oh sorry i misspelled her name,forgive me for not taking Popstar101

Wasn't bein a b!tch, just correcting.

Sex on the first date?

Absolutely not.! No offense to anyone that does. However for me no. Many reasons. I am an antique, Need to be polished up first..laugh! no seriously. Better to become a friend to your possible mate first, Get to know theme before you commit to anything more.. Sure get to matches together and they want to make fire. But if you dont take time to gather kindling.. matches will just burn out in a few sec. ok poor analogy...

Everyone is different every situation has it own merrits. I just think if people spent more time becomeing friends first. then lovers instead of lovers then work at becoming friends.. our relationships would last longer.

where my body goes, there goes my heart.. Where my heart goes there goes my body. Cant seperate Sex, love, mind and the body.. all one package or no package at all


My favorite comedian of all time!!! "George Bush"


Wesley

I think if the individual is happy that is all that matters.

Well I'm a nun and we don't believe in sex on the first date!!!!!!!!

I make a lousy nun lol

Ah....Native...than what were we doing last night on our first date....?

The old joke ever had a bad one night stand that turned into 2 years.

so he was good you kept him? lol

Ha Ha Ha

Damnits...Leave it to you to blow the whistle!!!!!!!!!!

Never over rate the power of your panties. Guys will jump in anything they are allowed to in most cases. First date or not so it is hardly a good way to gage if you are compatiable. Often if they are getting sex they will keep coming around for awhile but not because they like you just because you are filling that need. Will they stay, get serious, or trust you? Probably not. They figure if you give it up that easy you are not demonstarteing a lot of self control and will probably jump anything else you see as interesting weather you say you won't or not. Guys have a thing about fidelity and if your track record says you are not loyal to yourself why would you be loyal to them? Will they get serious about you. Probably not. Few guys want to take home something that has been passed around like a locker room towel. Nor do they want to fight for your honor when you have not demonstrated it. Men are gossips and competative and your reputation will proceed you and his so called friends will have a blast ragging him if he trys to promote you from booty call bimbo to girlfriend. Maybe if you get pregnant but they will stay out of guilt and resent you the rest of their life. It is an old saying; every girl is born setting on a goldmine. The value yours has is directly associated to who you let go digging around in it. If you settle for some guy who hasn't made the effort to get to know you don't be surprised if he grabs what he can and abandones the mine when it gets a little tougher to find the good stuff. If you respect what you are then so will he.

we don't gossip,women do that!

Geeeeeeze people can do what they like, either its the ok thing according to what society preaches. Life is too short for all these nonsense, one might get run over tomorrow then what?

Whatever people do as long they are happy, good on them, its their life. Those that preach are often the ones not happy

I live by MY rules. Not society's. After all..the only way "society" would know how I live is if I broadcast it. I am who I am..and if I wake up and feel okay about what I did the night before...then why should I allow someone elses closed mind to ruin my fun?

just to comment on PacificStar48 post about Men, i think that is very generalized statement Not all men are this way.. in fact here is.. "One" no power in the panities that control strong men or men with integrity.. Shame wish you would have included that some men.. not men..in general. Panties do not control all men.. only men with low self esteem and have no value for the oppisite sex.. ok maybe there are more of these men than not but .. I think we generalize catagorize to easly and lump into specific behaviors.. I have had plenty of opportinities to have one night stands. yet.. i am that old antique that belive sex is of no value with out commmitment and love.. shame on me for being different laugh!

Lets not generalize .. lets pursue to find better and ignor the wanton behavior the fhe weak.

Sad thing everyone askes were are all the good men.. I have alot of friends that are good men.. moral, strong integrity i ask often were are the good women.. but you know their there.. just boring compared to the bad boys and bad girls and rouges that make us excited.. there obvious...


If i was a King. would make George Bush my joker!

Wesley