i think that would be called "INTERNET DATING"..lol

Hummm all I will say is if it feels wrong enough that you are having to ask others to justify what your doing is right. Then what ever you are doing must be wrong. For if you were being honest with the one your waiting a relationship with then there would be no worries.

Sounds to me you have not been honest with them both are one or the other does not like the ideal of what your doing. With out Respect for the one you are talking to or being honest with them and yourself and being able to Trust them. You don't have much of a relationship in the first place. And surely can't expect the same from them that your not willing to give.

Myself if I'm talking to someone and they say that they have friends that are women hey who am I to tell them who they can talk to beside my bes friend is a guy and nothing but friends never has been never will.

All I ask is that the guy is to be honest with me, respect me for who Im , and to trust me I have his best interest at hand I don't do the play games. I'm too old for that. I will tell ya like it is.

But all I can say is something is wrong with this picture more going on than is revealed

or maybe they just want you to think than, smarter than we'll EVER give them credit for

Got an older brother, Goth?

I like the way you have been 'conditioned'.

I think "men" are probably more prone to adhd....at least it sounds like it.

(1) yes i have 2 older brothers, ones a real sissy, the other is merried to his own ego (2) i never implied gender in equivalance to itellagence. but my spelling dose help my argument

No, unless you are expecting something more with her. Oh, and if you are hiding this from your girlfriend then you might be hoping for something more.

It depends on the extent of the relationship you have with the lady you think you may be cheating on. You should be honest with both ladies first off. Just be open and honest...

i think it depends on your intentions.

Ummmmm yeah..... in my book.

Keeping something going just in case this don't work out, it isn't fair to the parties involved. You aren't giving of yourself 100% to one if you are keeping another warmed and primed.....it is either ALL or nothing, there is no in between...

Guess old fashioned in that department....lol

YES.
and I don't like cheaters.
If you have one girl, why on earth would you feel the need for talking to another?

I'd really re-evaluate my face-to-face relationship if I were you... and either NOT chat with the second or break up with the first
Of course, I'm not into heartbreaking.