Topic: Why are You Still Single?
rug212001's photo
Thu 06/04/15 08:46 PM


hmmmm Good question. Oh, yeah, that's right. Because I live in the middle of BFE.

Never mind the fact that I'm a short, chubby, long haired, geek. That probably has nothing to do with it.


Perhaps you'd have more luck if you were to tell women, "I have abs." indifferent

(That's an inside joke that some site members might get.)


While I'm at it I might as well say I'm 6'4" and baseball player. noway

djgibson62's photo
Thu 06/04/15 10:05 PM
Because I can not meet a woman that is not a liar, cheat, is a rip off, not monogamous, loves money or wants drugs more than me, wants to beat on me, mentally and/or physically, goes "off the handle" at every little obstacle encountered in life, you name it all women have are problems that they can not overcome enough to have a normal relationship. I have been told many times that I am an attractive man, with a good or decent body, very even tempered, hard worker, dedicated to my job and my woman, never cheat or flirt with other women when dating or married to one. I have much experience meeting women and have never met one with enough good qualities to overcome the bad ones. Except if they were married, too young or too old, and why is it that so many good looking women are married to men with fat beer bellies? I never could understand that! Well I am still and always trying to meet a decent woman. Even letting many of the qualities that I would like slide and overlook that. I have a Ph.D. but do not work in the field that I studied in but the one thing that has eluded me is to meet the love of my life. Even after lowering my standards substantially. Well I am about ready to become a monk since it seems there are not any trustworthy women out there. I would be gay but I am not attracted to males.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 06/04/15 10:13 PM

Because I can not meet a woman that is not a liar, cheat, is a rip off, not monogamous, loves money or wants drugs more than me, wants to beat on me, mentally and/or physically, goes "off the handle" at every little obstacle encountered in life, you name it all women have are problems that they can not overcome enough to have a normal relationship. I have been told many times that I am an attractive man, with a good or decent body, very even tempered, hard worker, dedicated to my job and my woman, never cheat or flirt with other women when dating or married to one. I have much experience meeting women and have never met one with enough good qualities to overcome the bad ones. Except if they were married, too young or too old, and why is it that so many good looking women are married to men with fat beer bellies? I never could understand that! Well I am still and always trying to meet a decent woman. Even letting many of the qualities that I would like slide and overlook that. I have a Ph.D. but do not work in the field that I studied in but the one thing that has eluded me is to meet the love of my life. Even after lowering my standards substantially. Well I am about ready to become a monk since it seems there are not any trustworthy women out there. I would be gay but I am not attracted to males.


... and the grapes are sour, too. indifferent

mom333's photo
Fri 06/05/15 12:16 PM
I think I'm still single because i don't have a lot to offer and i have baggage. Well that's what I'm thinking these days lol

mcarr91's photo
Fri 06/05/15 12:52 PM

I think I'm still single because i don't have a lot to offer and i have baggage. Well that's what I'm thinking these days lol


I would say that many of us have "Baggage" as you say. The trick I think is learning how to accept and work with each others baggage. By no means is this easy, but it is a battle we all must face. As for not having a lot to offer I understand that myself, if your talking materially. The thing to remember is that "YOU" are the best thing you have to offer. If someone doesn't understand and accept that, then F**C em.

Just my opinion mom333.

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Fri 06/05/15 01:33 PM
djgibson62 stated >>>
Because I can not meet a woman that is not a liar, cheat, is a rip off, not monogamous, loves money or wants drugs more than me, wants to beat on me, mentally and/or physically, goes "off the handle" at every little obstacle encountered in life, you name it all women have are problems that they can not overcome enough to have a normal relationship. I have been told many times that I am an attractive man, with a good or decent body, very even tempered, hard worker, dedicated to my job and my woman, never cheat or flirt with other women when dating or married to one. I have much experience meeting women and have never met one with enough good qualities to overcome the bad ones. Except if they were married, too young or too old, and why is it that so many good looking women are married to men with fat beer bellies? I never could understand that! Well I am still and always trying to meet a decent woman. Even letting many of the qualities that I would like slide and overlook that. I have a Ph.D. but do not work in the field that I studied in but the one thing that has eluded me is to meet the love of my life. Even after lowering my standards substantially. Well I am about ready to become a monk since it seems there are not any trustworthy women out there. I would be gay but I am not attracted to males.


Not enough time in the day for this 2old2 broad to FIX ALL OR YOUR DATING ISSUES grumble
But let me say this --- your comment about "good looking women married to fat beer belly"...sounds to me {just my opinion here} that you might/just maybe/could possibly be...placing far to much energy on the physical attractive issue of 'LOOKING AT HUMANS' instead of >>>
A) getting to know them for their real truth factor - inner being
B) ergo = why you're so greatly/verbally disgusted with YOUR CHOICES
C) some 'WOMEN' marry their men because of their love - not because of their Mr. Olympic Hard Rock Body...

