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It can take years into a relationship to learn
about things like that. Thank your freaking lucky stars you found out before solidifying it all. |
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Sounds to me like he wants to use the "Clinton defense" with his wife.
"I did not have "sex" with that woman, miss Sexyazz.". |
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I met a guy back in July. We hit it off fairly well to the point that he now wants to get married. I took this as the perfect time to start a sexual relationship. I have noticed that the first time, he stopped right as things began to get heavy saying that he was terrified to get me pregnant. Errection gone! The 2nd time we had protection, he stated that he hated condoms...erection immediately gone. The 3rd time, he was afraid that one of my boys might stop over, you guessed it...erection gone. Oh, I forgot to mention that each time, he wanted oral and spoke of butt stuff-which will never happen!, with oral, he got off very quickly and I was stuck with a cold shower every time! This last time I immediately felt that maybe he isn't attracted to me in that way or maybe he has some homosexual tendencies. I asked and all he would say is that there are a lot of guys who can't get off on "penis in vagina" sex.  How am I supposed to be with someone and never have sex? Has anyone encountered this before?...don't worry about breaking his heart...you will only make yourself feel like you're less than a woman... I dated a guy for the better part of a year with a very similar issue...even though he would do everything he could to satisfy me...I felt like a loser...no matter what we did to make it "happen"...almost always it wouldn't...then the few times it did...I still felt bad cause the loss of spontaneity...sex was worse than work... I finally called it off...it wasn't easy cause I really cared about him but I care about myself as well...good luck to you...just keep in mind that if you can't get over it...get out of it...good luck to ya... 
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Let me get this straight.
A man wants to marry a woman. The woman is angry because sexual intercourse isn't happening before the two of them get married. As Barnabas Collins would say, 
"what an age this is." |
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Let me get this straight. A man wants to marry a woman. The woman is angry because sexual intercourse isn't happening before the two of them get married. "what an age this is." I don't think you got it right .... What she had said is that they've tried about 3 times to have intercourse, but he keeps losing his erection.. Can't keep it up; loses his boner.. Once-ok Twice-really? Three times? C'mon |
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Have seen it, lived with one like that for 10 years. God awful, get rid off the bloke! ASAP!
It won't change, it'll only get worse. Clearly he doesn't care about your needs and desires, and right now in the beginning of the relationship, he should still be at his best behaviour, so ... this isn't going to get better, chances are it will get (a lot) worse though! GET OUT! And remember one thing for every next guy you may end up having sex with: There is only ONE reason to have sex, and ONE only: YOUR pleasure. So NO servicing him. That'll lead to you getting frustrated and cold showers. If he doesn't want to please you, or can't please you ----> FO!! This policy makes sure you are left only with men who are interested in you, and not their own pleasure. Apart from that, you should never have sex to please a bloke. Somehow us women should have to let go of this stupid idea that we should 'service' our man (first). I haven't done so in years, and no one has complained, no one has even asked for it, and yet ... they all want to come back for more! Some even grovel, lol. Not kidding you. So dump this loser and set up some rules for yourself. |
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I don't think you got it right .... What she had said is that they've tried about 3 times to have intercourse, but he keeps losing his erection.. Can't keep it up; loses his boner.. Once-ok Twice-really? Three times? C'mon In addition.... He wanted oral and spoke of butt stuff.... All he would say is that there are a lot of guys who can't get off on "penis in vagina" sex.... Never thought I would see this again.... but I have....this happened to a relative of mine when I was a teen... Her husband started out normal but these tendencies surfaced after a couple of years of marriage.... She tried to accommodate his needs but needless to say he didn't "get over it"... She couldn't cope...he wouldn't go into counseling...and the marriage finally broke down... In his case it was a mental illness... But Op...please...don't even go there...it will be a disaster...get out while you can.... I feel for you....but you have to look after you and cut this guy loose... |
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