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just half an hour ago a turkish guy sent me a mail. his photo was obviously not him. it was a model kind of man at the photo. so i said to him that it is very wrong to use fake photos. and he replied bak saying that it is him, but an old photo lol so i google image searched, and of course the photo belongs to a famous model. i replied him back saying that he is the stupid one as he is thinking all others are stupid lol waiting to read what he will have to say lol  haha!
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Damn it Peggy, there's no like button here, some of these comments are brilliant. :) You're adorable and your little dog, too! 
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i directly block these ones: no photo just a face photo, and that is with sunglasses of course lol shirtless photo about me: hi i'll tell you later nicknames like: handsome guy, naughty boy, crazy handsome, hopeless xxx :has: having said all these; forum attenders are all out of this categorizing. because they at least have something to say.
Erotidoug 
Yep, I'd block you. (but not now) |
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just half an hour ago a turkish guy sent me a mail. his photo was obviously not him. it was a model kind of man at the photo. so i said to him that it is very wrong to use fake photos. and he replied bak saying that it is him, but an old photo lol so i google image searched, and of course the photo belongs to a famous model. i replied him back saying that he is the stupid one as he is thinking all others are stupid lol waiting to read what he will have to say lol haha!
lol yeah in this kind of circumstances i always think that.. what if it came to that point of meeting up, what would he do?.. but i think these kind of men's intention is not to meet. getting close by messages, sending photos, cyber kind of things. just feeding their ego and living in their dream world that they created. i cannot think of an other explanation.. |
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just half an hour ago a turkish guy sent me a mail. his photo was obviously not him. it was a model kind of man at the photo. so i said to him that it is very wrong to use fake photos. and he replied bak saying that it is him, but an old photo lol so i google image searched, and of course the photo belongs to a famous model. i replied him back saying that he is the stupid one as he is thinking all others are stupid lol waiting to read what he will have to say lol haha!
lol yeah in this kind of circumstances i always think that.. what if it came to that point of meeting up, what would he do?.. but i think these kind of men's intention is not to meet. getting close by messages, sending photos, cyber kind of things. just feeding their ego and living in their dream world that they created. i cannot think of an other explanation.. Catfish springs to mind, lol |
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What are some of the elements in profiles from the photograph to the written content that you consider a complete turn-off or at least a pet peeve?
None, anymore. Your question implies: 1. I'm turned on when reading profiles, so can be turned off. Reading profiles is like reading an ikea manual anymore. It's just information. Either useful, or not. If not, move on. If so, then for what purpose. 2. I get annoyed reading a profile, as though they are directly interacting with me. Profiles don't really annoy me anymore. It takes a few seconds to read, and I'm not really interacting with a person by reading it. So how could it annoy me. 3. There is a "right" way to fill out a profile, and that "right" way is to try and turn me on, or keep me turned on, and not be annoying from my perspective. A persons profile is about them. Not me. Getting annoyed or turned off makes it seem like I believe their profile exists to satisfy my expectations and make me finding what I want the most important thing. I figure if I'm having an emotional reaction based on reading a profile then I'm taking things way too seriously or I'm seeing online dating no different than a kid in a candy store, full of objects I am entitled to try and if I don't like the taste then it's their fault, and I'm in a hurry to find the best tasting thing to satiate my appetite and they're wasting my time with the yucky stuff. I don't want to be that way. So...I see profiles as pretty meaningless anymore unless they have what I consider relevant information that makes me want to talk to them about something, not forces me to emotionally react. 99.99999999999% don't. So, either learn to find that .000000001%, or spend a lot of time being frustrated and turned off and emotionally crazy. Being turned off or pet peeved by profiles seems like smacking myself in the head with a hammer repeatedly in order to knock myself unconscious so I don't feel the pain of being hit in the head with a hammer, anymore. --------------------------------------------------------------------------- Response: I agree with you that profiles are not the most meaningful things in the world lol. But the same way you gave an intense and detailed response to my unimportant question is the same way some people have strong and detailed responses to peoples unimportant profiles . It would be excessive and lame of us to spend days or weeks griping about chatroom peeves, but it's very human I think to have visceral reactions to stimuli provided by the chatroom world and to life in general. And we just happen to be having ONE light-hearted discussion about the visceral reactions we are experiencing. Just putting all of this in perspective :)  (but you comments were correct)  enjoy :) |
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Edited by
butribu
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Thu 01/07/16 02:05 PM
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on one site that i have been on for maybe 10 years, there was this beautiful girl (lets call her A). she was a member for the last 2 years. that was not a partner site like this, just a forum site, but still some people would fancy each other and relationships were happening. she was there all the time, she was one of the most active memmbers. not only men fancied her, also she was close friends with the women as well. they were chatting on phone, chatting on whatsapp (i mean the women), chatting at the topics all day long. 2 years !!
