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Topic: I need a Dom ...
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Sat 05/30/15 11:07 AM
Give a chance 2 the person who cares and need u

dnuhz421's photo
Sat 05/30/15 11:08 AM
They dont know how to be honest either. Or at least thats what I find.





Not sure if I would have used word DOM but yes someone can stand toe to toe with me and look me in eye
understand I have low tolerance for BS and that I am strong because I have had to be to make it this far. not interested in a doormat. looking for my equal

Yes, indeed. And that sounds so easy and logical ... so why the heck is it so difficult to find such men?
Almost every single girlfriend I have has exactly this same problem with finding a suitable partner.
Almost as if in our age range this is just almost impossible to find ...
I think easier among the younger the generations.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 05/30/15 01:04 PM


No, I'm not talking about ropes, whips, chains and floggers ... sorry!

What I am talking about, is a type of man. A strong, empowered man who knows what he wants and wouldn't be deterred by a strong empowered, but sassy, bratty woman. The kind of guy that could easily handle and deal with such a woman. And that's basically the Dom kind of guy.
So someone who'd like and appreciate that kind of woman, so he wouldn't tire of her being that way. He'd enjoy it. Would simply chuckle and let her stew in it for a while or if it starts to bother him, give her a good erm... well, you know. Spanking and a bit more :angel:

May all sound a bit weird to some ... but I'm so independent and strong that I am beginning to wonder that maybe I'm just never going to find the man for me. So far never met a man that can handle me. And no, I'm not an awfully difficult person, just that I'm strong and independent. Yet I crave to find a man that can handle me.
I'd need someone that entices me, captivates me, so much so that I would want to make time for him. And a 'normal' average man doesn't do that for me. ohwell Would basically require a man who's stronger than me. (GOD that would irritate the chit out of me, lol, but it is what I need)

I'm beginning to think I'm doomed.

Wondering how many other women are 'struggling' with the same thing?



Crystal, you know I love you, right?....And you know why I love you, right?...It took awhile and some great correspondence (not to mention an outstanding private reading:wink:),,,,,but the reason I love you is because I "get" you!...I know that poetry is NOT YOUR THING, but several months ago I wrote this one and I believe it was unknowingly written for you:heart: ....It's titled "I Want A Man"....

I want a man who can see right through me
and still desire me
I want him strong and hard
I want to wear him like skin
on a hot summer day...
I want a man who is uninhibited
One who will celebrate my body
For the masterpiece HE sculpted with HIS eyes...
Oh yeah!
I want a man who knows it's ok to cry
He knows if life beats him down
He can lay his head upon my breast and be fed...
I want a man who is honest to a fault
Someone who is brave enough to risk hurting me
because he knows it will only make us stronger...
I want a man who will stand up to me and anyone else
who tampers with his happiness just because they think they can
I want a man who knows exactly who he is
with or without my approval...
I want him to be firm but gentle
when he tells me I am wrong
so that we can break our last record
when we come together
in the heat of makeup sex and urgency...
I want, I want,
I want a man!...
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That is beautiful, Leigh! Right from the heart love
Thank you!
flowers waving

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