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We are all people who are unique individuals, with our own styles, our own preferences. I think a 20 year old with a 50 year old is a stretch even for me, but a few years in difference should be insignificant. When i was in my 20's i dated and almost married a couple if guys who were 6 and 8 years younger. I couldn't marry them. It was more than the age difference. It was that we were both in our 20's and still screwed up. Now that we're older the guy who is 8 years younger has tracked me down through facebook. We live as far apart as you can get and still be in the same country, but we are slowly reconnecting. Just waiting to see how this all goes. He still thinks we should've married back then

I agree with ya. I think this is more predominant, too

I don't consider myself goodlooking and I get hit on by younger men alot. I don't go there. There are far too many hot men in their 50s to play with young boys!

You look great, girl. No worries

For the same reason that nice looking men over fifty go after younger women. It's an ego boost. [See? I still got it!]

It is the younger men that seek us! LOL Many men 50+ seem to be sedentary and lead lives as such. We (Many of us) don't. Please notice I said MANY, not all.

What i don't get are the women i see on here aren't bad to look at? Is it the distances that prevent them from finding someone?

I don't think that is true. I myself have age limits.

I have had a few younger guys message me and/or they're from the U.S. Bummer.

Having a younger spouse may mean you have someone to be your caregiver as we age.

Understanding the nature of it all.

Imagine back when Ugg and Waa were sitting in the cave around the campfire. Well, Ugg up an croaks leaving Waa all alone. Waa goes loking for a new Ugg and finds one that has more strength, better stamina and brings home better food. But the new Ugg has very little experience with life so Waa takes to him as a teacher. This makes Waa feel young and full of life - it is a good thing.

Older men have had a lifetime of being in control. They were the breadwinners for their families and such experience, while impressive, sends certain messages to other women.

See, why would a woman that has been enfolded into the care of a man but is now free, wish to once agian be stifled by a man's personification?

She has done that role. She sees younger men as a chance to teach experience. She feels important, maybe for the first time in a long time. She has something to offer and most men our age are rooted in life. We are Used to having things the way we like them.

If you think about it from an outside perspective, we are ******** when we age. What free woman wants to be shackled to our whims? Thus, Younger is the way to go.

Our job as older men looking for someone our own age is to be open to new things. Think of it not as a sacrifice of our methods but more as a broadening of our horizons.

See, A woman, no matter the age, need to feel immportant in a relationship. Not necissarily the better half, more of a new journey.
Every person has something new to give. Most women look at us as stuff shirts - Its our job to change that image.

Maybe it is because you dont need a shopping trolley to put your partner in when they are younger?

Actually the same seems to be true with men. I get more replies from youngsters that are my kids ages. The profile goes below my age to equal. Many of the women I have spoken with nearer my age are in poor health. I am not. My BP is 122/65. Pulse 66. My own teeth and what is left of my hair. I can do a 7km walk without keeling over. Most 70 yr old women I know can't do half of that.

With that said, I am uncomfortable dating someone 1/2 my age. It feels like pedophilia.

I am looking for a partner, not a project. I want to see the Butterflies in Moralia, it is 5k walk in and then back out. I enjoying repelling and riding my quad in the mountains and in the lake. So a partner needs to be able to keep up. I would like to be prodded into new things that I never considered.

Spook it's not just women looking for younger men, maybe it is women who are healthy and active and are Leary of old farts being a burden.

Ive always was attacked to older women and still am

See, why would a woman that has been enfolded into the care of a man but is now free, wish to once agian be stifled by a man's personification?

She has done that role. She sees younger men as a chance to teach experience. She feels important, maybe for the first time in a long time. She has something to offer and most men our age are rooted in life. We are Used to having things the way we like them.

If you think about it from an outside perspective, we are ******** when we age. What free woman wants to be shackled to our whims? Thus, Younger is the way to go.

Our job as older men looking for someone our own age is to be open to new things. Think of it not as a sacrifice of our methods but more as a broadening of our horizons.

See, A woman, no matter the age, need to feel immportant in a relationship. Not necissarily the better half, more of a new journey.
Every person has something new to give. Most women look at us as stuff shirts - Its our job to change that image.

How wise you are.. Hope you find someone!

I'm 60 and all I attract is younger men.. why , I want someone close to my age . ....single in Georgia

Well - at its most crass, a woman in midlife is at her sexual peak. Speaking for myself, I prefer fit fifties to unfit any age. Older men have life experience that I value. But if the young hunk wants to cuddle, bring him on!

;> H.

We don't always. Men nearer to my own age -53- have a better idea of the type of women they really want, and so do we, in regard to personality and the bedroom.

Please tell me you meant "attracted to"?