I see your point BUT...everyone has their own preferences & if a person's look (based on race/age/height) etc. is a turnoff then there's no point in going out on a date. I'm not saying that they are bad people just that I won't be attracted sexually & no amount of good personality, humor, character etc. is going to replace that. Too many people are going through life with partners that in all honesty they would describe beginning with the words "at least he's/she's": to me that means there is something lacking & they are settling. Age gaps are no different. I never want to be someone's "at least"...does anyone? I personally "only like" a certain physical type & that's ONLY what I find attractive. I'm not objectifying...are you objectifying if you don't find (fill in the blank)people attractive? I am inflexible - yes, but that's my issue, don't think that qualifies as a fetish either.

Or some might say its a preference. If a person isn't attracted to a young person then its there preference much as if the person is only attracted to certain race, hair colour, or body shape. Whether we like it or not; its just the way people are.

Oh, btw...I would have no problem keeping up in bed w/a younger man, but there's the issue of what's outside of the bedroom. I want a connection mentally & 10 years younger or more just doesn't hit the mark. That's an important factor in older/younger relationships (not an issue for a NSA, ONS, hookup etc.) What will you talk about at dinner? What can you share emotionally when the older person has already been through the issue the younger is having & is giving them advice like a parent?

OP, when you list off what you find attractive in a woman including the physical & the non-physical - does an older woman's specs check off all the boxes for you? If not...don't go there.

It is getting very acceptable now, yet challenging, I have been on another site and more where there are wonderful connections. One attractive 57 year old got one polite young Texan in his mid 20's very smitten.
Some young people were growing up with and getting more used to adults than their own age range.

Most young guys now are in awe at an older woman's capacity to open up her mind along with life earn confidence and wisdom. Some men who had relationships before are seeking new ones with another older woman.

I am and have always attracted younger men.

I just joined looking for one. I am 54 years old.

I used to be afraid of the younger age difference but once I actually gave a younger man a chance and I got to know him. We had fun. Opened my eyes. All depends on the man, the attraction, the maturity level for me. But I've dated 20 yrs younger. Had fun and developed a nice friendship.

I don't seek out younger men but they do approach me and often. I'm selective with who I respond to of any age. If they are just looking for sex then I pass them by. It's easy to figure out, not rocket science.

all i can say is,boobs are boobs.younger ones,older ones,....they're all good in my book

What will you do though when the younger guy wants to have a kid though? A bit selfish for you to have lived your life and just expect somebody to give up any dreams of fatherhood he might've had? There's no way i would do it, as i just became a father again and i want more if possible? Not going to get that from a woman in her 50's am i?

Fatherhood or a good father doesn't necessarily mean "biological father". Can go for adoption but then again, life is a choice, having a 50s woman has its pros and cons.....just like having a child is also a choice.....

What's up

Age doesn't matter, as long as you are both happy

Age doesn't matter, as long as you are both happy

seems like a thriller until her husband found her of adultery

Age doesn't always matter, I like attention, sometimes you see someone & BAM! lightening strikes! That's exciting, it'a chemistry, biology, voodoo, magic, that's what makes life worth living. I've liked all different ages, but I need attention, that keeps the flames of love/lust burning, now, where is he?

Age doesn't matter right?Ok lol check this out,lets say someone grandma,she's about 85 yrs old,say her and John Cena fall in love,or saaay,Ray Lewis,you happens to visit Grammy one day,and before you hit the door,you hear grandma screaming her head off,grandma ,oh,and it sounds like the bed is about to break in half,you still think age ain't going to matter there??

Got a younger single sexy sister in Texas?

I've dated both older and younger and at 10 year intervals both ways. I was 18 and dating a 28 YO woman and when I was 30 I was dating a 20 YO woman. We had a good time but the 20 YO had a habit of cheating and was dumb enough to bring the last *** to my house and start making out with him. Left so I wouldn't do anything stupid. I'm actually looking for a younger lady so I might be able to have a kid. At 50 I'm in better shape than most of the guys in their 40's because I do a lot of physical work. I do have a bum knee but I know others that're 20 years younger that have worse knee issues.

It's all about prospective and how you behave. We all have little things that can drive each other nuts at times but it's how well you handle the relations overall. I do my best not to be possessive or jealous but it can happen. My last girl would get me to fix her friends vehicles and then fume at me about it because I did. If I did ANYTHING without her she would get pissed and possessive and raise hell with me. I won't go into further details, but that was 10 years ago and I stopped dating because of her. I decided to try again so we'll see what happens.

it's not a problem if man younger than a woman.

yes mam your right, What matter is how you.feel the happiness inside your heart.

age doesnt matter when comes to love

The blindness will heighten your other senses and make the sex much hotter