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Topic: What's Your Relationship Status?
shegdad's photo
Tue 07/28/15 02:39 PM
Edited by shegdad on Tue 07/28/15 02:52 PM
So I was bored outta my head and since I lost a special lady in
my life I just wanna help myself to be ok..
and I decided to create this thread..
well its easy, tell us your status

Single?
Married?
Dating?
Divorced?
Single parenthood?
Widowed?
Dating but not serious?
Married but wanna divorce?..
and more

Who knows? Dream guy or girl might be viewing lets make it
fun.

no photo
Tue 07/28/15 02:57 PM

So I was bored outta my head and since I lost a special lady in
my life I just wanna help myself to be ok..
and I decided to create this thread..
well its easy, tell us your status

Single?
Married?
Dating?
Divorced?
Single parenthood?
Widowed?
Dating but not serious?
Married but wanna divorce?..
and more

Who knows? Dream guy or girl might be viewing lets make it
fun.


doesn't the profiles kind of cover this

no photo
Tue 07/28/15 02:59 PM
It's a dating site so most are single and available, hopefully.

shegdad's photo
Tue 07/28/15 03:05 PM


So I was bored outta my head and since I lost a special lady in
my life I just wanna help myself to be ok..
and I decided to create this thread..
well its easy, tell us your status

Single?
Married?
Dating?
Divorced?
Single parenthood?
Widowed?
Dating but not serious?
Married but wanna divorce?..
and more

Who knows? Dream guy or girl might be viewing lets make it
fun.


doesn't the profiles kind of cover this

The profiles never cover the last 4 on that list .

shegdad's photo
Tue 07/28/15 03:06 PM

It's a dating site so most are single and available, hopefully.

lolz. Your opinion.

no photo
Tue 07/28/15 03:07 PM
I'm divorced. No children or grandchildren. Last date was 3 months ago. Looking to date for an exclusive relationship, but there is no man that I have an interest in currently. Need I say more.

no photo
Tue 07/28/15 03:15 PM
Oh, I see quite a few on here that say they are separated. That is married to me. Others are married and want to "chat".

blah..blah..'s photo
Wed 07/29/15 01:31 AM
how long after a divorce can you be classed as divorced?

i have been divorced 13 years now so am i single or divorced?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 07/29/15 01:40 AM

how long after a divorce can you be classed as divorced?

i have been divorced 13 years now so am i single or divorced?

Yeah, difficult at times. I used to always play it by ear.
I divorced my hubby 15 years ago, had a 10 yr relationship after that, but didn't get married though. So technically I could still say I'm divorced, lol.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 07/29/15 01:47 AM
There's never a checkbox / option for people that come out of a LTR, but weren't married.
To me that's 'separated', because you're not together anymore, and you weren't married, so you're not 'divorced'.

Many Dutch websites DO have the option that translates into "Split up".
Saying you're single when your in you're 40+ sounds kinda weird. Like you're some wallflower who could never land a partner.
If a man says he's single on a Dutch website with the option to choose for 'split up' or 'divorced' I avoid them. They usually have never been in a real relationship, are players, or not able to commit.

The US options had me confused at first, cos I AM separated --> I left my partner whom I never married. Resulting in Eharmony refusing my membership, saying I wasn't single frustrated

Would be much clearer if there was an option saying "Split up"

I divorced my 1st partner, split up with my 2nd, now I'm single.

blah..blah..'s photo
Wed 07/29/15 04:03 AM


how long after a divorce can you be classed as divorced?

i have been divorced 13 years now so am i single or divorced?

Yeah, difficult at times. I used to always play it by ear.
I divorced my hubby 15 years ago, had a 10 yr relationship after that, but didn't get married though. So technically I could still say I'm divorced, lol.

i just usually say i'm single
i presumed people who state divorced are/were recently divorced

so technically im divorced but single :)

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Wed 07/29/15 04:05 AM
Edited by debbie1980 on Wed 07/29/15 04:53 AM
never married and single :smile: flowerforyou

blah..blah..'s photo
Wed 07/29/15 04:06 AM

There's never a checkbox / option for people that come out of a LTR, but weren't married.
To me that's 'separated', because you're not together anymore, and you weren't married, so you're not 'divorced'.

Many Dutch websites DO have the option that translates into "Split up".
Saying you're single when your in you're 40+ sounds kinda weird. Like you're some wallflower who could never land a partner.
If a man says he's single on a Dutch website with the option to choose for 'split up' or 'divorced' I avoid them. They usually have never been in a real relationship, are players, or not able to commit.

The US options had me confused at first, cos I AM separated --> I left my partner whom I never married. Resulting in Eharmony refusing my membership, saying I wasn't single frustrated

Would be much clearer if there was an option saying "Split up"

I divorced my 1st partner, split up with my 2nd, now I'm single.


so in effect, you're single?
so why have a need for a divorced/seperated category? never understood that to be honest, i mean if you meet someone you would tell them if you had got divorced or seperated recently wouldn't you?

oh it's all confusing lol

shegdad's photo
Wed 07/29/15 07:19 AM

how long after a divorce can you be classed as divorced?

i have been divorced 13 years now so am i single or divorced?

For clarity sake, i guess Divorced will be far better. So,after 13years and still counting, what are your plans.

shegdad's photo
Wed 07/29/15 07:21 AM

I'm divorced. No children or grandchildren. Last date was 3 months ago. Looking to date for an exclusive relationship, but there is no man that I have an interest in currently. Need I say more.

Better Days lies ahead of you Dear.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 07/29/15 07:30 AM



how long after a divorce can you be classed as divorced?

i have been divorced 13 years now so am i single or divorced?

Yeah, difficult at times. I used to always play it by ear.
I divorced my hubby 15 years ago, had a 10 yr relationship after that, but didn't get married though. So technically I could still say I'm divorced, lol.

i just usually say i'm single
i presumed people who state divorced are/were recently divorced

so technically im divorced but single :)


Hummm been divorced for 24 years... still say I'm divorced when asked... Only married the one time~~~ Just have not found another I wanted to take that step with again.. Almost did once but well that did not work out..whoa

Even though I had dated one guy for 12 years.. It is what it is...

2kids and 5 grand kids life is good~~~~bigsmile

NorCalSwe's photo
Wed 07/29/15 07:30 AM
Divorced.

My problem comes with the question "Do you have any children?"

I have no biological children but I have a stepson that I love dearly. Should I just say I have a child?

no photo
Wed 07/29/15 07:33 AM
Married and loving it. :)

jacktrades's photo
Wed 07/29/15 07:48 AM
Single, looking but patient.

TMommy's photo
Wed 07/29/15 10:44 AM
divorced
I love kids
got a few of my own

just not sure I wanna take on
someone with young ones

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