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When I wasn't getting any I was obsessed with women. Sex was the be-all-and-end-all for me. And seeing them prancing about strutting their stuff was torturous. Even the plain janes had me drooling.
So I joined dating sites hoping to get some but then I found out it wasn't as easy as that. It takes more than just a pretty face believe me. I thought all I had to do was upload a picture and ask them if they wanted some action. But they just ignored me, or replied back with spiteful messages. I'm very stubbon so it took me a long time to change tactics. So I went the long way round and got some dates. Some didn't go according to plan but most did. This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit. |
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Welcome back man...
Just do it.... We all wanna see your pain and angst.... |
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Whatever gets you through the night. Did they boot you off Date Hook Up? Or Ashley Madison or where ever?
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At least you can get dates, I have barely gotten a single response to my emails and the one woman I was talking to did exactly what I thought she was going to do, talk to me for a week, want to get to know me and then ask me for money. I work hard and believe in helping people but I do not agree with talking to someone for 2 weeks and saying "oh I love you" I need you help please send me money. Why do people have to be so shallow and selfish. I just want to find someone to spend my time with. Maybe it will just be better to go hide in a hole somewhere like I have been for the last few years.
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So I went the long way round and got some dates.
So, red6mist finally visited the produce section of a supermarket. |
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Edited by
jacktrades
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Mon 12/28/15 08:05 PM
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My man RED, back in the saddle again. Where you been brother? A wolf dressed up in sheep's clothing taking the long way around, Sounds like a plan Happy Holidays RED.
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For Red, going celibate is like going on a stay-cation.
You don't have to travel because you are already there. |
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thinking of going celibate Your boyfriends are going to be disappointed to hear that....
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When I wasn't getting any I was obsessed with women. Sex was the be-all-and-end-all for me. And seeing them prancing about strutting their stuff was torturous. Even the plain janes had me drooling. So I joined dating sites hoping to get some but then I found out it wasn't as easy as that. It takes more than just a pretty face believe me. I thought all I had to do was upload a picture and ask them if they wanted some action. But they just ignored me, or replied back with spiteful messages. I'm very stubbon so it took me a long time to change tactics. So I went the long way round and got some dates. Some didn't go according to plan but most did. This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit. Welcome back. Right Said Fred - I'm Too Sexy (Original Mix) http://youtu.be/P5mtclwloEQ/ |
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At least you can get dates, I have barely gotten a single response to my emails and the one woman I was talking to did exactly what I thought she was going to do, talk to me for a week, want to get to know me and then ask me for money. I work hard and believe in helping people but I do not agree with talking to someone for 2 weeks and saying "oh I love you" I need you help please send me money. Why do people have to be so shallow and selfish. I just want to find someone to spend my time with. Maybe it will just be better to go hide in a hole somewhere like I have been for the last few years. Don't give up man |
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Hey Misty..good seeing you.
Sounds like you're just bored. Throw away your inflateable wench. Go with a silicone girl. They cost a few quid more, but you won't regret it. |
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So you came here because you are off sex.
This makes enormous sense. What have you done with the real redmist? |
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Let me be honest you don't miss it.
You realise there's more to the person than physical appearances |
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NOW. Are we talking like in no sex at all.?. Like not even with ourselves..
Nooooooo. .. nice to see you back up on the horse again |
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NOW. Are we talking like in no sex at all.?. Like not even with ourselves.. Nooooooo. .. nice to see you back up on the horse again Could you handle it? |
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no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it
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no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it a very good point. At the moment I am doing pretty good. I don't think of man as a sexual being. Is that weird? |
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PS can I add I don't look at females like that either.
I like men but don't googly eye them like I need them to fill in something. Sorry I don't know how to explain it any other way |
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no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it a very good point. At the moment I am doing pretty good. I don't think of man as a sexual being. Is that weird? Dunno if it's weird, but I can't. Whenever I think being around the man for me, how I'd feel with him etc., it automatically gets sensual, flirty and sexual. If I don't get a sexual vibe from a man, he becomes sorta androgynous to me. I'm not necessarily talking about getting turned on, I'm talking about the natural attraction/sexual tension between men and women. So in a way to me it's the other way round: if I don't see them as a sexual being, I don't think of them as a man, but more as an androgynous being, lol |
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This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit. Red I'm so disappointed in this statement. You were da' man Hopefully it'll just be one of those phases |
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