Topic: I need a Dom ...
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Wed 05/27/15 07:02 AM

^ I had a similar proposition from a man. He is sweet, complimentary, worships me, intelligent, affluent. So what's wrong this time? He wants me to dominate him, cuckold him, as he termed it, with other men, and here's where it gets really depressing. He is interested in tasting my golden showers. Should I still give him a chance or is he too far off the deep end? ill

garterfreak's photo
Wed 05/27/15 07:03 AM
Oh come now and be a good sport...... At least you can save time running back and forth to the bathroom.

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Wed 05/27/15 07:21 AM



if you say it will not happen, it wont
<shrug>
i am about there myself

keep your head up
it could happen the next corner you come around



Hiya Crystal,

I kinda agree with 'DatWasntMe',
You are always so positive in nearly all your threads.

Don't change that positivity, stick with it!

There was a thread here somewhere in mingle which kind of said that positive thinking can make it happen and help you find what you want!

I couldn't find that thread so I cannot add it here.
But I did find these, to explain it better than my English lol...

http://mingle2.com/topic/238662

http://affirmationsforpositivethinking.com/blog/

Good Luck Crystal
smile2 waving



Thank you :D
I will remain positive, just that sometimes ...


There's someone out there for everyone, trust me ;)

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Wed 05/27/15 08:05 AM


What about a real woman? If you looking for a real man there better be enough real women to go around

I never said 'real man', I was talking about a specific kind of man.
The man that doesn't need tit for tat ...
Sorry if the subject hit a nerve
flowerforyou

I agree with this. In my book tit for tat is childish.

A strong man
Someone who will stand up for what he believes is right.
He would care about himself but will not be afraid to show just as much care for others.
Someone who will tell you what he thinks even if it may hurt but still be emotional enough and man enough to admit when he's wrong, and more importantly, apologize.

Confident, but also aware that he's far from gods gift.
I think it's also important to know that someone else's power does not lessen your own.

Another thing what I find a real man does is treat the waiting staff in a nice manner when in restaurants. May sound silly and I don't care, but nothing infuriates me more than when someone becomes an A$$ hole because they can.
That was just an obvious example by the way.

I guess I'm trying to say that If you're going to call yourself a man you better not act like a boy

Peace Yo


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Wed 05/27/15 08:15 AM



What about a real woman? If you looking for a real man there better be enough real women to go around

I never said 'real man', I was talking about a specific kind of man.
The man that doesn't need tit for tat ...
Sorry if the subject hit a nerve
flowerforyou

I agree with this. In my book tit for tat is childish.

A strong man
Someone who will stand up for what he believes is right.
He would care about himself but will not be afraid to show just as much care for others.
Someone who will tell you what he thinks even if it may hurt but still be emotional enough and man enough to admit when he's wrong, and more importantly, apologize.

Confident, but also aware that he's far from gods gift.
I think it's also important to know that someone else's power does not lessen your own.

Another thing what I find a real man does is treat the waiting staff in a nice manner when in restaurants. May sound silly and I don't care, but nothing infuriates me more than when someone becomes an A$$ hole because they can.
That was just an obvious example by the way.

I guess I'm trying to say that If you're going to call yourself a man you better not act like a boy

Peace Yo




Exactly. One must care for themself. If you one doesn't truly love themself, you can't truly love another.

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Wed 05/27/15 08:32 AM

pulls his stuffed teddy bear close into himself..... squeezes teddy bear tightly.. and whispers into its ear..
..... Mr boo bear... the women on here scare me.....scared ...surprised laugh :wink: :angel:
I here ya bro,,getting the phuck out of here before someone gets hert,,,,

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Wed 05/27/15 08:49 AM

pulls his stuffed teddy bear close into himself..... squeezes teddy bear tightly.. and whispers into its ear..
..... Mr boo bear... the women on here scare me.....scared ...surprised laugh :wink: :angel:




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Wed 05/27/15 08:54 AM
Edited by unknown_romeo on Wed 05/27/15 08:55 AM
Hey my first r�eply here simply said if you want a real man you should be a real woman too....as simple as that....its not my problem that whoever misinterpreted it into Something else & tit for tat nonsense....
its kind of like economics with a twist....



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Wed 05/27/15 09:38 AM

Oh come now and be a good sport...... At least you can save time running back and forth to the bathroom.


Now that you put it that way...

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Wed 05/27/15 09:40 AM

pulls his stuffed teddy bear close into himself..... squeezes teddy bear tightly.. and whispers into its ear..
..... Mr boo bear... the women on here scare me.....scared ...surprised laugh :wink: :angel:


What scares you exactly?

