I hope so Joyce.

And if or when it happens i hope she sticks to what she want that time around.

*sigh*

you will sweetie--
come on..you are no frog!!!!!!!!

Ok, I believe you and yeah she also deactivated her account on here May be she's got some personal reasons why she did that to you.

Dave, I hope you will be okay in time, don't take it too seriously I know how it feels like being hurt like that, hurts like hell huh, but you have to move on in case you cant win her back anymore. Someone is meant for you. Smile I know you are tough.


PATIENCE is a VIRTUE.....

I stick to this saying, right, Joyce?
Ok Im outta here, goodnight everyone!

sounds like you turned into a ***** somewhere along the way (somewhere between staying on the phone for 6 hours every night and saying stuff like life is pain) and i don't know a single girl that will stay with one. a lot of girls can seem like the one but you cant build any one of them up like this. its just irresponsible and puts expectations on her that she wont live up to. its not a big deal that this happened you just have to realize that its because of the way you acted and take responsibility for it. theres millions of girls out there. just dont do it again. be a fkin man and stop listening to these people throwing you a pity party.

ty joyce hun

but what im wondering is why she didnt feel,or think what she did tonight. previously. before we had all these plans,feelings for each other,Love.

life is pain Gravy)) after what she did.
And i am a F U C K I N man .

no one is giving a pity party!!
i do not know anything about the situation- so to say
he was right or she was right--who knows.
i do know one thing--we all have faults
and i know evad from posts and like i said he is
no frog, he will find someone again.

I'm not trying to throw a pity party here. but me and her met here.

even had a post of it. so decided to post what had happened.

so dont be making accusation gravy)) if you dont know whats been going on here.

only she knows the answer to why she did what she did and unless she decides to share no one else will know.
maybe she got scared, maybe she was not the person she said she was and now was a good time to back out, maybe she found another, maybe..maybe..
this is a loss and you have a right to work through grief
regardless of whether anyone thinks you should or not.

Lay off gravy, He's been hurt. Your goading isn't doing anyone any good. If you got stomped on you'd be out to. As for you Dave, God will toss someone your way,You will not walk through this life mate less.

Dave... give it some time, a couple of days. This may give her a chance to think about what she really wants in life. If its meant to be, love will prevail. She is probably hurting too, if she cares like I thought she did.

Don't give up, nor beg, just be patient and let her know you are there for her. Think outside the box of the relationship, and gain eachothers trust, respect, and understand for one another.

Wish you well, Bro!!

Gravy... please find a different thread if you can't be nice!!

well said wizard,thank you for the positive advice.

heres what i think

She burned me down, down to the ground

Blood - though thicker than water - is harder to clean up
You?ll get it in the end boy if the weapon of choice is love
Expecting it from a stranger or maybe an acquaintance
Never from family or friends though a simple mistake and expense

She burned me down, down to the ground

Pissed and disappointed I prey to learn to forgive
If I can?t find it in my heart then I have no reason to live

Here is an education - the lesson professed is quite cruel
There are some things worse the death and one of them is you

the lyrics to a song im listening to ^^

I am sorry you are hurting Dave but posting a public thread when she isn't here to give her side of the story isn't likely to yield the answers you seek. Nor is it fair to the one you profess to love. I don't know what happened but wish you both well.

i previously posted the reason why she did what she did on page 1 artgurl.

i just posted what i did for advice.

EVAD!!!!
I know you probably don't care to hear what I have to say. I didn't think things all the way through. And then in the middle of last night, Maya woke up crying for her dad... a guy she doesn't even remember.
IT HIT ME REALLY HARD.

What do you expect me to do?
It has nothing to do with anything but those kids, Evad. I can't be with you knowing I pulled you away from them.

I really wish you could understand.

I deactivated my account because i don't want to hear all the negative drama and bull**** that people will more than likely throw at me... however, since our business is now public... let me give my view.

You are absolutely perfect... And I do love you. And it is killing me to have it be this way.

I don't know what else I can say to make you see. This is devastating me. But I will not put those kids through what my kids go through having no father.

Doesn't matter about your ex or her current man or any of that. Those are your kids and they should be your priority... not my kids and me.

Yours is the greatest love I'll never know... and I am sorry that this is how it is.

-J

OMG this one will gonna make me

Sorry to both of you!!!
But I still hope you will at least work out for this.
Good luck!

I respect that.

Just wished you would have told me that at the beggining.

and yes i do care to hear what you have to say.

just dont know why you didnt feel how you feel now and not tell me before we built up all of this that we "had".

i just dont understand it babe. I will always Love You for who you are.