Good Golly, we all have our 'dating horror stories'; but good grief man --- you seem preoccupied with a 'get them before they get you' attitude now!
drinker Wishing you good luck on your dating endeavors! Where ever that leads you flowerforyou

JustScribbles's photo
Fri 06/05/15 01:42 PM


Ahem Mr. Scribs... my friend you are single because you are picky and any woman that gets you is going to be so blessed and we both know it...flowerforyou


I'm not so certain that any prospective paramour having a pulse qualifies as 'picky,' Ms. AK. tongue2


Annierooroo's photo
Fri 06/05/15 02:01 PM
Scribble
I agree with the part of any woman that gets you will be blessed. You are a really one of a kind bloke. You have a beautiful heart.
She better treat you good.
flowerforyou

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 06/05/15 02:01 PM
Scribble
I agree with the part of any woman that gets you will be blessed. You are a really one of a kind bloke. You have a beautiful heart.
She better treat you good.
flowerforyou

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Fri 06/05/15 02:04 PM
waving Hey Scribbs!!...The ladies have spoken...We think you're grand!flowerforyou

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Fri 06/05/15 02:15 PM

Because I can not meet a woman that is not a liar, cheat, is a rip off, not monogamous, loves money or wants drugs more than me, wants to beat on me, mentally and/or physically, goes "off the handle" at every little obstacle encountered in life, you name it all women have are problems that they can not overcome enough to have a normal relationship. I have been told many times that I am an attractive man, with a good or decent body, very even tempered, hard worker, dedicated to my job and my woman, never cheat or flirt with other women when dating or married to one. I have much experience meeting women and have never met one with enough good qualities to overcome the bad ones. Except if they were married, too young or too old, and why is it that so many good looking women are married to men with fat beer bellies? I never could understand that! Well I am still and always trying to meet a decent woman. Even letting many of the qualities that I would like slide and overlook that. I have a Ph.D. but do not work in the field that I studied in but the one thing that has eluded me is to meet the love of my life. Even after lowering my standards substantially. Well I am about ready to become a monk since it seems there are not any trustworthy women out there. I would be gay but I am not attracted to males.


You need to read your post back and imagine it came from someone else.
Maybe then you would see the problem.



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Fri 06/05/15 02:20 PM

waving Hey Scribbs!!...The ladies have spoken...We think you're grand!flowerforyou


I agree, I don't know him, but by what ive saw in the forums, he seems a lovely man smitten

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Fri 06/05/15 02:37 PM

Because I can not meet a woman that is not a liar, cheat, is a rip off, not monogamous, loves money or wants drugs more than me, wants to beat on me, mentally and/or physically, goes "off the handle" at every little obstacle encountered in life, you name it all women have are problems that they can not overcome enough to have a normal relationship. I have been told many times that I am an attractive man, with a good or decent body, very even tempered, hard worker, dedicated to my job and my woman, never cheat or flirt with other women when dating or married to one. I have much experience meeting women and have never met one with enough good qualities to overcome the bad ones. Except if they were married, too young or too old, and why is it that so many good looking women are married to men with fat beer bellies? I never could understand that! Well I am still and always trying to meet a decent woman. Even letting many of the qualities that I would like slide and overlook that. I have a Ph.D. but do not work in the field that I studied in but the one thing that has eluded me is to meet the love of my life. Even after lowering my standards substantially. Well I am about ready to become a monk since it seems there are not any trustworthy women out there. I would be gay but I am not attracted to males.



I am single because of men like this^^^^^ohwell

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 06/05/15 02:44 PM
Because I start to care less and less about wasting my time online to chat with someone to maybe get a date, then meet them and have an okayish time, but too often just boring f@rts with nothing to say.
To be honest, I got better and more entertaining things to do with my time.

Then there's a few left over that are either too short, too fat, or too far away.

Remaining a happy full-time single is becoming more and more interesting by the day :tongue:
And yes, I would love to have a great partner, but most of the time I simply cannot be @r$ed anymore to waste my time to maybe find that one special bloke.

Sileia's photo
Fri 06/05/15 02:52 PM
I am single because well what can I say I can't find a person that anything remotely common with here. And so my other reason I found someone they were still married and did not tell me that or anything.And so I made clean from him I never saw him again. And another reason I would liked them to a be well liked that of what I read in book liked that Spock world. I cannot find that person and that is other reason. And my reason is do I want to end up liked my parent in attempt to find one as the saying. My mom divorce my father and my sister father. In which case I am waiting for that person to a appear liked that in spock world. I know for fact I am waiting for someone with good personal and well that is I would rather have friendship and that why I stick with it.

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 06/05/15 02:59 PM
Never give up the one you might want could be right around the corner. Look at how many Mingler's end up as couples.

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 06/05/15 03:00 PM

Because I can not meet a woman that is not a liar, cheat, is a rip off, not monogamous, loves money or wants drugs more than me, wants to beat on me, mentally and/or physically, goes "off the handle" at every little obstacle encountered in life, you name it all women have are problems that they can not overcome enough to have a normal relationship. I have been told many times that I am an attractive man, with a good or decent body, very even tempered, hard worker, dedicated to my job and my woman, never cheat or flirt with other women when dating or married to one. I have much experience meeting women and have never met one with enough good qualities to overcome the bad ones. Except if they were married, too young or too old, and why is it that so many good looking women are married to men with fat beer bellies? I never could understand that! Well I am still and always trying to meet a decent woman. Even letting many of the qualities that I would like slide and overlook that. I have a Ph.D. but do not work in the field that I studied in but the one thing that has eluded me is to meet the love of my life. Even after lowering my standards substantially. Well I am about ready to become a monk since it seems there are not any trustworthy women out there. I would be gay but I am not attracted to males.


Yikes. Thanks for the warning .

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Fri 06/05/15 03:01 PM
I'm single because I'm different. I just haven't found someone who can handle my unique personality.

no1phD's photo
Fri 06/05/15 03:06 PM
..still single because..
walks into the middle of the room holdS the L sign up to his forehead...:angel:

SuzQ66's photo
Fri 06/05/15 03:15 PM

..still single because..
walks into the middle of the room holdS the L sign up to his forehead...:angel:



Lothario?