It would have to be very hot for both of us and she would have to swear to me that we will be together forever, because I'm only giving myself one chance. One mate in my life time. If I blow it and sleep with a girl who ends up to not be the One... I am honor-bound to never try again...

So one could understand why I need to be careful.

Thats what condoms are for..lol

Truly, I respect your thoughts on this joshy. Though, once I believed that was the way and so as many from era before me. The ultimate sacrifice... and found themselves in unloved and sexless marriages. Now, their perception on that is just to enjoy life and if meeting someone on the first date they end up sleeping with that person so be it. As adults why not instead of accepting whats being dictated by society as the right thing to do.

Sin, if I traveled all that way, might need to sleep first & have sex in the morning

Why wait for the first date!

Hahaha oldsage, hugs matey....thanks for the giggles

Is there a pre-first date s1owhand? haha I think its the same thing, just an excuse to call it date...lol

ummm...sex before the first date is how you find out if there's even going to be a first date

Jtevans

just being truthful

and I agree...

bout time someone does!

Hey last I checked I was and adult and I'm the only one that has to live with my choices that I make so if it was to happen it happens. To bad some still have it in there littel pea brains that you are not worthy of them if you do sleep with them on the first date. All I can say hit the road hell why wait 6 months then find out they are a flop in the bed shhhhs so if the moment is there you want it take it life is to short to put off till tomorrow of the things you want today.

My point exactly ...lol

but if you do decide to and he asks to pee on you,just say NO!!!

eeewwweee JT lol then I chop his ooooooopsy off lol

Hon I may be half crazy but I'm no where near stupid and Golden Showers are not in my vocabulary!!! And if he ask the answer he would get real quick is theres the door don't let it hit ya in the azzzz lol Shshhshss Hey there is getting a little kinky then there is your way out of line lol

makes ya wonder what provokes both men and women to do that kind of stuff

Years back I met a Sydney guy online and he was admant that was his thing, for a woman to do that to him...eeeweeee lol

Hmmmmmm True you are an adult and sex on first date is a choice but don't think it is the wisest one. Sounds good in theroy to be all turned on to someone but I doubt you know a person well enough for it to be anything but lust and probably not really for that person. Of the people I know that do it far and away they never got into a satisfying relationship or even enjoyed the sex that much.

Well if you have been talking to someone online for a month or so and you make plans to meet them and say the moment gets heated and it happens.


Then if the person was local and say you had a 3-4 date thing before you sleep with them then it happens.

My point is this the person you were talking online wiith most likel online and the phone I promise you you talked alot more then the local one you dated 3-4 times and you know more about the one on line due to it being on line you tend to ask alot more questions about them from child hood up at least I do. But either way it is up to each person what they do and should not put another down or think less of them if they do its there choice and only they have to live with it.

Now I'm not talking about hitting the bar and the first time ya laid eyes on them and dont know anything past there name to jump in the sack with them nope don't go there lol