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Wed 05/27/15 09:41 AM

Hey my first r�eply here simply said if you want a real man you should be a real woman too....as simple as that....its not my problem that whoever misinterpreted it into Something else & tit for tat nonsense....
its kind of like economics with a twist....


We explained what we were expecting in a man. What do you expect in a real woman?

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Wed 05/27/15 10:11 AM

Hey my first r�eply here simply said if you want a real man you should be a real woman too....as simple as that....its not my problem that whoever misinterpreted it into Something else & tit for tat nonsense....
its kind of like economics with a twist....



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I would kindly ask you to read the OP again, and/or my reaction.
I never said 'real men', nor did I say anything like "all men are this that or the other".

I am talking about ME and what I, CRYSTAL, need and want in a man and the difficultly I have in finding such a man.

That is no reflection upon you, or any other man here, nor of men in general.

It is about ME not about you.
And me asking a question if other women here experience the same thing. Sure men can reply, but I don't see why it has to be about your hurts, bitterness and egos when I'm simply and openly tell something about ME.

The fact that it does affect you in such a way, and some other too, says something about you and where you are. That's why I said, sorry if it upset you.
I certainly don't need under the belt digs that I should be a real woman, basically suggesting I'm not.

What I posted was a deep, heartfelt thing, making myself vulnerable and open.
One of the few, or maybe even the only one, who seems to get that, is IAm.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 05/27/15 10:12 AM



What about a real woman? If you looking for a real man there better be enough real women to go around

I never said 'real man', I was talking about a specific kind of man.
The man that doesn't need tit for tat ...
Sorry if the subject hit a nerve
flowerforyou

I agree with this. In my book tit for tat is childish.

A strong man
Someone who will stand up for what he believes is right.
He would care about himself but will not be afraid to show just as much care for others.
Someone who will tell you what he thinks even if it may hurt but still be emotional enough and man enough to admit when he's wrong, and more importantly, apologize.

Confident, but also aware that he's far from gods gift.
I think it's also important to know that someone else's power does not lessen your own.

Another thing what I find a real man does is treat the waiting staff in a nice manner when in restaurants. May sound silly and I don't care, but nothing infuriates me more than when someone becomes an A$$ hole because they can.
That was just an obvious example by the way.

I guess I'm trying to say that If you're going to call yourself a man you better not act like a boy

Peace Yo



flowerforyou

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Wed 05/27/15 11:26 AM
Twiddling my thumbs here. Still waiting for the real men to answer the questions I asked them but looks like they are skirting around the issue.

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Wed 05/27/15 11:54 AM
I need a woman to dominate me. bigsmile laugh

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Wed 05/27/15 12:25 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Wed 05/27/15 12:25 PM

I need a woman to dominate me. bigsmile laugh

Well ... it ain't really my thing ... but I've been practicing flogging the last couple of days... Research for my book :angel: ... If I have to write about it, I gotta know what it's like and I'd never wielded one before. Must admit it felt kind of good to flog the chit out of my settee. Lot of dust came out, it looks a lot cleaner now laugh

So I can in actual fact offer a good flogging...

Totally off-topic in my own topic, how good is that! :tongue:
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Wed 05/27/15 03:28 PM
Can we have a group hug...just so you Ladies can feel what a real man feels like drinks

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Wed 05/27/15 03:28 PM
I thought the title got cut off of this thread and that it was about dominoes pizza...but since I'm here...

I'm usually "too much man" for most of the women I have been involved with. I can't be disrespected, henpecked, nagged, or "P" whipped. Just doesn't penetrate my armor.

However, I can take my own initiative, be reasoned with, asked, reminded, and disagreed with.

I'll listen to sass with a grin on my face cause it's cute.
I'll entertain well meaning advice although it may not affect my decisions.
I'll do my part in mutually supporting each other's endeavors and personal choices.

On the subject of "real women": I despise the phrase as much as I do "a real man". We're all real people and are who we are. What escapes me is how such discerning people can consistently choose the "wrong" partner.

Now before you try to snare me in my own trap, I might have always made a good choice and it was they who did not! :laughing:

And to quote my mother married to the same person for 50+ years, "A real man don't care what someone thinks a real man oughta do. He does what he thinks is right". I listened to and heeded these words because I was a boy when she said them to me.

But what does any of this have to do with being a love machine?

:banana:

I'm just a love machine
And I won't work for nobody but you (yeah baby)
I'm just a love machine
A huggin', kissin' fiend

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Wed 05/27/15 03:46 PM
there are men here who are confident.. know who they are.. know how to lead. Are not intimidated by.. anyone

And you ladies know who they are.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 05/27/15 03:48 PM

Can we have a group hug...just so you Ladies can feel what a real man feels like drinks

Yup ... group hug would be great!
flowerforyou flowers