Topic: Online Dating: What Were Your Expectations.
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Fri 04/22/16 10:52 AM
Here we can search only never find any one with whom v can do dating

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Fri 04/22/16 10:52 AM
Here we can search only never find any one with whom v can do dating

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Fri 04/22/16 11:00 AM


So more and more members here have decided to give up on the search for their soulmate online. Some have even quit after less than 6 months.

So my question is...

What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?

Were you expecting a steady stream of dating prospects every month?

Were you expecting a group of better looking people or more appealing personalities? laugh

Did you expect more positive responses to your emails or less creeps?

What were YOUR expectations about THE PROCESS?



Hi Peggy! Yes I have decided to stay, After all the responses to my mine field the other day LOL,
I guess I was expecting more of real men instead of robotic scripts...haha what was I thinking?
I didn't expect the over abundance of creepazoids that do respond. Nooo eek! hahaha!frustrated
Got to lay back here and just take it as it comes and weed them out as Crystal Fairy said earlier.
I do have the intelligence to know the difference...but in the end, don't we all want that "Prince Charming to ride up on his white steed and swoop us up to fairytale land? love :heart: flowerforyou
I have lowered my expectations amnd will just go with the flow!!
:angel: waving




Hi Netty!

That's a lovely profile pic of you.

I meant what I said in your thread.

I wanted you to do whatever made you feel happy.

Online dating is considered frustrating and fruitless by many.

And yes, the high volume of freaks is a shock to most of us in the beginning.

I know about that yearning for the prince on the white horse girl.

Those damn fairytales have set most of us up for crushing disappointment in the dating world indifferent

But now that we know better , hopefully we will do better.

Having realistic expectations is a great start.

Happy you are still with us in the trenches. happy

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Fri 04/22/16 11:02 AM

Here we can search only never find any one with whom v can do dating



So you have a low expectation?

I hope life gives you a lovely surprise Ritsun :smile:

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Fri 04/22/16 11:36 AM


* I often leave my in mail-box at 25 just because it will take an extra hour or two and then many will respond.
* If a "match" is done the mail box will rise to 50 or 80. I have found when that happens I will have the account frozen. Later I will receive " Congratulations! We have cleared you as a spammer. You can now use the site freely. Enjoy! " . laugh This happens every few weeks, maybe I'm just a nice spammer rofl rofl rofl

** I know some of my "M" friends want to give me heck for not responding to their notes. I am not good at responding and their notes will take thoughtthink and now they are mixed-in with everything else.tears

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* Questions 1--5 will be done after laundry and life organized a bit. oops

1. What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?
2. Were you expecting a steady stream of dating prospects every month?
3. Were you expecting a group of better looking people or more appealing personalities?
4. Did you expect more positive responses to your emails or less creeps?
5. What were YOUR expectations about THE PROCESS?

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Fri 04/22/16 12:06 PM
I have lots of hope but now it seem over I can't wait for 7 long month in this 7month those women ready for dating then they asking for money gift and lots of thing and some want only chit chat

It's time to say bbye mingle2

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Fri 04/22/16 12:09 PM


Here we can search only never find any one with whom v can do dating



So you have a low expectation?

I hope life gives you a lovely surprise Ritsun :smile:




I have lots of hope but now it seem over I can't wait for 7 long month in this 7month those women ready for dating then they asking for money gift and lots of thing and some want only chit chat

It's time to say bbye mingle2
If u have any option then told me

Peggy122@:grinning:

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Fri 04/22/16 12:18 PM



Here we can search only never find any one with whom v can do dating



So you have a low expectation?

I hope life gives you a lovely surprise Ritsun :smile:




I have lots of hope but now it seem over I can't wait for 7 long month in this 7month those women ready for dating then they asking for money gift and lots of thing and some want only chit chat

It's time to say bbye mingle2
If u have any option then told me

Peggy122@:grinning:


Sorry ritsun.

I did not find a good match so far either so I don't know what will work for you.

All I know is that you learn who the scammers are very quickly when you have been on mingle for a while so you waste less time with the fake people.

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Fri 04/22/16 12:54 PM




Here we can search only never find any one with whom v can do dating



So you have a low expectation?

I hope life gives you a lovely surprise Ritsun :smile:




I have lots of hope but now it seem over I can't wait for 7 long month in this 7month those women ready for dating then they asking for money gift and lots of thing and some want only chit chat

It's time to say bbye mingle2
If u have any option then told me

Peggy122@


Sorry ritsun.

I did not find a good match so far either so I don't know what will work for you.

