Topic: FInding out Hubby is cheating | |
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What would you do if you found out hubby was cheating? Confront the other woman or him or both?
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the man would be the one to confront because often the poor girl has also been lied to and has no idea he is married. sometimes she believes it it a legitimate relationship so it wouldnt be the poor girls fault. and even if she did know and went for your hubby anyway. He's the married one so he's the one that should have shown restraint. so its all on the man.
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Confront him -- the women probably don't know he's married.
It's the same when they are single. Some men just can't commit. As soon as I found out -- I kicked his sorry ass to the curb. |
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Thx I think I am going to confront him and then toss his sorry ass to the curb.
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first I would pee on his toothbrush!!!
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Yep....definately him! She has no ties to you....he does!
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my question is if you are married what are you doing on this web site???
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LOL...gypsy.....
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i have been there, my ex cheated beforem during and after we got married and i put up with it.... that can explain why i havent got married again, but of course he did. and im sure hes cheating on her
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I don't understand why "some" guys have to do that -- do some of them need validation.
Real sorry you're going through this hon. Good luck on whatever decision you arrive at. |
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tarvin, this is a social sie, not just a dating one, there are quite a few couples on here
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Him...
The other party usually does'nt know. Usually lies are involved on both side's lying to wife and the affair. If you are going to confront him be prepared to have proof. Sometimes their best defense is- I'm not doing that. If you are in this situation... I am so sorry. Hope all works out for you for the better. |
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I don't condone cheating. But, I would want find out the reason for the cheating. Was something missing in the relationship that caused this?
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Is she married????
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the other woman never vowed
to be faithful to you whether she knew or not just a thought and yes i went threw it in reverse |
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Confront the man first, then the woman. Chances are he has lied to both.
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I went through it too. It was not pleasant to say the least.
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Buy them both a beer and wish them luck!!
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first of all........take all the money out of the bank and put it in your own separate account!!!! then rack up all the credit cards in his name........then dye all of his underwear pink......hmmmmmmmmm thinking of more
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Buy new mens underwear (the kind he doesn't wear) and leave them in his dresser drawer??
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