Topic: Younger Dating Old People. | |
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..i have no idea:-) You're 28, that's old enough to have an idea.... |
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..i think age doest matter if you feel in love..in my openion...jejeje
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..if you inlove no matter if you are old or younger as long are you in love..jejejeje..push mo yan....※※
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I am 34 and my husband is 66, I see nothing wrong with it as long as both are happy. To me age is and always will be just a number. |
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..i think age doest matter if you feel in love..in my openion...jejeje That's more like it Josie! ...Welcome to paradise where age is just a number...Oh yeah, you must be 18 to enter.... |
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I have married two guys both younger than myself. It wasn't a plan of mine..it just worked out that way. Do what makes your heart happy. Wishing you all the best.
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Hey you kids! Get of my yard! Little brats!I 've been with older women , been with younger , the wise person chooses someone that makes them happy , not because of a category . But what do I know? I'm old ( a really nice label to attach to anyone , women just love to be called this,good luck with that .... )
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Age gaps are fine for dating only...for a LTR though, not so much. The bigger the gap the greater it looms as the older person AGES FASTER than the younger. How many men want to wind up with their hot trophy wife (20 years younger)acting as their nurse instead of their lover? How many hot trophy wives will be satisfied at their sexual prime of late 30s with an impotent 70 y.o. (little blue & yellow pills not withstanding) who's in poor health to start with? This applies to the female older/male younger too & with even worse consequences since there is no female version of Viagra.
The male/female sexual physical love turns into something like a generic "caretaker/companionship" love which is a loss to the relationship as a whole. It's one thing if you started out w/no sex, but to have it disappear over time only due to the age of your partner? Aging together at a similar rate is far preferable in terms of what's going on with the human body. And yes...having an equal age partner who is suddenly unable to have sex (like having a car accident & becoming paralyzed) is putting the other person in exactly the same situation as above: one wants it & can do it & the other can't. "Love" does not satisfy every need & unless you can face the future without a sexual connection to you partner, well IMO it's not a satisfying relationship. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sat 01/17/15 12:16 AM
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It must be two days gone..... Here we go again..... Nope I'm out I prefer younger.. That's cuz you are old It's subjective! As the stomach turns through the cycle of life. We are human and subject to change...Navy girl just ain't changing your diaper,that won't change (thank you for the qualification {{{Navygirl}}} I'm old, and you call them cougars and I call them young chips or too young. I am old too and being an older person I like my rest. As a shift worker; 4:00 am is damn early and if some young guy kept me awake all hours of the night pawing me; he would end up getting my fist in his face or a knee in the groin. Us old folks need our sleep. Funny..like I said (in different words) your qualification will ALWAYS be taken seriously. .lol ..you probably qualify as a deadly weapon too. How's the kickboxing going? *EDITS IN* I See my auto correct screwed me on my first post (reference:chips/chics Like I didn't get my share at birth with dyslexia. ..oh that's not enough...lol Just got the new phone and haven't set it up yet..Think I'll wait 'till It gets a STD before I download free protection and such.. dumb-dumb I am loving the kickboxing. I had to stop for a while because of renovations but now back to my regular workouts. I hope life is treating you well. |
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Age gaps are fine for dating only...for a LTR though, not so much. The bigger the gap the greater it looms as the older person AGES FASTER than the younger. How many men want to wind up with their hot trophy wife (20 years younger)acting as their nurse instead of their lover? How many hot trophy wives will be satisfied at their sexual prime of late 30s with an impotent 70 y.o. (little blue & yellow pills not withstanding) who's in poor health to start with? This applies to the female older/male younger too & with even worse consequences since there is no female version of Viagra. The male/female sexual physical love turns into something like a generic "caretaker/companionship" love which is a loss to the relationship as a whole. It's one thing if you started out w/no sex, but to have it disappear over time only due to the age of your partner? Aging together at a similar rate is far preferable in terms of what's going on with the human body. And yes...having an equal age partner who is suddenly unable to have sex (like having a car accident & becoming paralyzed) is putting the other person in exactly the same situation as above: one wants it & can do it & the other can't. "Love" does not satisfy every need & unless you can face the future without a sexual connection to you partner, well IMO it's not a satisfying relationship. Best answer yet. You are a wise woman. |
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If you have feelings or you love someone unconditionally,age won't matter.. Loving someone and to be loved by someone is the most wonderful feeling..
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What is everyones thoughts about a younger man dating a older woman? |
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Edited by
Awatersign
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Sat 01/17/15 06:43 AM
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I don't want this guy KNOW WHERE around my grandma!!
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I think age age is just a number.We know of young people with very analogue thoughts and old people with very digital thoughts.So long as it's understood what brings you together and your expectations it's ok.
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Does it really matter what others think? Myself last one I dated was 12 years younger. Thinking he was in his 40's he should have his **** together lmao I was wrong that lasted 6 months...
But honestly it is all within what you prefer and who you want to be with.. And if the age thing bothers you.. |
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What is everyones thoughts about a younger man dating a older woman? it depends upon the woman and the man this topic comes up a few times a month, so I have responded before that it comes down to emotional compatibility there are some 'older' women with the emotional development of someone 10 or 20 yrs their junior,, who are a great match for men in that age range and t here are 'younger' men with the emotional development of someone 10 or 20 yrs their senior, who therefore are a great match for women in that age range if two people are on the same emotional level, it should work fine, and age doesn't guarantee that emotional level for me personally, as a mother, I would find it kind of gross to be out with anyone who couldn't be my oldest child's father(he is 22), no matter how mature they were,, |
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What is everyones thoughts about a younger man dating a older woman? |
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listen mate ,if your happy and she is happy with the situation ,why give a dam what others think ,its your life enjoy it ,hope it all works out
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Anybody here
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I think by far dnewnew has put this age gap conversation in to prospective. I think most of the people here are looking at small age gaps like a little over 10 years. I think the big problem comes when there is like a 20 or 30 year gap. dnewnew brought up a good point about the difference in libido as we age. I even said myself that being 50 and a shift worker; sleep is precious to me and I can't have some young man at 30 pawing me through the night when I have to get up at 4:00 am. I think most have no desire to be a babysitter to someone so young or someone very young has no desire to be a caregiver to someone who is so much older. Also; if you are being a caregiver; I think its a safe assumption to assume sex is off the table.
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