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All I see is a bunch of people, that didn't comprehend the fact, that the OP said "started to date". He never said "exclusively seeing" the woman for a relationship. And as it has been pointed out by a "moderator", this site was more of a social experience than a dating site when many of us joined. So with that said, No1, "YOU" have to decide if it's worth the hassle. |
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Edited by
peggy122
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Fri 04/01/16 03:49 PM
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All I see is a bunch of people, that didn't comprehend the fact, that the OP said "started to date". He never said "exclusively seeing" the woman for a relationship. And as it has been pointed out by a "moderator", this site was more of a social experience than a dating site when many of us joined. So with that said, No1, "YOU" have to decide if it's worth the hassle. I was very much paying attention Doc. 
I never assumed that you were in a committed relationship. You made it pretty clear to US that you were not. But the fact that your lady friend is so deeply perturbed by your being on mingle makes me think that SHE thinks that u both share some kind of monogamous or committed relationship. Whether you chat on 20 different chat sites or date 10 women simultaneously is irrelevant in my opinion. What matters is mutual honesty and understanding between you and your partner. So you made it abundantly clear to ur lady friend that you were on mingle, but did you also make it clear to her that you share a very loose arrangement with her that allows you to flirt heavily with as many women as you like on mingle or elsewhere? Have you made it clear to her that she is not your girlfriend or did you only make it clear to the mingle community alone? If you think of this woman as a lady friend, who you have no commitment or obligations to, then its only fair that this be made abundantly clear to her. There is nothing wrong with you valuing mingles and flirting more than having a stable romantic partner. Thats all up to a person's personal preferences in life, and I feel that no one has the right to stand in judgment of you for that. But it is not fair to withold that information from her. Respect her enough to let her know what she is signing up for so that she is empowered to make an informed choice. |
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How about getting her on here too so she can enjoy the forums too and the she may 'get' why you are still on here.... Playon player! Naw just kidding. Wow, I have no answer! That is definitely something new under the sun. Social media is definitely handing you a hot potatoe. It's a lose, lose situation imo. Or you could just tell her your popular... but that can boomerang back on ya. I wish you luck amigo. It's like the story of the Native cornered by a rattlesnake overlooking a cliff and a steep drop. When I've been "cornered", honesty is the best policy, and let the chips fall where they may. Good luck buddy. 
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Somebody or something please tell me what to do...I am still running wild and slow...simply because no body tells me what I should do....
Two words you never ever tell a man...Don't.....and....Stop.....unless they are used together....just saying... |
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All I see is a bunch of people, that didn't comprehend the fact, that the OP said "started to date". He never said "exclusively seeing" the woman for a relationship. And as it has been pointed out by a "moderator", this site was more of a social experience than a dating site when many of us joined. So with that said, No1, "YOU" have to decide if it's worth the hassle. I beg to differ ... * Sorry PhD * OP clearly said "New PARTNER", that's a bit further down the road than "starting to date" ... Also, if she repeatedly moans about him being on M2 all the time, which is what No1 said, it means they are closer than 'just a new date", otherwise she wouldn't even know he was on M2 to begin with. Unless he'd be on Mingle during a date. So the argument it's "just a new date" falls flat on its face. Geezzz... this is starting to sound like a court of law, 
In that case ... I rest my case 
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How about getting her on here too so she can enjoy the forums too and the she may 'get' why you are still on here.... Playon player! Naw just kidding. Wow, I have no answer! That is definitely something new under the sun. Social media is definitely handing you a hot potatoe. It's a lose, lose situation imo. Or you could just tell her your popular... but that can boomerang back on ya. I wish you luck amigo. It's like the story of the Native cornered by a rattlesnake overlooking a cliff and a steep drop. When I've been "cornered", honesty is the best policy, and let the chips fall where they may. Good luck buddy.
ha,.. what did the Native do? |
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Well Kitty, it's not what you think. Native stories are meant to make you think. Story goes that he started to speak to the rattler. He spoke until the sun went down. Then the rattler got tired of working it's rattler!
