Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person?

Stupidity

good luck

No its not......

Speak for yourself, as if it was me they would be shown the door permenently! Never again to return! Toughen up mate and get a backbone, eh?

I think for some people they blame themselves wondering what they did wrong to drive someone to cheat.For myself its a deal breaker for sure.

Often, it's less about being able to let a cheater go and more those who cheat are often emotionally abusive and are able to convince the other person that they could never find anyone else, let alone do better.

I don't know what you are going through, but have respect for yourself and let that cheater go.

Boot to the backside is all I can say.

Why is it hard? Simple, humans are naturally social creatures, so the idea of letting someone go is scary, especially if one actually cares for the person.

Having been through this very thing, I know what you mean, but how far is too far for you? This kind of behavior won't go away, an established cheater will always continue, especially if you keep forgiving them. So it is best to treat it like pulling off a Band-Aid. Sure, it's going to hurt when you leave them, but it causes much more cumulative pain to allow someone to treat you in this fashion time after time.

Best advice.

You know we can all tell you to kick them to the curb.. Which is where they need to be...

But in reality we keep them around cause we love them or scared that we can't make it on our own..... Only you can decide when it is time to let go.... One thing you have to remember is you can make it on your own. One day you will see what they did and no matter what you did, you could not have fixed the problem.

co-dependance.

The luvrv for her genitelia

Well see.....I know a guy who can "make this problem disappear for ya" and you won't have this issue.