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Topic: Can one improve one's personality?
red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Sat 01/17/15 05:19 PM
Even though I am extremely good looking, I still have a hard time bedding women. And I think it is because I have zero personality. I want to be able to charm women, dazzle them with interesting anecdotes and quick wit; put them under a spell, so they become drunk with adoration. I want them to give me all their love and affection, so they become my willing slaves.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 01/17/15 05:23 PM
don't we all... maybe look into magic, there might be a potion for that...

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Sat 01/17/15 05:24 PM Edited by m3k4y on Sat 01/17/15 05:27 PM


sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/17/15 05:24 PM
you already do those things misty. it's the lack of sincerity....

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Sat 01/17/15 05:25 PM
Instead of shooting for the moon, work with what you have. ANYbody can learn to listen better. ANYone can be kind, sympathetic, enthusiastic, restrospective. You cannot change them, that leaves just you. You could be alone, silent, in an empty room...but with the right look you would not be alone long.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 01/17/15 05:33 PM
Instead of shooting for the moon, work with what you have. ANYbody can learn to listen better. ANYone can be kind, sympathetic, enthusiastic, restrospective. You cannot change them, that leaves just you. You could be alone, silent, in an empty room...but with the right look you would not be alone long. i still say go to hogwarts and buy a potion... easier and faster

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/17/15 05:35 PM
Instead of shooting for the moon, work with what you have. ANYbody can learn to listen better. ANYone can be kind, sympathetic, enthusiastic, restrospective. You cannot change them, that leaves just you. You could be alone, silent, in an empty room...but with the right look you would not be alone long. i still say go to hogwarts and buy a potion... easier and faster I thought you were going to suggest a club and a cave....

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 01/17/15 05:39 PM
I believe there is NOTHING about ourselves we can't improve or change,, some things are just deeper engrained and harder to unlearn,,,, some new habits are harder to create and maintain,,,

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 01/17/15 05:45 PM
Instead of shooting for the moon, work with what you have. ANYbody can learn to listen better. ANYone can be kind, sympathetic, enthusiastic, restrospective. You cannot change them, that leaves just you. You could be alone, silent, in an empty room...but with the right look you would not be alone long. i still say go to hogwarts and buy a potion... easier and faster I thought you were going to suggest a club and a cave.... that's reserved for when the potions don't work...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/17/15 05:54 PM
Instead of shooting for the moon, work with what you have. ANYbody can learn to listen better. ANYone can be kind, sympathetic, enthusiastic, restrospective. You cannot change them, that leaves just you. You could be alone, silent, in an empty room...but with the right look you would not be alone long. i still say go to hogwarts and buy a potion... easier and faster I thought you were going to suggest a club and a cave.... that's reserved for when the potions don't work... I think I'd prefer charm and wit even if it's not sincere

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 01/17/15 06:04 PM
Instead of shooting for the moon, work with what you have. ANYbody can learn to listen better. ANYone can be kind, sympathetic, enthusiastic, restrospective. You cannot change them, that leaves just you. You could be alone, silent, in an empty room...but with the right look you would not be alone long. i still say go to hogwarts and buy a potion... easier and faster I thought you were going to suggest a club and a cave.... that's reserved for when the potions don't work... I think I'd prefer charm and wit even if it's not sincere that takes to long... women just don't see our charming, witty ways soon enough, so we need to speed things up a bit... it's for your own good...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/17/15 06:06 PM
Instead of shooting for the moon, work with what you have. ANYbody can learn to listen better. ANYone can be kind, sympathetic, enthusiastic, restrospective. You cannot change them, that leaves just you. You could be alone, silent, in an empty room...but with the right look you would not be alone long. i still say go to hogwarts and buy a potion... easier and faster I thought you were going to suggest a club and a cave.... that's reserved for when the potions don't work... I think I'd prefer charm and wit even if it's not sincere that takes to long... women just don't see our charming, witty ways soon enough, so we need to speed things up a bit... it's for your own good... nope. not buyin' it try that on some sweet young thang Moe.....

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 01/17/15 06:07 PM
Instead of shooting for the moon, work with what you have. ANYbody can learn to listen better. ANYone can be kind, sympathetic, enthusiastic, restrospective. You cannot change them, that leaves just you. You could be alone, silent, in an empty room...but with the right look you would not be alone long. i still say go to hogwarts and buy a potion... easier and faster I thought you were going to suggest a club and a cave.... that's reserved for when the potions don't work... I think I'd prefer charm and wit even if it's not sincere that takes to long... women just don't see our charming, witty ways soon enough, so we need to speed things up a bit... it's for your own good... nope. not buyin' it try that on some sweet young thang Moe..... darn, thought i had you...

subn Joined Sun 10/12/14 Posts: 9	Sat 01/17/15 06:10 PM
Hallo I like this u like

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sat 01/17/15 07:15 PM Edited by Dodo_David on Sat 01/17/15 07:16 PM
Even though I am extremely good looking ... Which is obvious from your current profile pic.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 01/17/15 07:43 PM
Got to be good looking cause he's so hard to see

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 01/17/15 11:10 PM
I think you are focusing on the wrong thing Red, You have a great personality your a very funny guy, just be yourself and make women laugh with your sense of humor and you will find that one special girl you are looking for.

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Sun 01/18/15 12:33 PM
Got to be good looking cause he's so hard to see

DavidCommaGeek Joined Thu 01/08/15 Posts: 537	Sun 01/18/15 12:48 PM Edited by DavidCommaGeek on Sun 01/18/15 12:48 PM
Define "improve". Some women WANT to be willing slaves. Out there somewhere is a woman who will be most turned on by your attitude and views of women, whatever personality you have. However, I don't think you'll find that woman on a dating/flirting/mingling site. Try a dedicated sex-site.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Mon 01/19/15 08:27 PM
Oh maybe one of these ladies will try to change us.