Topic: FInding out Hubby is cheating
celticfairy's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:50 PM
Nah keep your dignity, let her have him.

Glass_eyes's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:50 PM
to Timorek: that's not *entirely* true

BonnyMiss's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:51 PM
Someone agrees to letting him go................Hello {{{{{ Fairy}}}}} flowerforyou flowerforyou

celticfairy's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:54 PM
Hi Bonny Miss :smile:

Txangela's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:55 PM
Gypsy 41 has the right idea! LOL!! If he is really not the sharpest tool in the shed.... you can buy him a cell phone with a GPS on it! Know where he is at all times.(cheaper than a PI!) Kind of funny! "Here honey! I bought you a new cell!" You can usually get more in the divorce settlement if you can prove infidelity. People who cheat deserve NO mercy!

Get the money FIRST before you openly bust him! Also... if the chick is married.... send a nice holiday card with their picture going into a hotel or something.

That gets an "A" in the creativity department. There is a saying.... "Hell hath no fury...like a woman scorned". Seems like they would get the message!

HAHAHA!


Cheers guys!

TXAngela

LLH5's photo
Tue 10/09/07 03:01 PM
I had a relationship with a married man. I didn't know he was married. Confront him.

freeonthree's photo
Tue 10/09/07 04:19 PM
If you found this out a week ago lets say, then you should have left him a week ago, period. Confront ? Why waste your time ? You should be out looking for an honest and loving man.

no photo
Tue 10/09/07 04:41 PM
Doing harm is not worth spending time behind bars...jail is ending your freedom and a chance to be happy with someone else.

lilwabbit's photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:14 PM
some women know the man is married, but dont care. i confronted him about it. he knew he was married.....ok actually im leaving him to be specific.....

LivingByBeats's photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:18 PM
wrong answer....
the easiest thing to do is to confront him, vent your anger, be upset and get all that done and feel just as bad as you did before...

how about this?

money
banking
house
cars,
all investments


move
them
to
your
name

then, get a restraining order to prevent him from coming to you house, have him served AT WORK to let everyone else konw that you're divorcing him

make sure also that you have footage...
set the boy up

and then take everything....

cheaters don't deserve any mercy at all....
they deserve to be castrated, and if its a woman, well... you won't want to know what i think of a woman who cheats....

so....

yeah....
confronting him gives you 20 minutes of joy and then you have to fight for everything.... wisdom says take everything first, an get all the information and act like nothing is going on and then do him cold and hard without a warning...

i'm half indonesian... never fcuk with an indonesian

no photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:21 PM
Mine was cheating with my (married) sister... The curb was a good place for him... LOL

lilwabbit's photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:22 PM
most the stuff is in my name (i saved the trouble before hand) and i do have a restraining order, cuz i had him arrested the other night.

LivingByBeats's photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:24 PM
good. now take him apart... don't waste your breathe on confronting him, use your energy productively and take him apart inch by inch, stone by stone, morsel by morsel.....

fully, wreck his life

i was married once... she cheated, she had no idea what hit her... not a clue...

i am as vicious as i am loving, and i love beyond life itself, however, if anyone crosses me? they'll never see it coming, because i can do it with smiles and hugs till the anvil drops

no photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:30 PM
I really like your idea. I guess he will never now what will hit him.

unsure's photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:30 PM
Heck if he is cheating...is he really worth all of the trouble? You should be glad to let him go! I think you are the lucky one to get rid of his rusty arse...so count your blessings.
I think I might talk to the other woman and just let her know that he WAS married and wish them luck. I have yet to see the day that any man is worth fighting over...he will end up with the one he wants to be with anyway~~so why in the hell would you give up your dignity? Let him go, I am sure there are plenty of men out there that will be happy to have you!!
Good luck flowerforyou

lilwabbit's photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:30 PM
i think we're thinking on the same wave length...he's gonna realize what a peice of s*** he is when im done

no photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:34 PM
Who says he has to be cheating with a woman??

stereotyping stereotypical response.....

Drop kick his arse to the curb and call my accountant, attorney and my auto mechanic.....
huh

MicheleNC's photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:39 PM
Get solid proof, change the locks, file for separation, move half of all assets into your name...

Then have a good cry, a bottle of wine and keep on keeping on!

Or you could listen to Living.

Been there, done that....it will surprise you to know that over 5 years later, I can call my ex-husband my friend.

flowerforyou M

Sunbuffgirl's photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:39 PM
Depends on your situation I guess

Either confront him (because she probably doesn't know ~ everything) or just leave it alone and move on

OR better yet

Like this crazy girl did here in Manassas , VA...cut off his thing and throw it in a field...LOL

no photo
Tue 10/09/07 07:43 PM
steal his cell phone while hes sleeping call the woman let her know whats going on and wait for him to call/see her again.
that ended that relationship, and restraining order was served to him while he was at work,now everyone knows how much of an @ss he really is.
so not only did he lose me he lost her and the respect of his co-workers.
haha all assets were in my name only because of his credit so he gets nothinglaugh laugh