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...in a situation when you honestly have tried to give a hand, and at the end you ended up being the bad person?
What would you do in such a situation? would you just pray or say the hell with them. I don't know the real answer, but i would just pray. |
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what kind of hand?
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"hand" metaphore for help
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I knooooooooooooow that!!! But was it psychical help or you telling someone what to do with their life help?
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I'd probably let things settle down and give it time. Then, possibly, if it could be done... I'd try to talk to the person involved and see if a friendship could be salvaged.
And, if not, then learn from it and move on. One can only do so much before you feel you're chasing a tail around in circles. anyway, that was just a thought. Not so Wize, Wize |
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and damn me, and double damn me
i've learnt several years ago don't f1cking mess with business which are not mine but then again the a s s h o l e falls. |
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do you need duct tape???
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Well that is a loaded question all depends on what happen and the situation. First of all if they fooled ya then they must have lied to you in order for you to believe that. Hummmmm my self I have no room in my life for one that would drop that low and the lies they tell. Either be honest with me or I have no use for you. I would rather know what someone has done and deal with it then for them to have to point blank lie to me!!
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and double damn me
f!cking miguel learn u should not care if the world next to u falls, it's not ur damn business i swear i wanna grab my head and crash it against the f!cking wall |
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Yes sir, I have been there! My truck has a nice dent in the tail gate to remind me of what a peice of work he was! Long story short, he's gone! But it took me some time to realize that he was not for me!
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I think everyone gets in that situation at some point in their life.
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some ppl ask for your help and then they get upset when you give it to them because it is not what they expected or needed.
back away and say- i am here if you need me. |
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Its hard to be right all the time.......!!!
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I would like to say that I am responsible for what and who I ALLOW into my life!
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that is the damn problem sweet joyce
nobody ask for my help and i was a s s h o l e enough to open my big and stupid mouth wihtout being requested for |
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live and learn........weve all done it miguel!!!!
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just back out and say i am here if you need me
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the other damn problem gypsy is that this one i already know it
since i'm very young i knew not to mess with what i don't need to |
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I say if it was a friend .... they will get over it and realise you were simply doing what friends do ... trying to help. We all have our opinions and should be respected as just that... our opinions... they don't have to adopt it as their own if they choose not to. Just apologise and offer to keep your opinons to yourself next time if it will help save your friendship.
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