Thank you all for your comments. Actually I am glad there is a forum, it really helps. BTW, all of the sudden the mails stopped coming..and the few that have contacted me are now Divorced and there aren't mentioning any profession. Thanks again.

There is also one more way to tell, but that one I am keeping it to myself. I am sure some of you already know. Nonetheless its always good to remember the saying; If it's too good to be true, then it probably is.

Good luck in your search..Don't give up, just be smart about it...and one more thing, I just noticed there is a Mingle, and this is Mingle 2, is it by any chance managed by the same people?

"How many profiles are real in here? I am starting to wonder,
as most of the men that have been contacting me are Engineers
and widowers?".