+ lately she started flirting with one of the male users who was very cool really. but they did not meet up. just whatsapp and writing etc. a few months ago, an other topic member(call this one B ) somehow showed the profiles of the forum members to her very close friend saying that "these are my topic friends" and her friend got shocked. because that 2 year-member A was a married woman, coming from a very wealthy and well known family, with one kid, high society and would have nothing to do with forums, sites or anything. and the same day this was heard, that girl erased her account, instagram (which was fake) facebook(fake acc.) and everything (of course they were all fake). She was probably mentally ill, because there was a fake acc on all platforms. she prepared everything perfectly well, and for 2 years she gave not a small clue. she just disappeared that day! after fooling everybody with fake photos for 2 years, and even flirting with some.. soooo be carefullll :d lol |
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on one site that i have been on for maybe 10 years, there was this beautiful girl (lets call her A). she was a member for the last 2 years. that was not a partner site like this, just a forum site, but still some people would fancy each other and relationships were happening. she was there all the time, she was one of the most active memmbers. not only men fancied her, also she was close friends with the women as well. they were chatting on phone, chatting on whatsapp (i mean the women), chatting at the topics all day long. 2 years !! + lately she started flirting with one of the male users who was very cool really. but they did not meet up. just whatsapp and writing etc. a few months ago, an other topic member(call this one B ) somehow showed the profiles of the forum members to her very close friend saying that "these are my topic friends" and her friend got shocked. because that 2 year-member A was a married woman, coming from a very wealthy and well known family, with one kid, high society and would have nothing to do with forums, sites or anything. and the same day this was heard, that girl erased her account, instagram (which was fake) facebook(fake acc.) and everything (of course they were all fake). She was probably mentally ill, because there was a fake acc on all platforms. she prepared everything perfectly well, and for 2 years she gave not a small clue. she just disappeared that day! after fooling everybody with fake photos for 2 years, and even flirting with some.. soooo be carefullll :d lol Again Catfish, some weird people out with split personalities, some with multiple personality disorders. |
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on one site that i have been on for maybe 10 years, there was this beautiful girl (lets call her A). she was a member for the last 2 years. that was not a partner site like this, just a forum site, but still some people would fancy each other and relationships were happening. she was there all the time, she was one of the most active memmbers. not only men fancied her, also she was close friends with the women as well. they were chatting on phone, chatting on whatsapp (i mean the women), chatting at the topics all day long. 2 years !! + lately she started flirting with one of the male users who was very cool really. but they did not meet up. just whatsapp and writing etc. a few months ago, an other topic member(call this one B ) somehow showed the profiles of the forum members to her very close friend saying that "these are my topic friends" and her friend got shocked. because that 2 year-member A was a married woman, coming from a very wealthy and well known family, with one kid, high society and would have nothing to do with forums, sites or anything. and the same day this was heard, that girl erased her account, instagram (which was fake) facebook(fake acc.) and everything (of course they were all fake). She was probably mentally ill, because there was a fake acc on all platforms. she prepared everything perfectly well, and for 2 years she gave not a small clue. she just disappeared that day! after fooling everybody with fake photos for 2 years, and even flirting with some.. soooo be carefullll :d lol Again Catfish, some weird people out with split personalities, some with multiple personality disorders. |
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on one site that i have been on for maybe 10 years, there was this beautiful girl (lets call her A). she was a member for the last 2 years. that was not a partner site like this, just a forum site, but still some people would fancy each other and relationships were happening. she was there all the time, she was one of the most active memmbers. not only men fancied her, also she was close friends with the women as well. they were chatting on phone, chatting on whatsapp (i mean the women), chatting at the topics all day long. 2 years !! + lately she started flirting with one of the male users who was very cool really. but they did not meet up. just whatsapp and writing etc. a few months ago, an other topic member(call this one B ) somehow showed the profiles of the forum members to her very close friend saying that "these are my topic friends" and her friend got shocked. because that 2 year-member A was a married woman, coming from a very wealthy and well known family, with one kid, high society and would have nothing to do with forums, sites or anything. and the same day this was heard, that girl erased her account, instagram (which was fake) facebook(fake acc.) and everything (of course they were all fake). She was probably mentally ill, because there was a fake acc on all platforms. she prepared everything perfectly well, and for 2 years she gave not a small clue. she just disappeared that day! after fooling everybody with fake photos for 2 years, and even flirting with some.. soooo be carefullll :d lol Again Catfish, some weird people out with split personalities, some with multiple personality disorders. sorry i do not know that catfish expression. but agree about the personality disorders |
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Pet peeve when cuties like peggy122 live on the other side of the world rather peeved indeed 
I'll drink to that. 
