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Topic: Emotional cheating
alandryrn Joined Thu 02/26/15 Posts: 4	Mon 03/02/15 10:15 PM
Not a he. A she and a she. Good god I'm gay! Lol

hitmanhot Joined Thu 02/19/15 Posts: 3	Mon 03/02/15 10:16 PM
Sooo cheap

alandryrn Joined Thu 02/26/15 Posts: 4	Mon 03/02/15 10:17 PM
Thank you. Lol

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Mon 03/02/15 10:26 PM
There's no he involved. It's she She and she. it is funny you know to think if a guy was out hiking on weekends with a workmate- also a guy - and then went off to a bar - would we be jumping to the same conclusions ? just a thought.. I still stand by what I said before

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Mon 03/02/15 10:33 PM
Not a he. A she and a she. Good god I'm gay! Lol You never mentioned in your post, that you were gay? We just assumed it was a guy, you were talking about!

dyophysitism Joined Sun 02/09/14 Posts: 16	Tue 03/03/15 01:16 PM
What is the proportion of men & women in USA? A man is more likely to find a female than a female could. If he wants to have her, let her have her. Ask him if he wants you or not. Leave him only if he wants you to leave or he can't give you equal priory as he is giving her. A good partner is the hardest thing to find & shouldn't let go that easily.

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Wed 03/04/15 07:39 AM Edited by sparkyae5 on Wed 03/04/15 07:49 AM
My partner of almost 7 years has developed a very close relationship with a co worker. It started in the summer of 2014 with them going hiking on my weekends to work. And became a regular event that included an overnight hike in a small tent. They spend a lot of times together and my partner stated they have a lot of interests in common. We almost split up over the holidays over my jealousy. I went to counseling for my problem and last Wednesday, while I thought they were at a class of of town they were out to eat, had drinks and decided to go to a movie together. Neither of them told me where they were and didn't answer texts because they were at a movie... I flipped out and am leaving. That was a date and crossed the line because both know I have suspicions. I was at work 12 hours and had to run home to deal with our pets and chickens and she arrived home at midnight, defiant that I was pissed off. Am I making more of it than necessary? Or am I right? [/

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Wed 03/04/15 07:39 AM Edited by sparkyae5 on Wed 03/04/15 07:48 AM
My partner of almost 7 years has developed a very close relationship with a co worker. It started in the summer of 2014 with them going hiking on my weekends to work. And became a regular event that included an overnight hike in a small tent. They spend a lot of times together and my partner stated they have a lot of interests in common. We almost split up over the holidays over my jealousy. I went to counseling for my problem and last Wednesday, while I thought they were at a class of of town they were out to eat, had drinks and decided to go to a movie together. Neither of them told me where they were and didn't answer texts because they were at a movie... I flipped out and am leaving. That was a date and crossed the line because both know I have suspicions. I was at work 12 hours and had to run home to deal with our pets and chickens and she arrived home at midnight, defiant that I was pissed off. Am I making more of it than necessary? Or am I right? TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH A OUR MATE WE MUST HAVE EMOTIONAL CONNECTIONS THAT ARE BENEFICIAL TO THEM SEX ONLY WILL NOT WORK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!EXAMPLES ARE THINGS IMPORTANT TO THEM LIKE WORK, HOBBIES , AND PERSONAL INTERESTS....AND LEARN ABOUT THE WAYS YOUR MATE DEALS WITH THERE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS THAT ARE DIFFERENT THEN THE WAY YOU DEAL WITH THEM .......YOU ONLY GET WHAT YOU PUT INTO THE RELATIONSHIP...... TO GET WHAT WE NEED WE HAVE TO GIVE THEM WHAT THEY NEED.......

Boogieb63 Joined Tue 03/03/15 Posts: 1	Thu 03/05/15 09:03 PM
What u need is a man in your life honey , come to the coast I'll show you a great time , sorry she is a she a she shoulda been he , so for me it can be we , and she can stay with she , and will al be happy

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Fri 03/06/15 02:33 PM
hope you have managed to work things out to it's best conclusion alandryrn -

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Fri 03/06/15 02:53 PM Edited by red6mist on Fri 03/06/15 02:56 PM
Hang on a minute, your partner, it's a she right? HAHAHA I'm sorry, but it makes me laugh when same sex couples wonder why their relationships never work out. Just enjoy it while it lasts.

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Fri 03/06/15 02:57 PM
Hang on a minute, your partner, it's a she right? Haha! I'm sorry, but it makes me laugh when same sex couples wonder why their relationships never work out. I am usually laughing when a man wonders why his relationship has broken down. Usually laughing because he just has not been paying attention.. read the comments for this thread - you can see this happens a lot.

phoenix62 Joined Sun 03/01/15 Posts: 9	Fri 03/06/15 04:08 PM
Feeling jealousy sucks so much for me that it wouldn't be worth it to be in that relationship. I might be a bit jaded.

jeetu5368 Joined Tue 03/10/15 Posts: 1	Tue 03/10/15 10:03 PM
Hii helloo

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Wed 03/11/15 02:50 PM Edited by mysticalview21 on Wed 03/11/15 02:51 PM
I would say Op if you can make it on your own ...then kick her out and say see ya ...don't worry about me ... wow ...what a head trip she is putting you through ... its BS...time to think of yourself ... an get away from her ASAP...