Some want to be taken care of completely without doing a single thing. Some would rather work while the man stays home. Every woman has their ideal man. Their are Real men everywhere. There is also attraction. You may have found your real man several times and were not attracted to them. Just something to think about

I agree with the above sometimes you don't realize you have the right diamond in your own back yard.

hahaha , I do notice that too.

This topic makes me

This 'real man' bs is the reason you can't find a man, it's negative and insulting to any man that doesn't fit your ideals.


As the meme goes,
'These women want real man, when half of them is fake.....fake hair, fake face (makeup) fake nails, fake attitude. ....take it from a real man..you're using the wrong bait."

Not directed at you Cat. I used to work at an early prototype of a home depot. I was pretty dense as you know... Hey don't laugh. Any who, from time to time in the mid to late 80's girls would come In and say I'm looking for this, and they would hand me a screw. I would tell them, sure what kind? They would say lots of them and laugh. I would take them to the hardware section. I would say ok how long? They would say the longest. Hee hee heee. It took a while before the light bulb started to glow and I realized that they were joking with me. That went on for about 2 summers. By then I had my game down. Ummm sir Hee hee, do you have any of these? I would look in their hand and then look em in the eye and I would say,,,, "We're fresh out!"

Oh I got one for you Cat. Try this.. Can someone help me I'm looking for a tool?... I guarantee all the guys will come running to show you how!

Were are the good woman and that wont break your heart. I am tired of games just want the real deal. Can anyone help ?

Hang out in the plumbing section...there's a lot of "pipe laying" around there.

where are the real men? the ones not afraid to take care of a real woman?

they are out on the ballfield in coed softball. both the men and the women play hard, but the men, even the ones on the opposing team take care of the women.

Ladies were are the real men.
Are they at Home Depot or at Lowes????:

Jtevans, look again.

I've heard it said that "real women" don't need men so why would I want to take care of a "real woman"? Wouldn't that just be insulting to her?

Plus, I'm not looking for a "real woman", I'm only looking for a woman who doesn't feel the need to put "real" in front of nouns because I'm not a "real man", I'm simply a man.

Anyways, good luck finding your "real man"

Yes both thats not cinfusimg is it

Yes both thats not confusing is it? Confuses me to ironicaly bc i am on the opposite side of the argument being female and all think it only matter"s if he is respectful ie he shouldnt expect me to chase him ie expect me to jump bc he is paying atention. However blunt honesty as long as it isnt inconsiderate and geting to the point are exeptions but hey what do I know I am after all single