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Edited by
unknown_romeo
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I am in a confusing situation and need any honest opinions from the ladies & your advice & help will be appreciated.
My ex contacted me again yesterday saying how much she loves me & wants to see me & wishes to be with me & all other things etc. She is the one that did not want to be with me anymore coz of certain complications regarding distance coz i was out of the country she lives, then she contacted me after that in October 2014 saying the same as yesterday & i told her it would be best if she does not contact me coz i needed to get over her. she did not contact after that. But yesterday i got an email again. Why is she doing this to me? . . |
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I am in a confusing situation and need any honest opinions from the ladies & your advice & help will be appreciated. My ex contacted me again yesterday saying how much she loves me & wants to see me & wishes to be with me & all other things etc. She is the one that did not want to be with my anymore coz of certain complcations regarding distance coz i was out of the country she lives, then she contacted me after that in October 2014 saying the same as yesterday & i told her it would be best if she does not contact me coz i needed to get over her. she did not contact after that. But yesterday i got am email again. Why is she doing this to me? Better question? Why are you LETTING her do this to you?... 
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Doesn't matter why.
The word, "no.", is pretty useful. |
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I am in a confusing situation and need any honest opinions from the ladies & your advice & help will be appreciated. My ex contacted me again yesterday saying how much she loves me & wants to see me & wishes to be with me & all other things etc. She is the one that did not want to be with my anymore coz of certain complcations regarding distance coz i was out of the country she lives, then she contacted me after that in October 2014 saying the same as yesterday & i told her it would be best if she does not contact me coz i needed to get over her. she did not contact after that. But yesterday i got am email again. Why is she doing this to me? Better question? Why are you LETTING her do this to you?...
. i've no idea what goes on in a womans mind, i dont know what this is for... maybe shes just messing with me |
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Let your no be no..
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I am in a confusing situation and need any honest opinions from the ladies & your advice & help will be appreciated. My ex contacted me again yesterday saying how much she loves me & wants to see me & wishes to be with me & all other things etc. She is the one that did not want to be with me anymore coz of certain complications regarding distance coz i was out of the country she lives, then she contacted me after that in October 2014 saying the same as yesterday & i told her it would be best if she does not contact me coz i needed to get over her. she did not contact after that. But yesterday i got an email again. Why is she doing this to me? . . 
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No one can do anything to you unless you allow them into your head space. The question isn't about why she is doing this to you... It is about why are you allowing it? Once you know the answer to that...all will be fine. I wish you peace and love always
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Doesn't matter why. The word, "no.", is pretty useful. No as in......? But im still wondering why shes doing it. Is it boredom? Why do women do that in such a situation |
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I am in a confusing situation and need any honest opinions from the ladies & your advice & help will be appreciated. My ex contacted me again yesterday saying how much she loves me & wants to see me & wishes to be with me & all other things etc. She is the one that did not want to be with my anymore coz of certain complcations regarding distance coz i was out of the country she lives, then she contacted me after that in October 2014 saying the same as yesterday & i told her it would be best if she does not contact me coz i needed to get over her. she did not contact after that. But yesterday i got am email again. Why is she doing this to me? Better question? Why are you LETTING her do this to you?...
. i've no idea what goes on in a womans mind, i dont know what this is for... maybe shes just messing with me Or you are ALLOWING her to mess with you? |
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Control. Usually she wants to pull strings and see if she gets a response of some sort. If she does...you still care. No one wants to think someone has stopped caring ...it hurts.
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I am in a confusing situation and need any honest opinions from the ladies & your advice & help will be appreciated. My ex contacted me again yesterday saying how much she loves me & wants to see me & wishes to be with me & all other things etc. She is the one that did not want to be with me anymore coz of certain complications regarding distance coz i was out of the country she lives, then she contacted me after that in October 2014 saying the same as yesterday & i told her it would be best if she does not contact me coz i needed to get over her. she did not contact after that. But yesterday i got an email again. Why is she doing this to me? . .
trying my best to do that and was doing fine until she started telling me. all those things and our memories etc |
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It ended for a reason ...are they still valid reasons? If so...then?
