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Topic: thinking of going celibate
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 12/29/15 04:55 AM
This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit. Red I'm so disappointed in this statement. I'm not disappointed. I'm confused instead. I didn't know that a blow-up . . . Oh, never mind.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 12/29/15 06:02 AM
no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it a very good point. At the moment I am doing pretty good. I don't think of man as a sexual being. Is that weird? Dunno if it's weird, but I can't. Whenever I think being around the man for me, how I'd feel with him etc., it automatically gets sensual, flirty and sexual. If I don't get a sexual vibe from a man, he becomes sorta androgynous to me. I'm not necessarily talking about getting turned on, I'm talking about the natural attraction/sexual tension between men and women. So in a way to me it's the other way round: if I don't see them as a sexual being, I don't think of them as a man, but more as an androgynous being, lol ...hmmm... kind of like a eunuch.. eunuch..umm.. a man that has been castrated..lol.....I think that's the right term....lol..

EmJ1504 Joined Mon 10/05/15 Posts: 1312	Tue 12/29/15 07:49 AM
Since I made the same decision, I have been inundated with offers, one even offered to provide me with a love child! Think it goes back to the thread about what you attract! In this case it is the opposite. I want a man who treats me right and doesn't expect sex on the first date, or second or even third date. Possibly after they buy me a platinum and diamond ring but ideally after they build me a house

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33364	Tue 12/29/15 10:26 AM
no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it a very good point. At the moment I am doing pretty good. I don't think of man as a sexual being. Is that weird? Dunno if it's weird, but I can't. Whenever I think being around the man for me, how I'd feel with him etc., it automatically gets sensual, flirty and sexual. If I don't get a sexual vibe from a man, he becomes sorta androgynous to me. I'm not necessarily talking about getting turned on, I'm talking about the natural attraction/sexual tension between men and women. So in a way to me it's the other way round: if I don't see them as a sexual being, I don't think of them as a man, but more as an androgynous being, lol ...hmmm... kind of like a eunuch.. eunuch..umm.. a man that has been castrated..lol.....I think that's the right term....lol.. Does the thought give you an ache bellow the belt?

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 12/29/15 10:44 AM
are there women worth having sex with in England?

EmJ1504 Joined Mon 10/05/15 Posts: 1312	Tue 12/29/15 10:47 AM
are there women worth having sex with in England? Not anymore, I've moved back to N.Ire

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Tue 12/29/15 10:48 AM
are there women worth having sex with in England?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33364	Tue 12/29/15 11:10 AM
are there women worth having sex with in England? well ... most English men that have been to Holland prefer Dutch women... so I'd say skip England, get your @$$ to Holland. Sweden should be good too, but that's hearsay.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 12/29/15 11:31 AM
I'd say skip England, get your @$$ to Holland. Sweden should be good too, but that's hearsay. That brings new meaning to the expression "going Dutch".

EmJ1504 Joined Mon 10/05/15 Posts: 1312	Tue 12/29/15 11:36 AM
Mmmm, fond memories. The second guy I kissed was a Dutch soldier. The accent still makes me weak at the knees!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 12/29/15 11:41 AM
Mmmm, fond memories. The second guy I kissed was a Dutch soldier. The accent still makes me weak at the knees! Was he wearing wooden combat boots?

EmJ1504 Joined Mon 10/05/15 Posts: 1312	Tue 12/29/15 11:47 AM
Mmmm, fond memories. The second guy I kissed was a Dutch soldier. The accent still makes me weak at the knees! Was he wearing wooden combat boots? BRB, witty comment to follow ...