There is when the kids under 1 year old and no other way financially..you think every woman is a millionaire and can do as she pleases when there is a baby?

Some men become irresponsible when there are kids. These men can handle a partnership up until that point then they get scared and don't want to do what it takes, and they blame the woman for having kids and put everything on her, even when he said he wanted the kids in the beginning. I think men need to be tested and see if they can handle a pet before having kids.

Yes. I think every woman is a millionaire and can do as she pleases when there is a baby.....

the OP didn't mention children.

but yes even when the child is an infant, if you have to you find another way.
my mom wasn't a millionaire. my biological father (may he now rip) wasn't providing, but rather draining her meager earnings.

so for the best for the child she swallowed her pride and left

This makes no sense, she swallowed her pride and went to live on the street with her child?

she worked her butt off because she wasn't about to be on the street with not one, but 2 children, I was already on the way when she left.

the point is, she didn't complain. she didn't stay where it wasn't working out. I'm guessing you have more education than she did.
she saw it's not going to work with this man. my child needs me, so here goes and heaven help us.


to Kaymoza, sorry for being off topic. in the above conversation.
getting back to your topic, I honestly believe communication will help.

Did your mom get free daycare I'm sure she did?

you're sure of a lot of things you presumed to be true.
my mom was from a small backwards town in Mexico. she didn't get formal teaching beyond the second grade. she grew up helping my grandpa with field work and tending a couple of animals he had.
no she didn't get free child care.
this was in Mexico in the early seventies.
she was an outcast on most respectable jobs because she was a single mother, therefore WRONGLY assumed to be a woman of no morals. on top of that she didn't have much education.
she had to pay a lady to take care of my sister and do heavy manual labor while pregnant with me.

if you would like to know more, message me.
I won't keep stealing the OP topic.
once again I apologize Kaymoza

so today his friends came over,i took my bath and dressed to kill and then i notice no Keys on the door and its locked he help me look for the keys and his friend gave me the key from where my man hide it i unlocked and went out b4 i made it to the gate my man comes out saying i look sexy and no i cant go out alone looking like that and we can go out tomorrow.the man begged me to go inside and said all men even the blind ones will follow me like puppies.so went inside changed and slept.i guess will c what tomorrow brings

am wondering if this is real.u have another thread extolling his virtues and asking what to surprise him with yet this one is like a saga of how your man don't treat u right

I am totally under valued and under appreciated.. seriously..lol

aww here

no no.. I don't need sympathy..lol
. I understand.!.. .. all my years of being ignored in the sandbox.. is finally paying off..

It does keep it fun though doesn't it Lynn.The Op has 2 different threads,and this one has been hijacked as usual by another member to suit her own thoughts

For a second, I thought you meant me. Had to check. Whew!

well sweetheart it is usually you but not today..lol..

I love it when you call me sweetheart. Usually, you shove me down the cold, dark basement or run off to get milk and cookies from Mommy Dearest instead of saving me from the molten lava pit. Your flu must be going away. No longer so cranky?

its like jackanory for me lmao

hey iamwhoiam