Topic: Younger Dating Old People.
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Fri 01/16/15 12:33 PM

..i have no idea:-)


You're 28, that's old enough to have an idea....:tongue:

JOSIEBETH's photo
Fri 01/16/15 12:39 PM
..i think age doest matter if you feel in love..in my openion...jejeje

JOSIEBETH's photo
Fri 01/16/15 12:43 PM
..if you inlove no matter if you are old or younger as long are you in love..jejejeje..push mo yan....※※

mikey5360's photo
Fri 01/16/15 12:51 PM

I am 34 and my husband is 66, I see nothing wrong with it as long as both are happy. To me age is and always will be just a number.
Haha...its a small but happy club here in mingle...flowerforyou drinker

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Fri 01/16/15 12:55 PM

..i think age doest matter if you feel in love..in my openion...jejeje


That's more like it Josie!flowerforyou ...Welcome to paradise where age is just a number...Oh yeah, you must be 18 to enter....laugh

Angeltripping17's photo
Fri 01/16/15 01:30 PM
I have married two guys both younger than myself. It wasn't a plan of mine..it just worked out that way. Do what makes your heart happy. Wishing you all the best.

kthnxbye's photo
Fri 01/16/15 01:52 PM
Hey you kids! Get of my yard! Little brats!I 've been with older women , been with younger , the wise person chooses someone that makes them happy , not because of a category . But what do I know? I'm old ( a really nice label to attach to anyone , women just love to be called this,good luck with that .... )

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Fri 01/16/15 01:59 PM
Age gaps are fine for dating only...for a LTR though, not so much. The bigger the gap the greater it looms as the older person AGES FASTER than the younger. How many men want to wind up with their hot trophy wife (20 years younger)acting as their nurse instead of their lover? How many hot trophy wives will be satisfied at their sexual prime of late 30s with an impotent 70 y.o. (little blue & yellow pills not withstanding) who's in poor health to start with? This applies to the female older/male younger too & with even worse consequences since there is no female version of Viagra.

The male/female sexual physical love turns into something like a generic "caretaker/companionship" love which is a loss to the relationship as a whole. It's one thing if you started out w/no sex, but to have it disappear over time only due to the age of your partner? Aging together at a similar rate is far preferable in terms of what's going on with the human body. And yes...having an equal age partner who is suddenly unable to have sex (like having a car accident & becoming paralyzed) is putting the other person in exactly the same situation as above: one wants it & can do it & the other can't. "Love" does not satisfy every need & unless you can face the future without a sexual connection to you partner, well IMO it's not a satisfying relationship.

navygirl's photo
Sat 01/17/15 12:04 AM
Edited by navygirl on Sat 01/17/15 12:16 AM





It must be two days gone.....
Here we go again.....
frustrated frustrated frustrated
Nope I'm out I prefer younger..:wink: bigsmile

That's cuz you are old

It's subjective! As the stomach turns through the cycle of life. We are human and subject to change...Navy girl just ain't changing your diaper,that won't change (thank you for the qualification {{{Navygirl}}}:laughing: waving
I'm old, and you call them cougars and I call them young chips or too young.


flowerforyou

I am old too and being an older person I like my rest. As a shift worker; 4:00 am is damn early and if some young guy kept me awake all hours of the night pawing me; he would end up getting my fist in his face or a knee in the groin. Us old folks need our sleep. laugh

rofl rofl rofl
Funny..like I said (in different words) your qualification will ALWAYS be taken seriously. .lol ..you probably qualify as a deadly weapon too.
How's the kickboxing going?

