Why is it when the going gets tough the guy ops out?

Why is it hard for them to commit even in the tough times?

Wow, those are some real hard questions Annie...yep, real thinkers. Tell ya what I'm gonna do....I'll give them a real long think like and get back to you. Yep, I'll dwell on the subject some.

Oh, would you look at the time. I've got to be going. I'll call you.

What? No, of course I have your number, don't be silly. Bye

Was that too much

I have one...
Why can't guys understand women??

It is a conspiracy, they can, but pretend they cant....

BECAUSE We have something that goes up and down all the time and women we men want women to be attracted to us! and ask us out or flirt with us, were atracted to women who are strong minded and willed, no what they want, girls who flirt i love it not too shy and dont make it feel awkward to talk to them, that makes me shy straight away.i learnt frm last relationship we didnt talk enough about the best feeling in the world!i should have said what i liked, we all know how good it is lets share more, guys and women out there! guys do have a lot to learn frm girls, were mayb not wired like them teach us!

...case in point...

do they discuss strategy in the men's room or something?

Hm....this one may know too much No1....we will have to keep an eye on her.

How can we tell the guys not to be egoistic?

I have one.....why is it that a LOT of guys my age have all the "toys" and expect us women to "have the same likes"?

(BEHAVE those of u who are thinking the WRONG toys!!!)

you mean like fast cars, bass boats, fishing rods that line the garage wall and a 3000 dollar gun safe for his hunting rifles with the gigantic scope and night vision?






when a man get s' up from dinner table without complimenting the meal or the cook and does not take care of his dirty plate..does that mean he is really just saying " please dear do not feed me anymore and let me starve or figure out how to cook for myself?"

My answer to the question what men want in a woman, to me is simple. A trusting partner. Someone that I have a solid connection with, including when we know we need time together and when we don't. To know, that in bad times you have a partner to lean on that has your back. To have full faith that when they need a night out with the girls, it's really to get out and relax and not an excuse to hook-up with another dude.

A partner is someone that doesn't walk in the door and sit down expecting to be served. I always helped with the meals, meaning more than just lighting the grill, but actually cooking. And if your clothes need washed, just don't do yours, do theirs as well. And if they start cleaning, don't sit and watch, get up and grab a rag and help. And if you see your man working on your car, grab him a beer out of the fridge and take it to him.

So again, a trusting partner that really appreciates the little things that each one does for the other. And also knows they are there for you through thick or thin.

You got it, TMom!!! I KNOW most guys like these things, but do I REALLY HAFTA like em too??!!....I don't want Him to HAFTA LIKE EVERYTHING that I'm into, so why do I??!

I DO NOT expect him to go clothes shopping with me...NOPE, NOPE, NOPE..that is for ME ONLY!!

because some men ( especially as they get older) seem to want the female equivalence of themselves...it is as if a woman is supposed to become a beer guzzling, hunting, fishing, 4 wheeling, hiking, camping, dirt bike riding, game watching partner who follows along in all the things he likes but is not supposed to have any interests of her own ...oh unless it's cooking, cleaning, sex



side note: yes I realize there are women that do like to do these things..no I am not one of them

Our brains are wired different than women's. You have to tell us what you think and what you want from us guys. We aren't mind readers.

In the way he talks to others that's how.