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It couldn't be any clearer but I need to spell it out for some people.
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He said he like me so much but he only see me as a friend. He doesn't show any interest or talk about relationship and having a commitment. He wants to meet me when his coming in philippines for a vacation. My problem is he knows that i have feelings for him. I had no idea if he really wants to be with me or he just love the idea of having someone for a vacation, since he already know how i feel for him.
That screams like he is NOT INTERESTED because he gives her absolutely NO HOPE of his interest. He is using her for a place to crash for his vacation. you are hilarious with your assumptions. that's not quite how vacations in the Philippines work. |
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I make educated assumptions.
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He said he like me so much but he only see me as a friend. He doesn't show any interest or talk about relationship and having a commitment. He wants to meet me when his coming in philippines for a vacation. My problem is he knows that i have feelings for him. I had no idea if he really wants to be with me or he just love the idea of having someone for a vacation, since he already know how i feel for him.
That screams like he is NOT INTERESTED because he gives her absolutely NO HOPE of his interest. He is using her for a place to crash for his vacation. you are hilarious with your assumptions. that's not quite how vacations in the Philippines work. As much as i am aware how "interested" and "integrated" you are with our culture and way of life, and as much as i have seen you defend a few on here, which is appreciated....you have many comments and posts that are also very presumptive , generalized and frankly, misrepresentative. Not all, mind you, but it is there. Your point of view as a frequent expat is valued, but kindly refrain yourself from being the spokesperson of every citizen(especially women) of the philippines. Thank you. |
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He said he like me so much but he only see me as a friend. He doesn't show any interest or talk about relationship and having a commitment. He wants to meet me when his coming in philippines for a vacation. My problem is he knows that i have feelings for him. I had no idea if he really wants to be with me or he just love the idea of having someone for a vacation, since he already know how i feel for him.
That screams like he is NOT INTERESTED because he gives her absolutely NO HOPE of his interest. He is using her for a place to crash for his vacation. you are hilarious with your assumptions. that's not quite how vacations in the Philippines work. As much as i am aware how "interested" and "integrated" you are with our culture and way of life, and as much as i have seen you defend a few on here, which is appreciated....you have many comments and posts that are also very presumptive , generalized and frankly, misrepresentative. Not all, mind you, but it is there. Your point of view as a frequent expat is valued, but kindly refrain yourself from being the spokesperson of every citizen(especially women) of the philippines. Thank you. LMFAO  
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We don't know where this guy is from but he's from another country and he's met a Philipino girl online and agreed to go for a holiday over there and meet her. Why should he raise her hopes by saying that there might be the chance that it's going to lead to a relationship? He hasn't met her and he hasn't got to know her properly and he just knows that she's a young lady that's besotted by him and that if he says anything about there being a chance of a relationship that's leading her on a bit and a maybe is a yes to someone that just wants to hear yes.
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^ Omg! I am not going to repeat myself. Read above.
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He just need someone for a vacation.
Either you are available to entertain him or not. |
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He said he like me so much but he only see me as a friend. He doesn't show any interest or talk about relationship and having a commitment. He wants to meet me when his coming in philippines for a vacation. My problem is he knows that i have feelings for him. I had no idea if he really wants to be with me or he just love the idea of having someone for a vacation, since he already know how i feel for him.
That screams like he is NOT INTERESTED because he gives her absolutely NO HOPE of his interest. He is using her for a place to crash for his vacation. you are hilarious with your assumptions. that's not quite how vacations in the Philippines work. As much as i am aware how "interested" and "integrated" you are with our culture and way of life, and as much as i have seen you defend a few on here, which is appreciated....you have many comments and posts that are also very presumptive , generalized and frankly, misrepresentative. Not all, mind you, but it is there. Your point of view as a frequent expat is valued, but kindly refrain yourself from being the spokesperson of every citizen(especially women) of the philippines. Thank you. I have refrained myself I haven't mentioned the sex industry which may be what you are afraid to face if I reveal more. there's two cultures in the Philippines I can express my opinions on either of them. hiding it doesn't help. |
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He just need someone for a vacation. Either you are available to entertain him or not. Hey who uses my line 
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^ I repeat from the other thread, I need to send you a copy of "How to Win Friends and Influence People".
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^ That was meant for Mr. Charmer.
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I know exactly what I said that brought that response that offended you but its a fact of life. you have two cultures. both are real.
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^ That was meant for Mr. Charmer. are you trying to discuss anything here or just attack me :) |
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^ That was meant for Mr. Charmer.
are you trying to discuss anything here or just attack me :) You amuse me.  
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I make educated assumptions. what educated you to assume men trying to get free places to stay on vacations in philippines |
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Mon 09/07/15 05:53 AM
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He said he like me so much but he only see me as a friend. He doesn't show any interest or talk about relationship and having a commitment. He wants to meet me when his coming in philippines for a vacation. My problem is he knows that i have feelings for him. I had no idea if he really wants to be with me or he just love the idea of having someone for a vacation, since he already know how i feel for him.
That screams like he is NOT INTERESTED because he gives her absolutely NO HOPE of his interest. He is using her for a place to crash for his vacation. you are hilarious with your assumptions. that's not quite how vacations in the Philippines work. As much as i am aware how "interested" and "integrated" you are with our culture and way of life, and as much as i have seen you defend a few on here, which is appreciated....you have many comments and posts that are also very presumptive , generalized and frankly, misrepresentative. Not all, mind you, but it is there. Your point of view as a frequent expat is valued, but kindly refrain yourself from being the spokesperson of every citizen(especially women) of the philippines. Thank you. I have refrained myself I haven't mentioned the sex industry which may be what you are afraid to face if I reveal more. there's two cultures in the Philippines I can express my opinions on either of them. hiding it doesn't help. No. I am not trying to hide the various forms of human trafficking and sexual exploitation that happens here. I dont need to whitewash something that happens in all 3rd world countries. And i dont know why you think that was what i was referring to. I rest my case. Presumptive, generalized and misrepresented. |
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Mr. Charmer is just getting in deeper and deeper.
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^ That was meant for Mr. Charmer.
are you trying to discuss anything here or just attack me :) You amuse me. well u will eventually fall in love with me and ur heart will get broken cause mine is already taken |
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^ That was meant for Mr. Charmer.
are you trying to discuss anything here or just attack me :) You amuse me. well u will eventually fall in love with me and ur heart will get broken cause mine is already taken Don't remind me. The story of my life.  
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