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Topic: Profile Turn-offs And Pet peeves?
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Thu 01/21/16 11:26 AM


peggy, while talking about taking risk, i remembered this sentence by "albert einstein"

“A ship is always safe at the shore - but that is NOT what it is built for.”





Hmmmmm.... I must remember this saying every time I am afraid to take a risk drinker


me too :d

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Thu 01/21/16 12:25 PM
think what

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Thu 01/21/16 12:31 PM

no problems hun, we are both straight anyway :DDD lol


That is a relief.

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Thu 01/21/16 12:33 PM
:d

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Sun 01/24/16 01:01 PM
My Turn offs are ladies that do not answer their mail. Even if it says no thank you or not interested. Does it really take that long to reply?
Another is those that state I am Honest, open and accepting in their [rofile but do not return mail. Yeah real accepting. I need a new dictionary I think mine must be broken.

I am not perfect but I am honest and a hell of a lot more accepting than what I have found so far. I mean look at my age group we have been around the block a few times and are kinda set in our ways a bit and I can accept that in a relationship it is a good thing to have a few differences keeps things interesting. Besides perfect does not exist in my book.

I will keep trying until I decide to remain single.

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Sun 01/24/16 01:05 PM

My Turn offs are ladies that do not answer their mail. Even if it says no thank you or not interested. Does it really take that long to reply?
Another is those that state I am Honest, open and accepting in their [rofile but do not return mail. Yeah real accepting. I need a new dictionary I think mine must be broken.

I am not perfect but I am honest and a hell of a lot more accepting than what I have found so far. I mean look at my age group we have been around the block a few times and are kinda set in our ways a bit and I can accept that in a relationship it is a good thing to have a few differences keeps things interesting. Besides perfect does not exist in my book.

I will keep trying until I decide to remain single.


Uh, this discussion thread is about the things in other people's profiles that irk you, not how people respond to your messages.

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Sun 01/24/16 01:20 PM
is there an obligation/necessity to answer every mail?¿¿ is it rude not to answer? that may be an other discussion subject.

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Sun 01/24/16 01:28 PM

is there an obligation/necessity to answer every mail?¿¿ is it rude not to answer? that may be an other discussion subject.


Let's not open up that can of worms. I have no desire to go fishing. indifferent

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Sun 01/24/16 01:36 PM


is there an obligation/necessity to answer every mail?¿¿ is it rude not to answer? that may be an other discussion subject.


Let's not open up that can of worms. I have no desire to go fishing. indifferent


ok. i shut up.

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Sun 01/24/16 03:11 PM

Smokes?
Often


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Sun 01/24/16 05:54 PM
“Pionate.” I’ve seen it in at least two profiles today. Is this an actual word now? Is it a thing?

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Sun 01/24/16 05:55 PM

“Pionate.” I’ve seen it in at least two profiles today. Is this an actual word now? Is it a thing?


i have never heard of that word till i read your post
found this thread http://mingle2.com/topic/409587

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Sun 01/24/16 06:12 PM
Hi...A turn off for me, is when they don't have proper control of the English language.

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Sun 01/24/16 06:41 PM

Hi...A turn off for me, is when they don't have proper control of the English language.


smile2 smile2

And big bushy neckbeards.

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Sun 01/24/16 06:50 PM
Edited by VioletTigress on Sun 01/24/16 06:51 PM

My Turn offs are ladies that do not answer their mail. Even if it says no thank you or not interested. Does it really take that long to reply?
Another is those that state I am Honest, open and accepting in their [rofile but do not return mail. Yeah real accepting. I need a new dictionary I think mine must be broken.



I think a lot of people just don’t answer because answering at all might be seen as a sign of interest.

It could also be because if a woman answers “no thank you,” a lot of men will demand an explanation as to why, and will try to talk her into it.

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Sun 01/24/16 07:09 PM

My Turn offs are ladies that do not answer their mail. Even if it says no thank you or not interested. Does it really take that long to reply?
Another is those that state I am Honest, open and accepting in their [rofile but do not return mail. Yeah real accepting. I need a new dictionary I think mine must be broken.

I am not perfect but I am honest and a hell of a lot more accepting than what I have found so far. I mean look at my age group we have been around the block a few times and are kinda set in our ways a bit and I can accept that in a relationship it is a good thing to have a few differences keeps things interesting. Besides perfect does not exist in my book.

I will keep trying until I decide to remain single.


Aaawww... I empathise, but the reality is that a NO from the women here is usually followed by hostile responses from men, or mail asking the women WHY, which puts women in a very awkward and unpleasant position so most women opt for avoiding the whole scene altogether. Just move on quickly and try not to take it personally. Enjoy the forums and focus your search on the YES from the right woman for you instead of the Nos or silences from all the wrong ones. Good luck to you!:smile:

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Sun 01/24/16 07:17 PM



is there an obligation/necessity to answer every mail?¿¿ is it rude not to answer? that may be an other discussion subject.


Let's not open up that can of worms. I have no desire to go fishing. indifferent


ok. i shut up.


It might be rude B, but for the sanity of many women it is necessary. I try to respond as often as I can but it is EXHAUSTING! :(

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Sun 01/24/16 07:17 PM
Women whose profiles have lists so long for qualifying to message them it looks like a grocery list...women who have sexy or hot in their username or profile(I'll decide that) people who thinks their soulmate is going to live within 50-100 miles of their location(if you think the chances are good of that happening..play the powerball..(youll win)BIG annoyance... people who dont have manners and at least say THANK YOU for a compliment even if their not interested!!! Were you not taught any manners??!!

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Sun 01/24/16 07:18 PM


My Turn offs are ladies that do not answer their mail. Even if it says no thank you or not interested. Does it really take that long to reply?
Another is those that state I am Honest, open and accepting in their [rofile but do not return mail. Yeah real accepting. I need a new dictionary I think mine must be broken.



I think a lot of people just don’t answer because answering at all might be seen as a sign of interest.

It could also be because if a woman answers “no thank you,” a lot of men will demand an explanation as to why, and will try to talk her into it.


EXACTLY!!! I have experienced this repeatedly!

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Sun 01/24/16 07:28 PM




is there an obligation/necessity to answer every mail?¿¿ is it rude not to answer? that may be an other discussion subject.


Let's not open up that can of worms. I have no desire to go fishing. indifferent


ok. i shut up.


It might be rude B, but for the sanity of many women it is necessary. I try to respond as often as I can but it is EXHAUSTING! :(


Hi Peggy, i was wondering where you have been. i felt like we haven't spoken for days.

i read your previous comment. U have very perfectly explained the situation and why we sometimes avoid answering. i agree on everything you have written. i will even not get into the subject of how many mails the women are getting a day.really exhausting and i do not think any woman will spend time to answer so many mails really.

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