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Topic: Can you fall in love
nurjoyce's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:41 PM
in a week?
without really meeting in person?

Jess642's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:42 PM
No, but you can fall in infatuation, and hope.flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:42 PM
No Chance in hell lol.

That is me though.

looking4u52's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:43 PM
Joyce, I would watch your emotions. You may be wanting to fall in love. Don't do it for the wrong reasons. Fall in love and next thing you know a broken heart can follow. Take it slow.

Twitch's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:43 PM
i don't know hon just be careful

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Tue 10/16/07 05:44 PM
I agree with Jess because true love takes time. Love is something you have to build on cuz if you rush in, most likely you'll get a ton of head aches and a broken heart

shutterbug63's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:52 PM
I don't really think so, Joyce. It may be more of an infatutation. Only time will tell how you really feel. I say give it a couple of months. I take it you have talked to him on the phone?

no photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:52 PM
In my many years of experience...it cant be done...someone said before its infactuation...the feelings need to be kept in check or there could be heartache when the two people meet and the chemistry may not be there.

Ive been on a few meetings and have always been surprised at what I had not picked up on in our conversations...

no photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:54 PM
i don't know either.. but... i would just tell you to take your time.. and get to know the person.. a little bit more. SO many people tell you what they think you want to hear early on.. or what they think they want... until they get it.

Just be careful
:wink:

kkoldazice's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:54 PM
i've never been able to get that deeply attached that quickly. stronger emotions have always been built with time for me.

shutterbug63's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:57 PM
Very well said, MsVeeay, so many guys will talk the talk and say what you want to hear on the phone, but only time and meeting in real life is going to tell you for sure.

I hope it works out for you, Joyce. You're a sweet girl (lady) flowerforyou

whatagirlwants's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:57 PM
I'd say it's rare.... online isn't reality...even in reality how well could you know a person in a week?.....I'd be careful not to have the highest of expectations it just sets you up for huge disappointment.

wizewizard70's photo
Tue 10/16/07 05:59 PM
You can fall into a fantasy of love in a week, but true love... that, I think, would take some time.

Just remember, love is easily mistaken for lust... yes EVIL LUST!! hehe

Be careful, Hun!!

~Not so Wise, Wize

beccalee1980's photo
Tue 10/16/07 06:01 PM
in a week? no i don't think i could fall in love that quickly. true love like the others have said takes much longer to build than that.
Beccaflowerforyou

wouldee's photo
Tue 10/16/07 06:04 PM
That was quite entertaining last night LOL

nurjoyce's photo
Tue 10/16/07 06:06 PM
just a question

ideas of what? hmmm

mnhiker's photo
Tue 10/16/07 06:06 PM
Everyone's an actor.

And love is an illusion.

nurjoyce's photo
Tue 10/16/07 06:10 PM
okay---
sorry misunderstood you
i appreciate it

unsure's photo
Tue 10/16/07 06:12 PM
I myself don't think you can. In a week you have no clue what the other person is really like...they are still putting their best foot forward. It is so easy to hide behind the computer and not be totally honest with the other person.
I say go slow, if it is love...you have your whole life to devote to this person so why rush into anything? I have learned never to say the "L" word to soon because it is so hard to take it back. Once you say it..you feel trapped. If you don't feel the same way in a few months then you are going to hurt someone if they think they are IN love with you.
You know we tend to overlook a lot of things from the other person, so what you need to do is look outside of the box and really keep your eyes wide open!! I think if we all didn't fall for the whole "love is blind" thing, we all would kick ourselves in the butt for not noticing things sooner. Just be careful and don't be blinded by what you might think is love!!
Good luck flowerforyou

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Tue 10/16/07 06:13 PM
i dont think i could. I think i could reallt like a person and care for them but love has to come after u grow together and learn more about eachother.

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