The motto of the story was don't give up. |
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Well Kitty, it's not what you think. Native stories are meant to make you think. Story goes that he started to speak to the rattler. He spoke until the sun went down. Then the rattler got tired of working it's rattler! The motto of the story was don't give up. how wise..ty |
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All I see is a bunch of people, that didn't comprehend the fact, that the OP said "started to date". He never said "exclusively seeing" the woman for a relationship. And as it has been pointed out by a "moderator", this site was more of a social experience than a dating site when many of us joined. So with that said, No1, "YOU" have to decide if it's worth the hassle. I was very much paying attention Doc.
I never assumed that you were in a committed relationship. You made it pretty clear to US that you were not. But the fact that your lady friend is so deeply perturbed by your being on mingle makes me think that SHE thinks that u both share some kind of monogamous or committed relationship. Whether you chat on 20 different chat sites or date 10 women simultaneously is irrelevant in my opinion. What matters is mutual honesty and understanding between you and your partner. So you made it abundantly clear to ur lady friend that you were on mingle, but did you also make it clear to her that you share a very loose arrangement with her that allows you to flirt heavily with as many women as you like on mingle or elsewhere? Have you made it clear to her that she is not your girlfriend or did you only make it clear to the mingle community alone? If you think of this woman as a lady friend, who you have no commitment or obligations to, then its only fair that this be made abundantly clear to her. There is nothing wrong with you valuing mingles and flirting more than having a stable romantic partner. Thats all up to a person's personal preferences in life, and I feel that no one has the right to stand in judgment of you for that. But it is not fair to withold that information from her. Respect her enough to let her know what she is signing up for so that she is empowered to make an informed choice. Do I ???* lol |
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If I really like someone that much
Yea I am off with them Ps email me for the get togethers. |
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All I see is a bunch of people, that didn't comprehend the fact, that the OP said "started to date". He never said "exclusively seeing" the woman for a relationship. And as it has been pointed out by a "moderator", this site was more of a social experience than a dating site when many of us joined. So with that said, No1, "YOU" have to decide if it's worth the hassle. I was very much paying attention Doc.
I never assumed that you were in a committed relationship. You made it pretty clear to US that you were not. But the fact that your lady friend is so deeply perturbed by your being on mingle makes me think that SHE thinks that u both share some kind of monogamous or committed relationship. Whether you chat on 20 different chat sites or date 10 women simultaneously is irrelevant in my opinion. What matters is mutual honesty and understanding between you and your partner. So you made it abundantly clear to ur lady friend that you were on mingle, but did you also make it clear to her that you share a very loose arrangement with her that allows you to flirt heavily with as many women as you like on mingle or elsewhere? Have you made it clear to her that she is not your girlfriend or did you only make it clear to the mingle community alone? If you think of this woman as a lady friend, who you have no commitment or obligations to, then its only fair that this be made abundantly clear to her. There is nothing wrong with you valuing mingles and flirting more than having a stable romantic partner. Thats all up to a person's personal preferences in life, and I feel that no one has the right to stand in judgment of you for that. But it is not fair to withold that information from her. Respect her enough to let her know what she is signing up for so that she is empowered to make an informed choice. Do I ???* lol Well Doc... Let's put it this way. I've heard mating calls in the jungle, that bare more subtlety than your online discourse  
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WHEN MAMA IS NOT HAPPY EVERYBODY'S NOT HAPPY............GIVE A LITTLE GET A LITTLE
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Ohhhh snap!
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"They shoot you a dirty look!".
I know the feeling. If only it was actually dirty. I know that look very well. You feel like they're going to stab you. It's quite an evil stare. Jealous is pointless. It can ruin a good thing. And that might be because she IS jealous. You can only reassure insecure people for so long. It's not your problem. I just wouldn't bother wasting man hours, trying to prove myself. She sounds a tad paranoid. It depends on how many more times your willing to put up with it. Tell her to come back in about ten years, after she's finally checked herself into a psychiatric hospital. And when she's got her prescription for Prozac ;) |
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