I've given up on mottos - moved on to mojitos. Much happier now.

Someone once told me that relationships were like a trip to the vet (no...really). Basically we go in like we've got a dog: you hold tight and he'll stay put...you command him. Unfortunately, relationships are more like taking a cat: you need to have a light touch, not a smothering grasp, or else you'll be lucky to pull your hands back in one piece.

You'll be good, don't worry. Just enjoy yourself and don't worry about the dating thing. Keep that happy smile and I'm sure you'll pull a good man.

But I have to tell you...that's a really great hat...I love it. *Never* lose the hat!

Im on about every site there is,, yea its frustratein, but @ tha same time I have fun!

i hear that criptonic. i am on just about all of 'em too. i haven't given up hope yet though

Hey All!
Thanks for the great feed back and taking the time! I'm in no way shape of form giving up and I'm to the point of not looking in the hard core sense of the word as I find it tiresome and irritating! I'm browsing and if some one catches my eye and we can be friends then that is really great as I feel you have to be friends first!

Born In The USA... don't worry about me losing the hat! My brother was a Marine before he died and lived and breathed it daily so the hat stays. SEMPER FI to all those out there reading this that will understand! God bless each of you and all my support to you!

good to hear you aren't giving up. maybe it is best to step back and just let it happen as it is going to happen. i agree, friendship is the best way to start a relationship. best of luck to u.

hello

yes- very frustrating

IT WAS A PLEASURE TO HAVE MET YOU

lurchs...

Hello and welcome to JSH, I hope you have a great time here...
It is soooo much fun!!!!

I take it he was the original lurch. I"m sorry for your family's loss, and I appreciate all that the good people in our

Weird - cut off my post in mid sentence. One more time...

I take it he was the original lurch. I"m sorry for your family's loss, and I appreciate all that the good people in our armed forces are doing to protect the people at home. You're right to wear that hat proudly!

ahh you made my day by saying women are just as bad as men. Welcome to the site and yes, dating sucks and finding someone you really want to be with sucks even worse. Wow I sound really positive.

welcome

dating sucks i wish i knew what women wanted

Women change a lot over the years - give it time. Right now for you I bet they're feeling free and not ready for anything long-term (especially in New Jersey). Just relax, don't look for ANYTHING and have fun.

When you're out tonight, ask the first girl you see to dance, and if that doesn't work, ask the girl behind her. Just tell them you just want to dance, that's all, and the fun ones will come forward.

Peace!