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on one site that i have been on for maybe 10 years, there was this beautiful girl (lets call her A). she was a member for the last 2 years. that was not a partner site like this, just a forum site, but still some people would fancy each other and relationships were happening. she was there all the time, she was one of the most active memmbers. not only men fancied her, also she was close friends with the women as well. they were chatting on phone, chatting on whatsapp (i mean the women), chatting at the topics all day long. 2 years !! + lately she started flirting with one of the male users who was very cool really. but they did not meet up. just whatsapp and writing etc. a few months ago, an other topic member(call this one B ) somehow showed the profiles of the forum members to her very close friend saying that "these are my topic friends" and her friend got shocked. because that 2 year-member A was a married woman, coming from a very wealthy and well known family, with one kid, high society and would have nothing to do with forums, sites or anything. and the same day this was heard, that girl erased her account, instagram (which was fake) facebook(fake acc.) and everything (of course they were all fake). She was probably mentally ill, because there was a fake acc on all platforms. she prepared everything perfectly well, and for 2 years she gave not a small clue. she just disappeared that day! after fooling everybody with fake photos for 2 years, and even flirting with some.. soooo be carefullll :d lol Again Catfish, some weird people out with split personalities, some with multiple personality disorders. sorry i do not know that catfish expression. but agree about the personality disorders Catfish was an American TV that started say 10 years ago roughly, it was just a one off but then made a few series I believe, anyway it's about this guy hunts down people for what he refers to as the "Catfish" basically a person on a wetsite/chatroom posing as someone else. In the pilot eppisode he chatted to a girl on a chatroom for months and she posted pictures from her high school, her town and plenty of other stuff that looked wholesome enough, but he know someting wasn't right, so he dug into it, by googling an images tag you can often find when it was posted, by who and where, and he found it wasn't who she said it was. The programme centers around him tracking her down to confront her, and in the end he finds it's some 40 or 50 year woman with like you say some sort of mental heath issues. I think the show is still running, but I don't really follow it anymore, just too weird, lol. |
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on one site that i have been on for maybe 10 years, there was this beautiful girl (lets call her A). she was a member for the last 2 years. that was not a partner site like this, just a forum site, but still some people would fancy each other and relationships were happening. she was there all the time, she was one of the most active memmbers. not only men fancied her, also she was close friends with the women as well. they were chatting on phone, chatting on whatsapp (i mean the women), chatting at the topics all day long. 2 years !! + lately she started flirting with one of the male users who was very cool really. but they did not meet up. just whatsapp and writing etc. a few months ago, an other topic member(call this one B ) somehow showed the profiles of the forum members to her very close friend saying that "these are my topic friends" and her friend got shocked. because that 2 year-member A was a married woman, coming from a very wealthy and well known family, with one kid, high society and would have nothing to do with forums, sites or anything. and the same day this was heard, that girl erased her account, instagram (which was fake) facebook(fake acc.) and everything (of course they were all fake). She was probably mentally ill, because there was a fake acc on all platforms. she prepared everything perfectly well, and for 2 years she gave not a small clue. she just disappeared that day! after fooling everybody with fake photos for 2 years, and even flirting with some.. soooo be carefullll :d lol Again Catfish, some weird people out with split personalities, some with multiple personality disorders. sorry i do not know that catfish expression. but agree about the personality disorders Catfish was an American TV that started say 10 years ago roughly, it was just a one off but then made a few series I believe, anyway it's about this guy hunts down people for what he refers to as the "Catfish" basically a person on a wetsite/chatroom posing as someone else. In the pilot eppisode he chatted to a girl on a chatroom for months and she posted pictures from her high school, her town and plenty of other stuff that looked wholesome enough, but he know someting wasn't right, so he dug into it, by googling an images tag you can often find when it was posted, by who and where, and he found it wasn't who she said it was. The programme centers around him tracking her down to confront her, and in the end he finds it's some 40 or 50 year woman with like you say some sort of mental heath issues. I think the show is still running, but I don't really follow it anymore, just too weird, lol. waowww. it sounded very interesting to me. i don't know if i can find it but i will try to find. you explained it perfectly well. thank you :) |
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and yes, the story is similar to my story. everone wonders who she is, what she looks like really. even if it was a she or a he. nobody knows..
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I know the guy repeated the format and did the same thing to others, then I think people would write into the show and he'd go check them out and get answers, all sorts of different people.
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I called the local pet shop. They were all out of peeves.
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i found the show, but i couldn't find subtitles in turkish. anyway i will watch it, it sounds extremely interesting to me. i hope i have no difficulty with the accents. sometimes i do sometimes it runs perfectly well. i will see.
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i found the show, but i couldn't find subtitles in turkish. anyway i will watch it, it sounds extremely interesting to me. i hope i have no difficulty with the accents. sometimes i do sometimes it runs perfectly well. i will see.
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Edited by
peggy122
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Thu 01/07/16 03:40 PM
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One time someone messaged me that he had 10 inches for me. 
Blocked.
I pray he was referring to the 10 inches in his pants, rather than the 10 inches of slush in his head . lolol |
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Turn off to me is when I read a freaking novel in their headline. I mean....don't tell me you like long walks on the beach. Be truthful. Tell me how kinky you are. 2016.....it's all about the honesty.  
The suspense is over ladies... We now have our final contender for the block- list circa 2016! Yaaaaaaaaay!!!!! (Dont mind me. I.m just being retarded :) |
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