Topic: She's extrovert, I'm introvert | |
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Can it work? She likes to go out and party, I like to stay in and play....
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why not do both?
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i'd definatley get bored with someone that never wanted to go out
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Find common ground... alternate by going out one night and staying in the other night. Ive had that happen in a past relationship and it worked.
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I think it can. You both just need to be flexible. Being able to sometimes go out and sometimes stay in and have fun in both cases helps keep balance. If you are an introvert you might not be the best in social situations so going out with her would be a good experience.
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obviously it didn't work that well if you're out looking for new guys on a website.
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Well, as an extrovert who has been involved with nothing but introverts, you see where I am, right? I recommend strongly that if you do not like the party scene or the whatever she is into, you must, must, find places you can spontaneously go with her that will keep her entertained. Different places and spontenaety (spelling) is a must. It is hard for an extroverted person to sit and stay still. Not that it is not good for them and I have learned to "still" myself but especially if she is young, boredom will lead to unstability in the relationship. Good luck
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Not enough data to answer your question.
First I would need to meet her, date her, get to know her, have sex with her etc. Then I would need to meet you, go out to the pubs, play some FPS, etc. Only then would I feel qualified to answer |
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that's the best factor in determining a fit if otherwise you two are similar.
that's the balance between social gatherings and intimacy. especially if the two of you are romantic or passionate, according to experts. |
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Not enough information!
Depends on both of your interests, and whether they can be blended into at least semi social gatherings. Do you share any common interests? EG: you like art, she likes art she's the extrovert...and you're the introvert? why not check out Art Museums...it's OUT and it can be social if you choose. It's contigent upon the amount of effort/energy directed toward collective & creative problem solving. There are no problems only solutions waiting to be discovered. It can work if you work at it. |
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Personally, if I were with a woman who liked to party all the time, it would be the shortest relationship ever. That's cause I just don't like "party people" though. I am by no means an introvert but I do enjoy my quiet time too.
If it bothers you that she is a party monster, tell her how you feel and see what her response is. If she says "screw you I wanna party" then kick her square on the ass so she flys straight out the door. OR if she says "I will spend more time with you", don't just sit in the house all the time. Take her out to places (other than clubs) and have fun. Maybe she is just bored sitting around the house. Note: I have no idea of this made sense cause I am bored as hell and just typing random thoughts. |
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Sincere - it did make sense and it did sound...dare I say it... sincere...
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wow just think how good I'd do if I was half awake and not bored!
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JSH.com works!
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that was good advice and insight dragoness
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I would say.......compromise!!! Its always about compromise if you want to get along! Who wants to be the same all the time? Can you say boring????
Play, lets make a deal!!! |
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it's all about the compromise.
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Door number 3
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That's it I am now legally blind.
Boinggggggg |
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