"How many profiles are real in here? I am starting to wonder,
as most of the men that have been contacting me are Engineers
and widowers?".

Hey...widowed engineers need love, too.....

It shouldn't be a problem for those that actually want to meet people.

I've noticed its a lot easier to tell the real from the fake out in the open forums.

Right?!
Or deployed military.
I've wondered the same....

Don't fall for it ladies: it appears that pics of men in military uniforms are very easy for the scammers to get, so that's what they post profiles under. Tell them you want a selfie of them holding a piece of paper with today's date on it: you'll find out pretty quick...also check their grammar from their typing: you can almost hear the foreign accent through the screen: lots of "am so & so by name" & "will really like to" that's not how someone who speaks English as a 1st language writes OR talks.

Don't forget, they all have children "live away from home"... Most importantly, their first message to you will NEVER have anything from your profile (interests) referenced, since they did not (possibly can't read English too well) read your profile...it will just be a string of bad grammar & badly spelled compliments about how pretty you are. A message from a real guy will have something in it that matches your profile (including coming from a reasonably close location). Messages from guys who are across the country or even a couple of states away should be viewed with suspicion, if what you want is a ongoing dating relationship. Obviously someone in California can't pick you up every Sat. nite to go out if you are in New Jersey etc...

Be aware & good luck with the site anyway.

Well,
On this site,I have come to realize that,bad grammar doesn't really tell you if one is a scammer or not....i have met a good number with bad grammar,but as real as the Pope!!! Its usually those small small things that never add up,that show if one is a scammer or not!!

Like "Native American" yet they look more white than N.American..... Not knowing a thing about their said location......(one had stated"steak" as fav meal.....with no idea how he likes his steak),etc...

I do happen to be a surgeon. How dare you accuse me.

i left out that i tame lions as a side job, when i'm not traveling the world to save children...but that's part time as well, my real job is an astronaut... my wife died saving kids from a lion...

I am Native.. Canadian not American and they haven't the foggiest what a native is. They usually think a native of America. I have met one who was real.

the natives came from asia... just saying

All that I know is that mine is...I guess when you actually meet someone you can know for sure...

99.9% of the profiles be it men or women on this site are fake and are scammers and 99% are african- I am only posting in the forums and on these type of threads because I am sick of it. I am trying to meet a personal friend not be a part of or be around a group of people. If I normally care to post in forums- I post on pc gaming sites and then not trying to talk to others but am posting on a topic. It will not be long before regulars around here will start trolling and personally attacking me and get away with it and has already happened in other threads ive posted in on this site- I say something back to them I am reprimanded- the regulars do not have to follow the same rules I do and is pretty typical on most any site and is why I avoid forums in general if I can- I do not care about the lot of you and not trying to be your friends and am no 7 year old lil girl that feels I need feel popular or have a million fake friends- and would not talk to you or be around you in public and can care less about you- but sometimes I just have to stand and being a man and am no coward- I will.

Let me educate some fools that try and act like they know what they are talking about. You can talk to educators and or them that deal with mental health and retardation in the US- people that actually know what they are talking about and will tell you- boys generally in school do not do so well with english and or spelling and grammar etc- girls are much better at such- but boys are generally better at math and sciences and girls are not and is the facts- so for someone to come here and say you can pick out a scammer because he does not speak very well is just her opinion and stupidity- period.

But what is true is most american women are very good at english and speaking or writing properly- for one most read a lot- If an American girl or women is not well written it should send up flags. I have said in another post- I do not think you will meet anyone real on this site and them that say they have I will guess they work here and get paid to say such. I will also guess the average totals of them in the forums are just a very small % of the totals on the site as a whole- will guess less than 2% of the site hangs out in the forums and even then more than likely half of them are liar scammers also- just using the forums as his or her angle to try and get over on them looking for a friend or love.

Another thing/ fact- most americans and or kids are stupid and or drop outs- and is fact most that have stayed in school are cheaters be it boys or girls and their own families will help them cheat and will pay others to take college entrance exams etc for their kids- say they are trying to give their kids a leg up in life- seen it on the news them that stay in school some 86% of them cheat PERIOD. America use to be number 1 in the world for education but being liberals and dems run every public school system in the country and most college professors or are liberal dems we have dropped to like 29th in the world and they wish to lower it even farther and push kids through the system and teach ebonics and other stupidity- so poor english etc should be expected unless you are just retarded and again just talk to hear yourself speak.

You are an idiot if you believe the only honest people here on this site are in the forums- it is scammers just a waiting to prey on you- very lil is real on this site.. I am a typical man- am use to hitting on women and being turned down and any real man knows the game- many women will say no- keep at it one will say yes. Even fishermen can fish all day and catch nothing and go back the next day and or catch nothing but lil ones or crap fish- then one day you catch the motherload or or prize trophy catch- so I stick around this site and torture myself- might just meet a real and nice gal yet and become friends- but is depressing and am on the edge of closing my account- have been since after the first 2 weeks..

I will chit ya not- in the over 2 months I have been here Ive meet over 300 fake account and photo said women and 99% of them african scammers and have tried to run some 25 diff scams on me multi times. The 1 to 3 real woman I might have talked to are older and unattractive to me and too old to have children and or live in other countries and well I am not trying to let a woman in another country use me lie to me to become a citizen and not much trying to waste my time on either. Lucky for me and tho my english is not great- I am not stupid and will never send anyone a damn dime or nothing else and never met them in person before- but the scammers try anyway and tho I speak about it on my profile- they still try and run their bullchit garbage and try and get over and waste my time and toy with my emotions and feelings.

1 more thing- any that candy coat this site say the scammers is not a really large problem and or your best bet is in the forums- you should step back and take a long look at them and try and figure what they have to gain- maybe they are getting paid or something and or are waiting his or her chance to try and scam you. If 99.9% of the profiles and photos are fake- you can bet your tender azz at most 2% on the site and less than that in the forums are real- its simple math and laws of averages- which again boys and men are better at.

The accountant side is offended and would like to respond in kind.

The *itch side says: Don't bother, this is OBVIOUSLY not on open mind.

Good luck with your search, seems to be a bit challenging.

maximum indian girls are fake here

You leave out the correct spelling Moe!!!

My eyes are bleeding!

Eish,poor Tom(that look is totally a Tom and Jerry 's Tom look!!!!!)

I thought accountants couldn't respond in kind during tax season?