Tulip. I am still laughing.
Jai Guy, I think it is wonderful you shared.

We women do not always hate out exes.
My first husband died,the father of my child.
My second husband, I recently contacted to extend the hand of peace.
That took two months after separation and it can be done maturely.
He tells me he respects me.
I tell him I care, with sincerity.

It is possible to part as mature individuals

Yeah! HW done! Now he wanted to swim. Just chilling by the pool! Aaaahhh! Yes, we will work things out about visits.

I'll post a pic in my profile soon.

Thanks for sharing that. That's tough! That's the best way though, with maturity to work things out. I feel good at the end of the day, being peaceful.

Tulip's news of the day.

Well now, my older brother's crazy psychotic ex girlfriend has landed herself in jail. Halle lujah!! We think there gonna keep her for awhile. So my brother may possibly get custody of his 7 y/o daughter.

A tangled web, but I'm hoping for the best for my brother! She has pretty much excluded him and us from his daughters life for 7 years. I may finally get to know my sweet little niece.

If it doesn't work out, at least he tried.

Sometimes things have a way of working out!

Oh how I love my red neck life!

At least it keeps my mind off my cancer!

OH my Friend when I read the news about your brother finally getting hopefully to have a relationship with his daughter breaks my heart I for the life of me will never understand how people can use a child as a pawn. I am thankful that there is a chance to have that relationship.

My son just got served papers for child support adjustment. She already gets over 1800 a month.. I mean really how much does she want. I know people up here in Alaska that live on that amount.ssshhhh...


Anyway what I popped in for was to share with you something I saw today out my window. She reminded me of you so much. A wee bit of a slip of a thing surf fishing out here. Oh Lord did she fight to bring her fish in over 30 minutes before she brought the Rock fish up to shore.
Her look of happiness and joy reminded me so much of you.

Keep on smiling you have such a smile of sunshine.

Holy crapola! 1800? How does he make it? This girl did the same to my brother. It's all about the money with some women.

I get $344/month for my older son & $386/month for my younger son. I'm fine with it. I'm owed $30,000 for my older children and I'm starting to get $150/month for that. I'm good with the $ I get - I don't want to break them. They have a life too.

Plus I'd rather my children live a humble life than one filled with excesses. They appreciate things more.

That's an awesome tale about that fish. It is great when you are trying to reel it in! Sounds like this trip is just what you needed. Makes you want to live there. You just feel so much different in a place like that.

Take care!!!

I hate to bring myself back into a well orchestrated post on wellness and prayers. But stupid me has to say something now n then right?

Now what was it i wanted to say? i forgot. English does that to me! well, well.

Oh yeah, i was reading about the psychotic ex-girlfriend & it sounded like something out of a Chase novel. Really, my God; if one has to hit the mother on the head so that the Dad can see his kid? whoa.

Why is she psychotic anyway?

Your problem is she's been milking your brother for $1800. Let me tell you why? Cause it's her first child & she's investing her youthful life for him; $200 for beer & $60 for camels and she tries to be a patient mom and a protective maid. She's probably 27. Runs on credit cards. Nickeling & diming comes after 2 kids and 35.

I can understand that you are beginning to hate my logic n commonsense. Good for your immune system.

Tulip, i suggest you quit being an accountant for other people; convert into a Hindu; and visit this poor, poor, psychotic girl and stretch your sisterliness. The best thing if you really love your niece is to bring forward her mama's love; God & Aunts are a distant third in your niece's life. haha

I should know. I was married to an accountant. haha

I always love your point of view, Jai! But that would be no, no and no for this girl. She needs to get her own life straight. I can't do that for her. I will always welcome her and let the past be the past.

Not to be insensitive but I have 3 three kids to keep straight and my health issues, which are my only concern at the present.

I'm starting to feel like we are married. Can you get me some milk on the way home, please?

Oh Annie, I'm such a weenie! I was going to put my foot down & tell him it was my weekend buttttt, my mouth opened up & and I asked my son if he would like to see his dad again this weekend. He said yes, of course. For now, I just have to put some fun in on Monday - Thursday. No biggie.

My ex is being super respectful and very nice to me now. Almost like someone had a talk with him.....????? Could've been my mom, my dad or my little brother. They were all sufficiently pissed off when he verbally attacked me. Someone has quenched his fire. Yay for me !!! Things work out in the end!

Time for tulip update.

Let's go back to Wednesday. I was walking my 8 y/o to the bus stop this morning when I stopped, looked down and lo & behold there was a dead duck laying on the driveway outside the gate, near the road. Then my son says, "Why did that duck cross the road?" Anyhow, I went and got my hoe (not to be confused with my real ho, phd) and tossed that little dead duck across to my neighbor's side of the road. problem solved.

Wednesday nite, I had to go to ER because I was having an allergy since Tuesday. And my temperature got kind of low, which gets me worried. If my liver ever starts to fail, that's the beginning of the end. So the doctor checks all my blood work and says everything looks excellent and told me to get some Benadryl. Now I am a zombie. It makes me sleepy. But so relieved.

Since starting chemo, my childhood allergies have come and my childhood lisp with S and Zs. I also have ringing in my ears, chemo side affect. But all of that is no biggie. I will see ear doctor soon. And I practice my Sally Seashore speech drill.

I'm so happy I had allergy attack because the bill might qualify me for Medicaid this month so I can get my medicine & medical supplies & lab work. I'll find out next week. Fingers crossed.

My mom & dad came for a visit today. That was nice! My mom will come back & take me to chemo on November 1st.

My exfiance picked up our son yesterday about 5:30. He called me by my name, asked me how I was doing and said I looked really great! I'm thinking,"Who is this schizophrenic person before me?" Anyway, my son was standing next to him and asked me to kick the soccer ball to him one last time before he left. So I carefully took aim, kicked, and that ball hit my exfiance square across his chest. Oops, my bad! We were dying laughing! (Maybe, I did it on purpose. ) Great end to the week!

And last but not least, I now weigh 108 pounds from 105. Hooray!!!!!

Can't wait for the Gators to play today!!!

Have a great weekend everyone! Thanks always for your kind words and support!

that's good.
the ex boyfriend is a good mate. he's the father of my twenty-seven year old
the ex husband well he's a totally different kettle of fish. I don't speak to him my son does when he feels like it
the girls have nothing to do with him. I have nothing to do with their relationship. I stay out of it. but my kids are late teen and late 20s.
I don't cry over it. it's a relief lol

I can't wait to get to that point! Will be such a relief as well! Kids are smart about these things.

Hope you have a awesome day girl~~

tulip said...
And last but not least, I now weigh 108 pounds from 105. Hooray!!!!!


my response is more french fries with the fish and chocolate cake for breakfast

Besides Chocolate Cake has eggs and milk in it's breakfast food

Tulip You crossed my mind today so wanted to leave this for you..

Thank you! That's so beautiful and sparklely! I love it!

Such a good plan!!

My nutritionist would agree!

That is super cute & super sweet!

Thank you!