My purpose is to make the best of what God gave me. Continue on, continuing on..as they say. Be positive, be happy, and don't set myself up for to much disappointment. I really don't need to go there. Be around, happy upbeat people, and pay it forward where needed. I also love to do, random acts of kindness, and no one is the wiser..I don't need to be recognized for this. It makes me happy..it is who I have become!

Not all women..are interested in a bad boy..
So..you can't lump us all together..
Some do want a nice guy..

Yes there are..Just keep looking. Don't ever give up.

What happens to me, more times then not. I find a profile, that is well written, and pictures that spark my interest, and so I decide to respond. Then I get down to the box to write what I want to convey there, and discover that I am unable to do so. That person, who wrote the most amazing and down to earth post, has decided for whatever reason, to limit his inbox of emails.He either got burnt badly, or just plain decided he liked way younger women. That being said, I have to move on..and finding someone in my decade, or even in their mid 50's is getting to be hard to locate.

Oh yeah, they latch on to any meal ticket they can get. When I first was on, a guy from the "military" wanted me to write his "lawyer" so he could have a leave to the USA...seriously, they are so good at their "assigned jobs", that they need me, a civilian to write for their leave...Totally bogus! I always chat a bit, in the secure box, before ever thinking of going out of here..Safety first, my safety!

Hi..Am new to the chatroom, but have been on mingle about 3 months. So I guess, fairly new. Blessing to all of us, that are searching!

Hi..I am new here. But noticed that younger guys are saying hi..to my profile. It's nice, but most aren't even in the same decade. Any suggestions? I still feel young at heart..does that count?

Tom...Thanks for the Valentine Day wishes..the same goes to you! Hope your staying warm and dry tonight.

Thought I would pop in to say hi...Hope everyone is living up to the hype of finding a Valentine!

Hi...A turn off for me, is when they don't have proper control of the English language.