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Sat 10/31/15 04:13 PM
I have to agree. The when is not the issue. The why is. If the dating couple know themselves well enough to know they can (and want to) make the relationship work, then go for it.

For what it may be worth, I don't think long engagements improve the odds of success. What works is deciding ahead of time that divorce is not an option. It's either do the work necessary to make it work or get out the arsenic and hope you don't get caught.

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Sat 10/31/15 03:46 PM
Edited by Genealassie on Sat 10/31/15 03:47 PM


I don't understand why women are happy (at least initially) to date liars, cheats, thieves, rapists, murderers, and worse, but not short men.

Could someone Please explain.

Amazing how you portrait women as complete nitwits AND judgemental beings in one sentence?
If you feel that way about women, why do you even want to be with one?

Instead of being negative, just realize that you only need the find that one woman. So if 99% of them don't want you, that's perfectly fine. You are looking for that 1% that are interested in you.

And whether you're short, tall, skinny, fat, ugly or good looking, the odds are the same for all of us. Not because we all are unattractive to most, but because WE ourselves don't want to settle, but want (or should) be aiming for that one special person.
Getting negative about the 99% will do nothing for you, it will only work against you.
Negative people are not attractive, regardless of their height and looks.

So ... keep your chin up and keep searching!

flowerforyou



Very well said!

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Wed 10/14/15 07:12 PM
May I respectfully differ with your assertion that lurking is rude? When I see repeated visits, with no email or other contact, I send HIM a message. Maybe he's just shy.

What sort of life saving did you do?

Very politely, respectfully, and diffidently yours,

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Mon 10/12/15 06:38 PM
May we help you?

smooched

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Thu 10/08/15 06:01 PM
I am so discouraged. If it weren't for the scammers, I would have no conversations with anyone on any of these sites. Am I really too ugly to date at my age?

:< H.

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Wed 10/07/15 06:06 PM

dazzle them with brilliance
or
baffle them with bull s**t

That's the version I've always heard. laugh

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Sun 10/04/15 11:03 PM

Ive always was attacked to older women and still amlaugh :wink:


Please tell me you meant "attracted to"?

rofl

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Sat 10/03/15 07:18 PM


Yes, women do the same thing unfortunately. I reply to all, even if it's just to 'politely' let them know I'm not interested. It seems rude not to respond. I usually say, "Thank you for your note. I hope you find the right person. Best wishes."

If someone doesn't respond, it means they don't have the kindness or manners that you are looking for.

Maybe its unfortunate and maybe its rude....but I have known some women here to get over 100 messages in a day....so really....who has time to politely respond to all that...


Copy and paste works.

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Sat 10/03/15 07:00 PM
I teach nursing students and one of the things we teach is that if the nurse (or student) walks in on an older couple in a nursing home or other housing for those considered unable to care for themselves, the nurse is to apologize, close the door, and walk away. You might be surprised how often that happens.

Go granny!

laugh

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Sat 10/03/15 06:56 PM

yes tongue2


LOL! Me, too!

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Sat 10/03/15 06:47 PM

Do u still fill like having SEX.....


Of course! But there is so much more to a relationship than that. Hopefully the sex is the icing on the cake, not just sex for its own sake.

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Sat 10/03/15 06:42 PM
Well - at its most crass, a woman in midlife is at her sexual peak. Speaking for myself, I prefer fit fifties to unfit any age. Older men have life experience that I value. But if the young hunk wants to cuddle, bring him on!

;> H.

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Fri 09/18/15 06:08 PM

Why is it a nice looking 50's women always go after younger men?


For the same reason that nice looking men over fifty go after younger women. It's an ego boost. [See? I still got it!]

tongue2

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Fri 09/18/15 06:05 PM
Here's a thought. Perhaps a real man wants to go ballroom dancing so he can hold a real woman in his arms, decide EXACTLY where she will go and when, enjoy the red dress (see previous post), and get a good aerobic workout into the bargain.

Hmmmm? winking