Topic: FInding out Hubby is cheating
im2fun's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:23 PM
when I confronted my husband of course it was my fault, sorry I did not take him by the hand and dump him on her, he chose to do it. I was pregnant with our fifth child and after a few months he decided that maybe it wasn't too bad at home and asked to come back and of course I forgave him and took him back but it took a toll on our marrriage, (I never forgot) but we stayed together until he died. In reality I am glad I did even though I realize now I never really loved him. This time around I am going for love, I want to be "IN LOVE" and experience that once in my life.

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Tue 10/09/07 02:23 PM
uhhhhhhhhh no he would just think she bought him new underwear.......

You have to be smart if you really want to get him good......how about a little ex lax in that coffee honey???? oh but don't forget those cookies you like so much or maybe its in the steak sauce....devil devil devil

Glass_eyes's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:23 PM
To get solid proof, I would hire a P.I., or at least someone you know that has police experiance to find out what EXACTLY he's doing. If (i'm sure you will) you divorce him, you will probably gat a majority of the assets just because you have prior knowledge, a witness, and solid proof.

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Tue 10/09/07 02:24 PM
Everyone on here says they would confront the man because the "other" woman was lied to as well. Well, that all sounds real nice, but in every REAL-LIFE case I've seen (and I've seen plenty) the wife actually goes after the other woman, thinking that if they get rid of her,usually by performing a nefarious "act of revenge" on her, good ole hubby will come hopping faithfully back to wifey's open arms. Sorry ladies, but cheating men just adore it when two women are fighting over him. Fact of life.

Saying what you'd do in a given situation is one thing.
Doing what you said in a given situation is altogether different.

I eagerly await the attacksflowerforyou .

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Tue 10/09/07 02:24 PM
food colouring in the ky jelly honey???? oh it wasnt me....or was it???devil

ArtGurl's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:26 PM
uhhhh actually sometimes the woman does know he is married ... but it matters not ... it is him that you have the relationship with though ... so it is he who needs who you need to confront.

Glass_eyes's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:26 PM
lmao! I once put ex lax in someone's drink that I hated. They were on the crapper for a long time...

Clancybee's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:29 PM
Put sugar in his Harley's gas tank....NO WAIT!! That's toooo low!!!laugh

Glass_eyes's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:30 PM
lol!!!! you can smear poo poo on his car door handle

Timorek's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:31 PM
"first I would pee on his toothbrush!!!"

haha good start there! bigsmile

what comes next?

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Tue 10/09/07 02:32 PM
and they thought i was crazy....bigsmile

Clancybee's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:35 PM
Find a chemical toilet and push it over with the door facing down and him in it..

Glass_eyes's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:36 PM
you could douse him with molasses, then throw a huge bag of feathers at him.

carebear19622's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:36 PM
remember ladies Lorana Bobbit got off scott freebigsmile

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Tue 10/09/07 02:37 PM
nahhhhhh....Id never be able to eat a hot dog again!!!bigsmile

Glass_eyes's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:38 PM
or if he's in a porti-potty any time soon, you can push it over while he's in there...LMAO!

Clancybee's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:39 PM
Got any Salt-Peter??

BonnyMiss's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:46 PM
Show him the door, you're not running a "Rent- A -Husband " service are you ? If he is having a break from the marriage let him stay there put with the fancy piecegrumble

Timorek's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:46 PM
actually in USofA its a no fault divorce, both sides get 50-50% no matter who cheated what with whom etc etc, despite what lawyers tell you.

FYI people.

oldsage's photo
Tue 10/09/07 02:48 PM
Heard of where wife super glued his penis to his leg & butt cheeks together, real good. Emer room visit & chemical burns in both places.