Topic: who's happy being alone?
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Thu 10/25/07 04:42 PM
Being alone makes me lonely.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/25/07 04:42 PM
Where are all the good women out there?

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Thu 10/25/07 04:42 PM
I've never dated someone and I think it's better alone due to a demanding schedule and financial issues dating some casues.

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Thu 10/25/07 04:55 PM
To be honest, I have my moments when I'm very content and other moments when I wish I was in a relationship. The trick there is that "a relationship" does not equate automatically to the right relationship. The holidays can be tough if you are prone to wishing for someone, but the thing I've learned is that I have to be OK first--then and only then do I have half a chance of finding someone to share time with.

None of that is poetic nor is it fit for a greeting card, but it is true. I like my freedom, my ability to make decisions that work for me and me alone. That is selfish--without question, but I guess it is how I'm wired for the time being.

-Drew

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Thu 10/25/07 06:52 PM
I think alone time is good and everyone needs it sometimes. Even if you are in a relationship you need your time alone. As far as relationships go it depends where you draw the line at single. Although I am not currently doing it I enjoy the beginning of dating. When its not too serious.. you know, like when u know they like you but you are not sure how much and you are still testing the limits. I guess what i mean is actually going on dates. Cause you can be going on dates with different people and none be an official girl friend yet. The mystery of not knowing what to expect or where things will go is always fun.

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Thu 10/25/07 07:56 PM
I am not alone.

I choose to not be in a relationship of a romantic kind at the present.

Alone, is a mindset, and the more you decide you are alone, the more one isolates themselves.

I belong, I am loved, respected, and appreciated, for the who of me, as I do those, that love, respect and appreciate me.

It's not a one way street.

I feel a part of this world, I feel a part of my community, I feel a part of my family, of my loves, my friends.

I am not alone.

To quote another, "We are not separate."

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Thu 10/25/07 07:59 PM
i'm so, so so, alone,hehehehehehehehehehehhe.

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Thu 10/25/07 08:00 PM
yeah, really who is ever totally alone? I would love to have 24 hours all to myself!laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 10/25/07 08:00 PM
I am

hotandspicey's photo
Thu 10/25/07 08:01 PM
Not for long Miguel! Your auntie will be hanging over your shoulder by next week! laugh laugh flowerforyou

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 10/25/07 08:04 PM
always friends and family--
would be nice if there was someone special, but not going to rush it.

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Thu 10/25/07 08:05 PM
I thought this was what f*** friends were for? huh

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Thu 10/25/07 08:06 PM
that is rxactly what i don't want

Mac60's photo
Thu 10/25/07 08:08 PM
I'm married and i'm alone. Guess that's why I'm here.

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Thu 10/25/07 08:12 PM
It would be nice to find that special someone.....I am alone, but very independant...I do get lonely sometimes too.....I miss alot of things but would rather be alone than lonely in a relationship!flowerforyou

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Thu 10/25/07 08:16 PM
I don't mind being alone. Not quite sure what single is. I guess when you are not in a relationship you are single.
But, I do miss the snuggle time.

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Fri 10/26/07 12:58 AM
LIARS!!!!!!!LOL

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Fri 10/26/07 01:04 AM
bigsmile Nope.

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Fri 10/26/07 02:57 AM
I realised a few months ago that chances are I wont find my other half.

So I've been coming to terms with it.

But I've decided to leave it to God, if he needs me to be single, sweet as.
If he doesnt want me alone; he can match me better than anyone!
so why not let it settle there aye?

I figure, if I stop looking entirely, when God brings us together I'll know for sure whether or not shes the one.

By that time I think I will be self-actualized so being single wont really be so much of a bummer to me as it kinda is now.

Come to think of it, by the time Im self actualized I will be way better with women which will increase my chances; maybe thats what God is working on me to achieve? huh :\
Mysterious....

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Fri 10/26/07 07:30 AM
So much better. I don't hear nagging and "Come watch my shows with me and play with my hair. This is how we should spend our time together" ppfffttt..