finally realize, and admit they F up by letting you go?
Do you give her/him a second chance?
Or tell them to keep it moving?

Got a call from my ex-wife last night, who I haven't spoken to in almost a year. She went on and on about how much she's missed me, and how she realizes how badly she messed up. Lots of memory lane shte .

Long story short, she wants to hook up sexually, and see where it goes (her words).

Personally I don't hold out much hope of Us ever getting back together; however, sex with her is inticing.
Your thoughts????

Lol, the same things been happening with my ex

i never hooked up with her for anything.....instead i stopped communicating with her 2 months ago when she wanted to get back....




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DON'T DO IT!!!

Danger! Danger!

I kinda,agree with every one else,kinda lol,you don't have to tell us the whole story,but I would say it depends ,not on much,but say you had a hand it,maybe something you did that led to it !So if you helped push her away,then it may not be a bad idea to try and work it out,this is the one exception I would suggest!!

yup...but I also think that sometimes women will think they can win a man back with sex.....usually not the case.

I find warm socks, beer, and burgers have better results :)

and I think the OP is risking a lot of drama with this " enticement."

Yes true... Been in that situation few times...had the sex but it didn't bring back that special feeling ...

If it wasn't for your last sentence, I'd say find someone else to have sex with...But you did say you don't hold out "much" hope of getting back together with your ex...Before you decide, focus on the reason(s) she became your ex....That should answer any questions you have about getting back together with her in the bedroom or out...As for second chances, yes, I believe whole heartedly in giving (and receiving) second chances....However, third chances are an absolute no...

Think real hard about why you broke up in the first place.

Listen to what your brain is telling you..not body parts. That is usually a good indicator on where you want to go. Wish you luck.

*insert platitude here*

How do YOU feel about it Baldy?

If you'd want to work things out, and I gather you don't really see much in this, doing so via sex is the worst thing you can do!
And if you'd do that, it wouldn't be really fair, cos for you it clearly would only be about great sex, while she'd be thinking you are working on getting back together again. So you'd be using her.

Like others said; sex means totally different things to men & women. For women it's usually an emotional connection, for men not necessarily so.

I understand....were u hoping it would?

Generalizing a bit on that last sentence Crystal?

.....If you believe that^^, you may not be doing it right....

as an Aussie friend once "sarcastically" said... "Just get on your beck (back), and GRUNT ya SCRUBBA!"

If they're an ex, they're gonna stay an ex.
I don't recycle trash.

Shandaroo had a way with words.