First let me say "Hello All!"
Is anyone else finding the dating scene to be completely frustrating and a huge pain?
I've been single for 4 years because of the way men can treat women (women are just as bad)but now that I'm back at it I'm hating it!
Luck to all!!

Welcome


Very frustrating at times... but I am hanging in there.
Good Luck!!!

welcome and good luck...this site does help

Anh so far its been my expeirence none of these sites work O_o half the people you try to iniaiate conversation with either don't respond or don't bother reading the mail you send them but ya other then that have fun trying :)

Welcome!

Ya I totally understand. Its been a year, and I've been asked out (not exagerating) but a good 20 times. These men aren't attractive to me and have nothing in common. Half of them wanna long distance or want cam sex and that gives me some idea to as what men are about, not all, but perverts. I am bi but its hard to find women too. So ya I'll hang in there and just wait :) Goodluck to you though!

I'm feelin' ya! It's extremely frustrating! Yet, there's a small voice inside that continues to say, "Don't give up...he's out there looking for you too; and he's just as frustrated and confused as you are." I have to believe that. I refuse to resign myself to singledom...it's just not natural! Be encouraged and use the time to love yourself even the more.

Hello and Welcome to JSH

Hello and welcome to JSH

welcome and enjoy

WOW! You all responded really fast! Thanks for taking the time and sending all the smiles and flowers! I needed a bit of TLC and you have all given it!
Have a great day and will talk to you all later!

Hi Lurchs_sister,

What do you mean about "how men treat women"? I could tell you stories of the women I've met that would curl your hair... I think it's more about the people out there these days.

Hang in there - sometimes it's a matter of connecting, and sometimes it's just a matter of letting go. You seem like a nice person..your time will come. :)

Thank you Born in the USA!

You're right on the money! Women are nasty! Not all of us but I do know of some that make the rest of us look terrible!

hello..

Dating.....what is it?

And if it's so yukky why do people keep doing it?

I'm so confused...people say it's painful, and hertbreaking, and all sorts of stuff, and they keep doing it...

Makes no sense to me.

hey how is everyone tonight

A date?

What's that?

hey snow!
Jess, you are SO right! lol Just frustration coming out and you are all such good listeners!

well ya....but look at all the cool friends you're making while you wait...

here's an analogy, it's not like sitting in the doctors office by youself lol, When i started the online thing i was looking for someone. thats several years now, what i found was a cache of friends i'm so grateful for having met. Now i have ladies i date in "real life" <----I hate that description...because it asserts that my online friends aren't real. They are very real, and i'm very blessed to have them! Love will find you when you least expect it.

Hi mark I say stop looking so hard and then it won't be hard.

Hi, everyone. I agree, we are all looking too hard, just needing someone to love, a good connection, of any kind. Good things come to those who wait. That is one of the mottos I live by. There is someone out there for everyone, and it just takes time. This beats meeting drunks at bars any day!!