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. when your in love, with a selfish lover... how many times must I initiate foreplay... how many times must I knock on your door before you open it... how many times must I wait for you to finish eating ,before I....
. can satisfy my hunger... . just to have you get up and leave the table.... right when I'm just about to dig in.... leaving me to do the dishes on my own so to speak...lol ... selfish lovers.... how do you get them to stay, and help you with the dishes so .. to speak.... .... are do you just go get one of those automated dishwashers... and let it do the dishes for you..... and for the dudes substitute dishwasher for.. . out of house cleaning lady..lol .. .. .... . |
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nice metaphors : )
i am not one to beat my head against the wall for long i know no one is perfect , but if its not working out then off to try again some where else i don't like wasting other peoples time <shrug> |
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Honestly I do not put up with selfish lovers. If they are not into the relationship 100% I help them find the door...
I'm a true believer that you get out of a relationship what you put into it.. If your not willing to see that it takes two and both should give equally then it is time to move on.. |
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nice metaphors : ) i am not one to bfeat my head against the wall for long i know no one is perfect , but if its not working out then off to try again some where else i don't like wasting other peoples time <shrug> |
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Honestly I do not put up with selfish lovers. If they are not into the relationship 100% I help them find the door... I'm a true believer that you get out of a relationship what you put into it.. If your not willing to see that it takes two and both should give equally then it is time to move on.. |
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and just to clarify door is a metaphor for....hmm.. passion flower... which is a metaphor for..... hot wet mess.. which is a metaphor for...ohh.. you know what I mean..lol
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oh great!!. now I just turned door into some kind of sexual innuendo...
Lol.. reaching for your doorknob. slowly turning your doorknob.. he opens her door just a crack..lmao |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Wed 03/04/15 08:40 AM
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. when your in love, with a selfish lover... how many times must I initiate foreplay... how many times must I knock on your door before you open it... how many times must I wait for you to finish eating ,before I.... . can satisfy my hunger... . just to have you get up and leave the table.... right when I'm just about to dig in.... leaving me to do the dishes on my own so to speak...lol ... selfish lovers.... how do you get them to stay, and help you with the dishes so .. to speak.... .... are do you just go get one of those automated dishwashers... and let it do the dishes for you..... and for the dudes substitute dishwasher for.. . out of house cleaning lady..lol .. .. .... . WHEN A PERSON HAS NEGITIVE BELIEFS ABOUT THENSELVES AND OTHERS THEY WILL SABOTAGE THERE RELATIONSHIPS.....THE INTERNAL MESSAGE IS ''SEE I TOLD YOU SO'' ITS THE WOUNDED ADAPTIVE CHILD IN THEM...... |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Wed 03/04/15 08:42 AM
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Sparky are you being selfish again.?
... you're not just supposed to come and leave..lol.. just kidding . oops your .. message did not come on my screen until just now.. .. oh that just sounds wrong..lol.. .. you know what I mean.. 
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So
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So . another fine example.. 
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So . another fine example.. 
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Honestly I do not put up with selfish lovers. If they are not into the relationship 100% I help them find the door... I'm a true believer that you get out of a relationship what you put into it.. If your not willing to see that it takes two and both should give equally then it is time to move on.. Hahah the selfish ones will not find the door on their own if your doing everything and they are doing nothing they will hang around as long as you wait on them hand and foot.. 
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Yes.... but sometimes you need to show them the door.. show them how to go in and out of the door properly..
.... sometimes it helps to let them know there is a back door..ohhh..  
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Yes.... but sometimes you need to show them the door.. show them how to go in and out of the door properly.. .... sometimes it helps to let them know there is a back door..ohhh.. Humm at my age if they don't know those things by now they will never know... 
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I know selfish bastard right..lol
.. but to be fair women can be equally as selfish.... knowing your man desires you needs you hungers for you!.. and then you deny him.. ... or perhaps... when it comes to oral lovemaking...... you would rather not finish him.... In that orifice underneath your nose.... just to keep it PG..lol... but when a man gives your passion flower.. ... verbal attention....lol... he does not have much choice...mmm ..... my ex would stay up late in the home office . some nights.. ..... I would go to bed waiting patiently for her... and then finally get tired of waiting and go to sleep...... in my mind I thought I know she knows I'm waiting... to spend time with her... so what's the dealio.. .... sometimes I would confront her push the issue so to speak.. .... she would just play dumb I think...... but to her credit some days when I fell asleep waiting for her.... she would come to bed and wake me up in the most .. nicest of ways..mmmmm |
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I know selfish bastard right..lol .. but to be fair women can be equally as selfish.... knowing your man desires you needs you hungers for you!.. and then you deny him.. ... or perhaps... when it comes to oral lovemaking...... you would rather not finish him.... In that orifice underneath your nose.... just to keep it PG..lol... but when a man gives your passion flower.. ... verbal attention....lol... he does not have much choice...mmm ..... my ex would stay up late in the home office . some nights.. ..... I would go to bed waiting patiently for her... and then finally get tired of waiting and go to sleep...... in my mind I thought I know she knows I'm waiting... to spend time with her... so what's the dealio.. .... sometimes I would confront her push the issue so to speak.. .... she would just play dumb I think...... but to her credit some days when I fell asleep waiting for her.... she would come to bed and wake me up in the most .. nicest of ways..mmmmm It might not be a thing of selfish, it just might be that she was not a mind reader. Some folks just need a picture map to know what the other person is thinking. JMO |
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Sure women can be just as selfish as men can be... To me as far as the bedroom goes you should give what you receive... if it is not what you expected from them and they are only out for themselves it is another reason to show them the door.
Last guy I dated as far as sex he was one of those enjoyed what you did to him but refused to go there... Sorry I'm not going to give satisfaction if I don't get it in return... I did in fact show him the door for that reason and even told him so...
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I don't have that problem I like to "eat "...first... dinner that is..
. I don't know why I've always just enjoyed.... giving her....hmmm.. ... passion flower...satisfaction first.. . perhaps in doing this I am being selfish.... I guess I think if I.. satisfy you first then you should oblige me.. ..... god I'm such a selfish human being..lol |
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Most aggravating..when they leave the table
with your meal unfinished. Just because they are done with theirs. Shameful. Maybe realigning when dessert is offered could help? |
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