*EDITS IN*
I See my auto correct screwed me on my first post (reference:chips/chics
Like I didn't get my share at birth with dyslexia. ..oh that's not enough...lol
Just got the new phone and haven't set it up yet..Think I'll wait 'till
It gets a STD before I download free protection and such..slaphead dumb-dumb


I am loving the kickboxing. I had to stop for a while because of renovations but now back to my regular workouts. I hope life is treating you well. flowerforyou

navygirl's photo
Sat 01/17/15 12:07 AM

Age gaps are fine for dating only...for a LTR though, not so much. The bigger the gap the greater it looms as the older person AGES FASTER than the younger. How many men want to wind up with their hot trophy wife (20 years younger)acting as their nurse instead of their lover? How many hot trophy wives will be satisfied at their sexual prime of late 30s with an impotent 70 y.o. (little blue & yellow pills not withstanding) who's in poor health to start with? This applies to the female older/male younger too & with even worse consequences since there is no female version of Viagra.

The male/female sexual physical love turns into something like a generic "caretaker/companionship" love which is a loss to the relationship as a whole. It's one thing if you started out w/no sex, but to have it disappear over time only due to the age of your partner? Aging together at a similar rate is far preferable in terms of what's going on with the human body. And yes...having an equal age partner who is suddenly unable to have sex (like having a car accident & becoming paralyzed) is putting the other person in exactly the same situation as above: one wants it & can do it & the other can't. "Love" does not satisfy every need & unless you can face the future without a sexual connection to you partner, well IMO it's not a satisfying relationship.


Best answer yet. You are a wise woman. :thumbsup:

SirJP's photo
Sat 01/17/15 05:40 AM
If you have feelings or you love someone unconditionally,age won't matter.. Loving someone and to be loved by someone is the most wonderful feeling..

Awatersign's photo
Sat 01/17/15 06:33 AM

What is everyones thoughts about a younger man dating a older woman?
Uuuummmm,do you mean like the "elderly"?scared Shame on you sonny boy!!:laughing: :laughing:

Awatersign's photo
Sat 01/17/15 06:38 AM
Edited by Awatersign on Sat 01/17/15 06:43 AM
I don't want this guy KNOW WHERE around my grandma!!scared surprised noway rofl

say689rake960's photo
Sat 01/17/15 07:03 AM
I think age age is just a number.We know of young people with very analogue thoughts and old people with very digital thoughts.So long as it's understood what brings you together and your expectations it's ok.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 01/17/15 08:03 AM
Does it really matter what others think? Myself last one I dated was 12 years younger. Thinking he was in his 40's he should have his **** together lmao I was wrong that lasted 6 months...

But honestly it is all within what you prefer and who you want to be with.. And if the age thing bothers you..


msharmony's photo
Sat 01/17/15 08:38 AM

What is everyones thoughts about a younger man dating a older woman?


it depends upon the woman and the man


this topic comes up a few times a month, so I have responded before that it comes down to emotional compatibility

there are some 'older' women with the emotional development of someone 10 or 20 yrs their junior,, who are a great match for men in that age range

and t here are 'younger' men with the emotional development of someone 10 or 20 yrs their senior, who therefore are a great match for women in that age range



if two people are on the same emotional level, it should work fine,
and age doesn't guarantee that emotional level



for me personally, as a mother, I would find it kind of gross to be out with anyone who couldn't be my oldest child's father(he is 22), no matter how mature they were,,

markc48's photo
Sat 01/17/15 10:18 AM

What is everyones thoughts about a younger man dating a older woman?
How much money does she have. What does she look like. You mean you cant find a job?

spanners007's photo
Sat 01/17/15 11:05 AM
listen mate ,if your happy and she is happy with the situation ,why give a dam what others think ,its your life enjoy it ,hope it all works out

jerry44444's photo
Sat 01/17/15 11:55 AM
Anybody here

navygirl's photo
Sat 01/17/15 12:14 PM
I think by far dnewnew has put this age gap conversation in to prospective. I think most of the people here are looking at small age gaps like a little over 10 years. I think the big problem comes when there is like a 20 or 30 year gap. dnewnew brought up a good point about the difference in libido as we age. I even said myself that being 50 and a shift worker; sleep is precious to me and I can't have some young man at 30 pawing me through the night when I have to get up at 4:00 am. I think most have no desire to be a babysitter to someone so young or someone very young has no desire to be a caregiver to someone who is so much older. Also; if you are being a caregiver; I think its a safe assumption to assume sex is off the table. laugh