All I know is that you learn who the scammers are very quickly when you have been on mingle for a while so you waste less time with the fake people.

Hope so @feggy122 is there any other app

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Fri 04/22/16 12:58 PM
1. What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?
2. Were you expecting a steady stream of dating prospects every month?
3. Were you expecting a group of better looking people or more appealing personalities?
4. Did you expect more positive responses to your emails or less creeps?
5. What were YOUR expectations about THE PROCESS?
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1. Have a couple of nice dates. No big deal as I never gave it any thought.
*One day I went into the Forums and started to read interesting questions that related to my situation. I was "shocked" at the depth. Caution lights were now flashing in my mind. I had up till then only lucky, to have avoided some nasty situations.
2. Yes. Then learned by reading about "serial dating" and noticed that it did not relate to my life style. So dumped that idea.
3. The mingle profiles lack original thought, personal identities become crowd vanilla. People have not done a "deep" interview process with themselves as to: needs vs wants.
4. My Spammers response is to pay for advertising at the "Contact Us". I do get many short "Panther" notes, some are very blunt blushing but all are funny. Our city brags about friendliness but many are only Window Shopping on M.
5. For a fast date Mingle2 works well. Because of the Forums I now expect depth of personality. " ignorance is bliss "tears


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Fri 04/22/16 01:01 PM





Here we can search only never find any one with whom v can do dating



So you have a low expectation?

I hope life gives you a lovely surprise Ritsun :smile:




I have lots of hope but now it seem over I can't wait for 7 long month in this 7month those women ready for dating then they asking for money gift and lots of thing and some want only chit chat

It's time to say bbye mingle2
If u have any option then told me

Peggy122@


Sorry ritsun.

I did not find a good match so far either so I don't know what will work for you.

All I know is that you learn who the scammers are very quickly when you have been on mingle for a while so you waste less time with the fake people.

Hope so @feggy122 is there any other app


I think you may have to google those apps ritsun.:)

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Fri 04/22/16 02:49 PM


What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?




Nightly mounting?

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Fri 04/22/16 08:00 PM
laugh

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Sat 04/23/16 07:30 AM

1. What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?
2. Were you expecting a steady stream of dating prospects every month?
3. Were you expecting a group of better looking people or more appealing personalities?
4. Did you expect more positive responses to your emails or less creeps?
5. What were YOUR expectations about THE PROCESS?



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1. Have a couple of nice dates. No big deal as I never gave it any thought.
*One day I went into the Forums and started to read interesting questions that related to my situation. I was "shocked" at the depth. Caution lights were now flashing in my mind. I had up till then only lucky, to have avoided some nasty situations.
2. Yes. Then learned by reading about "serial dating" and noticed that it did not relate to my life style. So dumped that idea.
3. The mingle profiles lack original thought, personal identities become crowd vanilla. People have not done a "deep" interview process with themselves as to: needs vs wants.
4. My Spammers response is to pay for advertising at the "Contact Us". I do get many short "Panther" notes, some are very blunt blushing but all are funny. Our city brags about friendliness but many are only Window Shopping on M.
5. For a fast date Mingle2 works well. Because of the Forums I now expect depth of personality. " ignorance is bliss "tears





I really expected to see better profiles too Doug. That was a huge disappointment for me,

But you seem to have taken the whole experience in stride, which is a healthy attitude to have.:smile:


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Sat 04/23/16 07:32 AM



What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?




Nightly mounting?


And how is that working out for ya Beach? bigsmile

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Sat 04/23/16 07:34 AM

laugh


Welcome to mingle PrettyRaine flowerforyou

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 04/23/16 07:56 AM




What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?




Nightly mounting?


And how is that working out for ya Beach? bigsmile


whoa Ask the sheep.

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Sat 04/23/16 08:28 AM





What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?




Nightly mounting?


And how is that working out for ya Beach? bigsmile


whoa Ask the sheep.

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Q. How do sheep hearders practice safe sex?

A. Marking the sheep with a big X of the ones that kick!

rofl rofl rofl

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Sat 04/23/16 10:37 AM





What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?




Nightly mounting?


And how is that working out for ya Beach? bigsmile


whoa Ask the sheep.


Yikes!

Well if the only things you've been mounting is sheep, then my guess is that things have been better ...spock

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Sat 04/23/16 10:39 AM






What were your expectations when you signed up here in terms of the dating process?




Nightly mounting?


And how is that working out for ya Beach? bigsmile


whoa Ask the sheep.


laugh
*
Q. How do sheep hearders practice safe sex?

A. Marking the sheep with a big X of the ones that kick!

rofl rofl rofl