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I am in a confusing situation and need any honest opinions from the ladies & your advice & help will be appreciated. My ex contacted me again yesterday saying how much she loves me & wants to see me & wishes to be with me & all other things etc. She is the one that did not want to be with my anymore coz of certain complcations regarding distance coz i was out of the country she lives, then she contacted me after that in October 2014 saying the same as yesterday & i told her it would be best if she does not contact me coz i needed to get over her. she did not contact after that. But yesterday i got am email again. Why is she doing this to me? Better question? Why are you LETTING her do this to you?...
. i've no idea what goes on in a womans mind, i dont know what this is for... maybe shes just messing with me Or you are ALLOWING her to mess with you? I wouldn't know how im allowing that. She knows i don't mess around with peoples feelings or do such things & shes never done that to me before.... its all confusing |
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Control. Usually she wants to pull strings and see if she gets a response of some sort. If she does...you still care. No one wants to think someone has stopped caring ...it hurts. i would think so too. Why would it matter to her if i care or not when she wants someone else? |
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I am in a confusing situation and need any honest opinions from the ladies & your advice & help will be appreciated. My ex contacted me again yesterday saying how much she loves me & wants to see me & wishes to be with me & all other things etc. She is the one that did not want to be with my anymore coz of certain complcations regarding distance coz i was out of the country she lives, then she contacted me after that in October 2014 saying the same as yesterday & i told her it would be best if she does not contact me coz i needed to get over her. she did not contact after that. But yesterday i got am email again. Why is she doing this to me? Better question? Why are you LETTING her do this to you?...
. i've no idea what goes on in a womans mind, i dont know what this is for... maybe shes just messing with me Or you are ALLOWING her to mess with you? I wouldn't know how im allowing that. She knows i don't mess around with peoples feelings or do such things & shes never done that to me before.... its all confusing You're confused...because you care. And you wanna give her another chance. Just guard your heart. |
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She is doing it to see if you will take her back. Not sure the history and all but have seen it happen both ways.. They can't stand the thought of you being with someone else. Or maybe she found out that the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence and wants you back... Or she realized she really screwed up and wants you back.
Either way it seems since it is bothering you and you will not block her ect from your life.. That just maybe you still have feelings for her and part of you wants to go back with her..and the other is scared to try it again... You have to do what you feel is right with no what if's in the long run. Honestly the only one that can really tell you what her intentions are is her...ask her very simple..... |
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.. Honestly the only one that can really tell you what her intentions are is her...ask her very simple..... Use very small words. Have chocolate nearby. |
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Edited by
unknown_romeo
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Thu 01/15/15 05:05 PM
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She is doing it to see if you will take her back. Not sure the history and all but have seen it happen both ways.. They can't stand the thought of you being with someone else. Or maybe she found out that the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence and wants you back... Or she realized she really screwed up and wants you back. Either way it seems since it is bothering you and you will not block her ect from your life.. That just maybe you still have feelings for her and part of you wants to go back with her..and the other is scared to try it again... You have to do what you feel is right with no what if's in the long run. Honestly the only one that can really tell you what her intentions are is her...ask her very simple..... She made her intentions fairly clear yesterday. But when she broke up with me last year she told me to move on and to find someone else & also that she doesn't have those feelings for me anymore & does not want to marry me & other things. Only God knows the heartache, pain and hell i went through But shortly after she told me she wants all those things with me again. It has left me afraid to believe anything she says or ever trust her with all of me and my life which i gave to her loving her, Cherishing her & making her feel special all the time . |
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Thank you all for your kind advice. Really appreciate it. Love u all
 
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She made her intentions fairly clear yesterday. But when she broke up with me last year she told me to move on and to find someone else & also that she doesn't have those feelings for me anymore & does not want to marry me & other things. Only God knows the heartache, pain and hell i went through But shortly after she told me she wants all those things with me again. It has left me afraid to believe anything she says or ever trust her with all of me and my life which i gave to her loving her, Cherishing her & making her feel special all the time The way I see it if you go back with her and will always wonder if she is going to leave you again. Then don't do it.. It will only turn out bad... The one time I did think about going back with someone I figured I had to know for my self if the feelings were really still there. So yes I flew to where he was for a weekend.. Funny I went enjoyed my time with no regrets. Realized as soon as I got there the feelings just was not the same... and it was time to move on.. told them how I felt and never looked back.. You have to find what works for you.... |
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