I do it all the time. Haha

I'm pretty sure you don't want all my opinions on the subject, because you'll be reading all day.

Depends on what's motivating it.

Pure alcohol? Not a positive opinion.

Pure loneliness and self hatred hoping someone, anyone, will have sex with you so you can feel some small shred of esteem and desirability?
That might be okay, it can get freaky.

But if they're all "well, you have to do this, and this, and this, and don't look at me! Turn off the lights! and stop pushing my dog away he's just sniffing a stranger!" Then it's not a positive opinion.

Is it sex out of hatred for the world and a desire to give as many people an STD as possible? Not a positive opinion.

Is it sex with a bill at the end? Like "yeah, great, that was fun, you owe me $200 and an extra $50 for that last thing you did, freak." Not a positive opinion.

Is it bad crazy sex? Like "hurry up and finish so I can call my mom and tell her I'm in a relationship now!" Not a positive opinion.

Is it entrapment sex? Like "pay no attention to the hole in the condom. It's for aerodynamics." Not a positive opinion.

Is it just kinda fun sex? Like "that was awesome. Thanks for that. Well, I gotta be hittin the ol dusty trail now, thanks again, you were great." Positive opinion!

Is it jealousy sex? Like "I told my boyfriend to come knock on your car in 20 minutes! I want him to catch us! He'll be sooooo jealous! I haven't banged him since he got out of prison!" Not a positive opinion.

Is it internet sex? Like "well, I've got 2 more meets tonight, and you were the 3rd so far, so if you can keep the humping down to about 20 more minutes like the last guy I'd really appreciate it." Not a positive opinion.

Is it the other internet sex? Like "oh yeah, I know you haven't *** yet, but uh, I kinda lied on my profile, do you think I could move in with you for a few days?" Not a positive opinion.

Is it pizza sex? Like "I'm going to ride you so hard the friction heat is gonna melt the cheese on the pizza I'm cooking on your ballz?" That would be awesome.

Is it scary owwie sex? Like "ha! I knew I could get you handcuffed. Wait right there while I slip into something a little more leathery. Oh, gimp! Where's my new salted lemon rind whip?" Not a positive opinion.

Is it uncomfortable sex? Like "that's right daddy, oh you're making yo baby widdle girl so happy!" Then, well, not positive, but not negative, more of a little weirded out opinion.
Especially if she's like 63 and I was a little depressed that night and browsing craigslist hookups and she reminded me of my 6th grade teacher...wait...what was the question?

If you do it all the time, then what are you here looking for a woman?.

oh wait a minute I forgot the " haha"

Do you find that fulfilling or just a urgent need to please yourself?

Because I'll tell you straight out - I doubt that you'll be able to;

1. sustain a relationship
2. pleasure a actual woman {they'll be telling how 'WONDERFUL' you are and that's just a LIE} faking organism and trying to hold onto you when you just a QUICKLY looking for a place to happen
3. but perhaps you'll grow up and find that 'POKEN' your pee-pee into everything that lays flat won't provide you with much more then many trips to the Dr's office for some meds or a STD that will be with you the REST OF YOUR LIFE!
4. if you should ever - EVER fall in love, the odds and percentage of your prior 'slam-bam-thank-you-mamam' behavior will make trying to remain monogamous to the true love of your life --- pert near impossible!

Ask yourself this; are those imaginary notches on your belt for successes worth what the long term emotional and physical side effects are going to be?

I think it depends on the two people and what exactly they are looking for in the relationship. I think if they both want the same thing I say sure because you want to be with someone who satisfies in many ways not just sexually. There has to be a special connection. Honestly I think everyone is different and its no ones business except for the couple who are having sex or who or not.

If you are trying to confess your sins, then perhaps you should talk to a Catholic priest.

it's like scratching a itch...

It's quite fun I guess cuz I am also looking for same thing

Not good. I have boundaries.

Well my opinion is as follows;

1) I won't consider a relationship with anyone who doesn't even believe sex can happen on the first date.
2) I think the whole 'must be friends first' is a false construct.
3) This approach is nothing more than a playing for time mechanism for women who don't know if they actually want to have sex with you.
4) The reality is studies show that a woman knows within 30 seconds of meeting a man if she will sleep with him or not.
5) Also the 'I'm not that kind of girl!' position? Yeah, you are that kind of girl. The level of your kink is directly proportional to the level of emotional security and trust you have with the guy you are with.
6) Truest adage regarding relationships is the following, "Men need sex for love, women leave love for sex."

Unless you get that itch AFTER the sex....go see a doctor if ya do

You are very wise Mikeybgood!

Well, it is quieter.
Not so messy.
And only one hand to please.

With yourself I think they call it something else.

lmao
goods answer : )

my problem ! isn't sex before the relationship...it's that after we have sex !they want a relationship lol..

..hmm..really just one hand? lol