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1 John 4:18
There is no fear in love: but perfect love casteth out fear, because fear hath punishment; and he that feareth is not made perfect in love.

taking a risk is part of life hon; everyone goes through it

I walk through the valley of Death,I fear no evil,my head held high,cause I know I am the meanest bastard in here.My Grampa told me that.No FEAR.Never let it control you.

All I can say is everyome at one time or other is afraid. Not so much of falling in love but more so of the rejection or when love dies for one or the other and the hurt from the relationsphip ending.


But in love there is no guarantee's what will happen. One must be willing to give there all at times it is as if walking into the dark without a flashlight. You must feel your way through.


One must be willing to give ones heart in order to receive anothers. It is not a situation you just stick the tip of your toes in the water for just a minute to see if it is the right temperture you either jump in and learn to swim or stand back and watc.

And it must be something that your willing to stick with. It cant be today I love u and want to be with u and the next its well I'm not sure what I want and back and forth either all or nothing.

As the saying goes I would have rather loved and lost love, than not have ever loved or know what it is to have been loved!!!

You can't be ready to give until you're ready to recieve. And you can't be ready to recieve until you face the simple fact that you can fail, and failure isn't such a bad thing. Unless your failure relates to a hand grenade, it won't kill you. You can always try again. And again and again, if necessary.

It's called risk. Unless you're willing to embrace the chance of failure, you can't gain a chance for victory. That's the bottom line. So until you're ready to accept that you might fail, don't bother looking. You'll just hurt yourself.

I always think "everybody is not for everybody" so rejection is really not personal. But I do know you have to put yourself all the way on the line in order to really love someone so if you are not going to do that it is better not to go there. Hope that helps

It sounds to me like you have some major self esteem issues. Lay aside dating for now and get back to working on yourself-you aren't ready yet. There will be plenty of time to get in the game once you've found your confidence.

Of course no one looks forward to rejection, I mean if you did... That probably means you're an emo.

it is okay to be afraid